Being the default Little Spoon or Big Spoon

  • TheAlchemixt

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    Jan 13, 2013 11:29 AM GMT
    Are you automatically defaulted into the Little Spoon or Big Spoon position while cuddling because of your size?
    Are you tall? Do the men make you spoon them, but you secretly wish that you were the one being spooned?
    Are you short? But do the men just try to spoon you because you're just so cute and little?
    Are you of average height and do the men that enter your bed expect you to do both and then fork afterwards?!?

    I am considered "short" 5' 7" and normally everyone is taller than me. For some reason whenever a taller guy tries to cuddle with me they all try to make me Little Spoon, wtf! The thing is I am a Big Spoon, I used to let guys just spoon me because I was the "default" Little Spoon but I'm a big spoon dammit, never again! I normally cuddle men so tightly right off the bed. I will Big Spoon anyone of any height! The next time someone tries to Little Spoon me I swear, I will choke their ass right then and there!

    How about you guys do you have this problem or the opposite of my problem? Do you have spooning problems? Share!

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    Jan 13, 2013 11:45 AM GMT
    I'm a versatile spoon, take either position. But being short myself there have been some really big guys with whom my being the small spoon felt more comfortable.

    Incidentally, when I top one of my favorite positions is big spoon, the bottoms just seem a little tighter.
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    Jan 13, 2013 1:52 PM GMT
    I'm the same height as you so by default, I would be the little spoon. But once a guy gets to know me, then I become the big spoon. It worked out very well.
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    Jan 13, 2013 2:03 PM GMT
    I'm 5' 6 and my bf is 6ft but i'm always the big spoon, always been that way and very rarely the other way round. However, I give off a lot of body heat (good around winter) so when it's summer, there's no spooning allowed icon_sad.gif

    EDIT: I'm also the top in the relationship, a little difficult when he's taller than me, but it works for us
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    Jan 13, 2013 2:19 PM GMT
    Arund10 saidI'm 5' 6 and my bf is 6ft but i'm always the big spoon, always been that way and very rarely the other way round. However, I give off a lot of body heat (good around winter) so when it's summer, there's no spooning allowed icon_sad.gif

    Yeah, seldom spoon here in South Florida at all, unless we get a cold snap and leave the windows open. My husband is a veritable furnace.

    But that helped during our stay up North recently, with temps in the single digits. The house was chilly, and while I was OK after a few minutes under the covers, the initial moments were ice. And following any trips to the bathroom, when I'd wake the poor guy with: "Help! I'm freezing!" with him the big spoon to warm me quicker. But it was nice to do a lot of cuddling for once. icon_biggrin.gif
  • SeattleGreenl...

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    Jan 15, 2013 3:36 AM GMT
    Tall
    Usually the big spoon
  • WMassguy

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    Jan 15, 2013 3:46 AM GMT
    I'm pretty tall but prefer to be the little spoon. So needless to say I've been the little spoon with guys shorter than me icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 15, 2013 3:52 AM GMT
    The two times I've cuddled, I've been forced into a big spoon position. icon_sad.gif
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    Jan 15, 2013 3:54 AM GMT
    This is determined on a case by case basis.

    The day you spoon with me is the day I'll make that decision. icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 15, 2013 4:58 AM GMT
    Being 5'5 I'm the default little spoon. But if I really like you, I will happily be your big spoon. And that's the day I know you will be my husband...icon_redface.gif
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    Jan 15, 2013 10:08 AM GMT
    I hate when people expect me to be the big spoon. I don't know what the fuck I'm supposed to do with my other arm and I can't sleep cause of it.
  • CityofDreams

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    Jan 15, 2013 5:11 PM GMT
    Vers Spoon
  • Hothouse

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    Jan 15, 2013 6:27 PM GMT
    Big spoon - for a while, then
    Flip -
    Little spoon.

    Like to be versatile - why limit yourself.
  • spacemagic

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    Jan 16, 2013 8:22 PM GMT
    At 5'7", I'm also a short guy. But I usually end up being the big spoon. The guy I'm seeing now is bigger and taller than me, so I expected him to default to big spoon. But we switch off, which is really nice.
  • spacemagic

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    Jan 16, 2013 8:24 PM GMT
    Arund10 saidI give off a lot of body heat (good around winter) so when it's summer, there's no spooning allowed


    Glad I'm not the only one! I'm like the Human Torch.
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    Jan 17, 2013 5:00 AM GMT
    Hothouse saidBig spoon - for a while, then
    Flip -
    Little spoon.

    Like to be versatile - why limit yourself.


    What he said. ;)
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    Jan 17, 2013 10:36 AM GMT
    At 6ft5/260 Im almost a foot taller and 80 lbs. heavier than my partner, but Ive been relegated to little spoon the same reason Ive been relegated to bottom; he's a midget with a short man complex, and a control freak who has to be charge. icon_lol.gif Bottoming, being little spoon, letting someone else drive, all that is stuff he cant get into because of his alpha male personality.
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    Jan 17, 2013 1:01 PM GMT
    I am such a little spoon by heart! I cant help it, I love being the little spoon.

    Thank God most of the men I find tend to prefer the bigger spoon, but give me the little spoon any day of the week!
  • Davidmtl

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    Jan 17, 2013 4:15 PM GMT
    Arund10 saidI'm 5' 6 and my bf is 6ft but i'm always the big spoon, always been that way and very rarely the other way round. However, I give off a lot of body heat (good around winter) so when it's summer, there's no spooning allowed icon_sad.gif

    EDIT: I'm also the top in the relationship, a little difficult when he's taller than me, but it works for us


    Omg I hear u on that. I'm 5'8 bf 6'2. I feel like a bulldog trying to top a Doberman. Lol.

    I'm a vers spooner. We got back and forth. It's great. But l love when he sleeps on my chest.