Jan 13, 2013 2:57 PM GMT
So, I met a bloke online...
SeattleGreenlake saidThanks, I appreciate your insight.
meninlove said I'd simply end it and tell him you think he's not ready to settle down.
Squintz saidI feel like this is why I don't make relationships online anymore. This is the exact reason that most of the people I do meet online don't work out. Meeting people in the real world has a bigger impact than just a face pic and some meaningless words.
And like meninlove said, I think you played it smarter than most people would. Even though you created a fake account to catch him (which, I still don't support), you had more than enough evidence to do so. It's not like you broke into his cell phone or started reading his emails.
You should try living in the real world. I know that I'm happier being single in the real world than even talking to the hottest guy online. Just something to think about.
kapow saidEnd it with him and don't tell him why, the not knowing a reason will drive him batshit crazy.
tuckers_kahuna saidKind of sounds to me like you got too close too fast, and he got a bit freaked and needed to back off. Getting close too fast is usually a fatal condition for a new relationship.
smartmoney saidOnline blokes are fun, eh? Until everyone gets tested and confirms you are all up on the whole monogamy thing, don't expect anyone to live in a monogamous world. Hookups like to hookup, especially online hookups. It's just too easy in this gay world to log on and find a cock sucking bloke. As you found in your creeping good times.