Sex issues: Can't top?

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    Jan 14, 2013 12:35 AM GMT
    What's my problem?

    All the guys i've been with i'd never been able to top when I put the condom on. I don't have unsafe sex (except once and it's been a while) and that was the only time I could top. I have no issues bottoming (i'm versatile) but I feel like i'm more a top considering that's what I see myself doing when I masturbate.

    I wanna explore all facets of sex with a man but i'm being blocked by not being able to get hard enough to top. As soon as the guy stop blowing me and I put the condom on I start losing wood and my dick is too floppy to penetrate.

    What's my issue? This keeps happening and it's starting to fuck with my self-esteem.
  • Timbales

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    Jan 14, 2013 12:38 AM GMT
    get a Fleshlight and practice using it with a condom
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    Jan 14, 2013 12:42 AM GMT
    condom phobia
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    Jan 14, 2013 12:43 AM GMT
    Most likely, you're overthinking your need to perform as a top. You just need to relax, go with the flow and think about how good it will feel to tap the hot ass in front of you.