Hothouse saidHe's a good looking man, and has a hot, tight body.
But, yeah, his voice and manners drop the sexy factor down a few notches.
If I had him in bed (yeah, right) I'd have to make sure his mouth was full so he couldn't talk.
(I imagine it's the same with a lot of guys on RJ - the hotness would diminish significantly if you met them in person.)
I wouldn't feel that way. I've been out and in the community more than half my life, and I prefer the company of gay men over anyone else. I imagine I'd feel much the same if I met the people I liked on RJ irl, and that goes for if I met DW irl too.
I agree, I'd rather hang out with gay guys - and I really don't care how they act, sound, behave - whatever.
What I was saying is that we get a mental image of someone when we see pics, read what they say about themselves, etc. However, when you actually meet someone, a lot of times your attraction to them will change.