I am a total mess- I need help!

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    Jan 16, 2013 6:11 AM GMT


    I am a TOTAL mess and I need advice how to change my life and re invent myself. I know I will get a job eventually and things will be better. But I don't want to push people away. I want to be more out going and social without the help of medication.
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    Jan 16, 2013 6:20 AM GMT
    yourname2000 saidIt starts with not hiding your profile, Revengeful2013, when you put out a tome like this.

    It's hard enough to get people to invest the time to address a stranger's deep emotional issues....when that person doesn't seem to have enough respect/trust to stick around for the answer, it hardly seems worth the effort.


    Well, I am an emotional mess so I rather not have my pic up.
    My picture is irrelevant to what I am dealing with.
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    Jan 16, 2013 6:33 AM GMT
    Revengeful2013 said
    yourname2000 saidIt starts with not hiding your profile, Revengeful2013, when you put out a tome like this.

    It's hard enough to get people to invest the time to address a stranger's deep emotional issues....when that person doesn't seem to have enough respect/trust to stick around for the answer, it hardly seems worth the effort.


    Well, I am an emotional mess so I rather not have my pic up.
    My picture is irrelevant to what I am dealing with.


    He's not trying to be rude you know. His point is relative because if we just have blank profile, we can not really have fixed reference point to assist you plus help u cope. You are depressed with anxiety but please try to rise out of your depression. Believe you me, I am not in particular happy place in my own life but I make do somehow. It can be quite scary and paralyzing but take a deep breath. See if there any sort of social assistant therapist that you can talk with it. Better yet talk with your family member. No need to reveal our orientation but try to see if they can give you wisdom.

    Its really best that try have a more concrete profile. This can be a place of sanctuary.

    EDIT:

    Well you and I tried.
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    Jan 16, 2013 6:52 AM GMT
    A cheerier username wouldn't hurt.
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    Jan 16, 2013 7:03 AM GMT
    Fivealive said
    Revengeful2013 said
    yourname2000 saidIt starts with not hiding your profile, Revengeful2013, when you put out a tome like this.

    It's hard enough to get people to invest the time to address a stranger's deep emotional issues....when that person doesn't seem to have enough respect/trust to stick around for the answer, it hardly seems worth the effort.


    Well, I am an emotional mess so I rather not have my pic up.
    My picture is irrelevant to what I am dealing with.


    He's not trying to be rude you know. His point is relative because if we just have blank profile, we can not really have fixed reference point to assist you plus help u cope. You are depressed with anxiety but please try to rise out of your depression. Believe you me, I am not in particular happy place in my own life but I make do somehow. It can be quite scary and paralyzing but take a deep breath. See if there any sort of social assistant therapist that you can talk with it. Better yet talk with your family member. No need to reveal our orientation but try to see if they can give you wisdom.

    Its really best that try have a more concrete profile. This can be a place of sanctuary.

    EDIT:

    Well you and I tried.




    Yeah I know he is not being rude. I understand where he is coming from. I don't want someone to connect my forum posts with my thread to find out who I am. Didn't think it was a big deal as I was very detailed with my post and what I am going via but I understand why he would want a profile instead of some random hidden member. I just want to breath and live a normal life. I know we all have our challenges in life and there are people who are battling even more severe anxieties than I am. I know my problems but I want to be will-full and fix them instead of playing the victim card. I just don't know where to start. I don't want to go under medication as I will be dependent on it. I want a permanent cure even if it doesn't completely rid of my anxiety. Enough to that It is not ruining my life. My family doesn't understand emotional problems. They would probably crack jokes. Thanks for the help!

    I know this place can be a sanctuary. This forum is filled with men with different walk of life and I wanted their guidance.

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    Jan 16, 2013 7:09 AM GMT
    Narciso saidA cheerier username wouldn't hurt.



    LOL.