Is it me? Or are guys Weird?

  • Madmuscle

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    Jan 17, 2013 3:58 AM GMT
    Why is it so hard to find a decent guy?

    Guys are weird?

    Is it me?
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    Jan 17, 2013 4:02 AM GMT
    People are weird in general. Don't go out looking for a perfect guy. Just look for people you enjoy spending time with. There's going to be a good match for you somewhere in that group and you'll find him before you know it.
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    Jan 17, 2013 4:04 AM GMT
    Yep they are ... they always want what they cant have. Dont be fooled by the old line " theres someone for everyone" there isnt always so be content with who you are and comfortable with being on your own
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    Jan 17, 2013 4:16 AM GMT
    yeahimback saidYep they are ... they always want what they cant have. Dont be fooled by the old line " theres someone for everyone" there isnt always so be content with who you are and comfortable with being on your own


    Yes.

    Also, as Dan Savage says - there is no "the one" out there for you/whomever. There are a lot of .9s and .8s that you round up to the one - there is no "settling down" without "settling for".

    Just like you aren't perfect, neither is your future mate. And that's a good thing. Hollywood romance is bullshit - I'll take the real world.
  • HottJoe

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    Jan 17, 2013 4:17 AM GMT
    If everyone was weird then no one would be would weird. So, I'm thinking it might be you...icon_idea.gif
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    Jan 17, 2013 7:46 AM GMT
    Stop being picky, be you, have fun, expect nothing... it gets easier with practice.
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    Jan 17, 2013 8:08 AM GMT
    IMO.. this is our feminine side talking: "believing that there's that ONE somewhere out there."

    A man way to approach this is: "I'll have a good time whomever is out there!"
  • TheAlchemixt

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    Jan 17, 2013 8:21 AM GMT
    I haven't really met any "weird" guys. I just think of people as different in their own way. The only person who I thought was weird was a stalker I had in my hostel in Thailand. Maybe he is not even weird, maybe I just misunderstood him.
  • Webster666

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    Jan 17, 2013 8:38 AM GMT
    Most people, in general, are not compatible.
    Everybody's "weird" in one way or another, or in many ways.

    It takes a LOT of giving, from both guys.
    It takes a conscious effort to regularly "lift each other up," and to make each other aware of your love for each other.
    It takes a lot of acceptance (or ignoring) of each other's differences.

    Or, you can get a dog, and avoid the whole problem...