Ex Boyfriend..

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    Jan 17, 2013 6:31 PM GMT
    So I dated my ex-boyfriend for three months (helped me come out and with in a week of actually coming out we were dating). Really influential person in my life, and helped me with the transition. Everytime I was going to have a conversation about me being gay with anyone he was there blah blah blah.

    Well things went south, and the break up was fine. There were tears, but it wasn't ugly. What was ugly was the next 8 months that we randomly hooked up and got into drunken fights.

    The last conversation that we had was about him hooking up with someone (keep in mind this was while we were hooking up). I was frusterated and left the house.

    The following week, I was still bitter at the fact (there is more to the story, but I'm keeping this short) saw his car and JOKINGLY yelled to my friend, "Hey let's key his car." Never would I do something like that but it was a bad day things were building up and seeing him around me (we went to the same college) was the last straw.

    Well karma is a bitch because he was sitting in his friends car not three cars away. Obviously he heard it....this is the last contact we've had

    I'm over the relationship, and so is he. He's in grad school I'm busy with my undergrad. But it's been almost two years, and I really want to start some sort of relationship with him. I facebook chat him everyone once in a while (three times) but the responses from him are very short. I'm trying but...there is no trying back.

    How do I go about getting some sort of friendship back with him?

    HELP

    Thanks guys.
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    Jan 17, 2013 8:04 PM GMT
    "How do I go about getting some sort of friendship back with him?"

    You don't! He's moved on and so should you. It's quite apparent that the 8 months following your breakup were filled with unnecessary drama. You need to find another path in your life that doesn't include him.
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    Jan 17, 2013 8:09 PM GMT
    Oh honey just let it go! Unless y'all share a house or a child y'all don't gotta see each other for as long as you live. It's one of the beauties of being gay.

    Just keep it trucking.
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    Jan 17, 2013 8:24 PM GMT
    Swag said I'm trying but...there is no trying back..

    He is replying to be polite but isn't interested in knowing you anymore. Sounds like you burnt all bridges with him. Lesson learnt and move on.