Is there something wrong with not being into femme guys?

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    Jan 21, 2013 3:31 AM GMT
    I'm always annoyed by that argument that guys into masculine guys are somehow homophobic or narrowminded. Traditionally most of us were taught traditional gender roles: men act like men, women act like women. Just like I admire a confident, authoritative, self-assured man, I admire a genteel, refined, graceful woman. Just because I have a same-sex orientation, doesn't mean I can't have a traditional gender identity.

    Now, that doesn't mean I'm up for bullying or discriminating against feminine guys, but when it comes to choosing a partner, there's nothing wrong with traditional preferences.

    It's one of the reasons it's always bothered me how transexuals get grouped into the gay/lesbian community. The 2 issues have really nothing to do with each other, and it just reenforces to the straight world what they already think, that gay guys are a bunch of men who want to be women.


    Whoa, after this whole rant, the OP deleted the thread! BOOOO
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    Jan 21, 2013 3:31 AM GMT
    Yes, obviously, duh.

    Oh, and to be clear, I did not read your stupid post, I just answered the stupid headline. Stupidly. Because, after all, it's stupid.
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    Jan 21, 2013 3:34 AM GMT
    oozyrat said...
    Now, that doesn't mean I'm up for bullying or discriminating against feminine guys, ...


    Isn't that what you're doing by chumming the waters with this troll?
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    Jan 21, 2013 3:35 AM GMT
    Delete quick. Next post makes the thread permanent.
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    Jan 21, 2013 3:37 AM GMT
    GAMRican saidDelete quick. Next post makes the thread permanent.

    Seriously? Is that true?
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    Jan 21, 2013 3:38 AM GMT
    smartmoney said
    GAMRican saidDelete quick. Next post makes the thread permanent.

    Seriously? Is that true?



    Yes,
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    Jan 21, 2013 3:46 AM GMT
    Is there something wrong with not being into fat ugly guys?

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    Jan 21, 2013 3:52 AM GMT
    showme saidIs there something wrong with not being into fat ugly guys?

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    Yes, obviously, duh.
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    Jan 21, 2013 3:58 AM GMT
    showme saidIs there something wrong with not being into fat ugly guys?

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    Yes. It means I'll never get laid.

    *goes into a corner and pouts*
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    Jan 21, 2013 4:08 AM GMT
    Well gay men are practically women in mens body so I do not differentiate from women and gay guys most of the time
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    Jan 21, 2013 4:13 AM GMT
    Singalong saidWell gay men are practically women in mens body so I do not differentiate from women and gay guys most of the time


    Go fuck yourself, loser.
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    Jan 21, 2013 4:13 AM GMT
    oozyrat said
    Singalong saidWell gay men are practically women in mens body so I do not differentiate from women and gay guys most of the time


    Go fuck yourself, loser.


    Well its science, so you are not really insulting me.
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    Jan 21, 2013 4:15 AM GMT
    Singalong saidWell gay men are practically women in mens body so I do not differentiate from women and gay guys most of the time


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    Jan 21, 2013 4:16 AM GMT
    Wait, who is the OP of this thread?
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    Jan 21, 2013 4:22 AM GMT
    unfounded7 saidWait, who is the OP of this thread?


    I don't know, it was up, and I was writing a response, and then it was gone, so I just posted my response. He must have taken GAMRican's advice.
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    Jan 21, 2013 4:28 AM GMT
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    unfounded7 saidWait, who is the OP of this thread?


    I don't know, it was up, and I was writing a response, and then it was gone, so I just posted my response. He must have taken GAMRican's advice.
    Yeah I saw the original thread too before it got deleted. I think he stated that he does drag shows and that he hated the internal homophobia that he sees in so many profiles.
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    Jan 21, 2013 4:44 PM GMT
    Singalong saidWell gay men are practically women in mens body so I do not differentiate from women and gay guys most of the time


    Oh yes, the return of Dontknowwhy. Why does yor profile say you're in the UK when you live in TO?
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    Jan 21, 2013 4:47 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    Singalong saidWell gay men are practically women in mens body so I do not differentiate from women and gay guys most of the time


    Oh yes, the return of Dontknowwhy. Why does yor profile say you're in the UK when you live in TO?


    I moved, needed a change of scenery.
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    Jan 21, 2013 4:52 PM GMT
    Singalong said
    meninlove said
    Singalong saidWell gay men are practically women in mens body so I do not differentiate from women and gay guys most of the time


    Oh yes, the return of Dontknowwhy. Why does yor profile say you're in the UK when you live in TO?


    I moved, needed a change of scenery.



    That's extremely hard to believe, given your situation.
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    Jan 21, 2013 4:53 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    Singalong said
    meninlove said
    Singalong saidWell gay men are practically women in mens body so I do not differentiate from women and gay guys most of the time


    Oh yes, the return of Dontknowwhy. Why does yor profile say you're in the UK when you live in TO?


    I moved, needed a change of scenery.



    That's extremely hard to believe, given your situation.


    Nope I graduated college not got a job. being independant. But I am back trying to behave better after a lot things I went through like domestic abuse etc
  • wild_sky360

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    Jan 22, 2013 8:50 AM GMT
    I've met plenty of demure femme guys that I'd consider a relationship with and who've sparked a unique and strong sexual desire. This is in stark contrast to boisterous or campy femme guys. I suppose they've got each other, or their own set of secret admirers who enjoy the drama.
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    Jan 22, 2013 2:16 PM GMT
    showme saidIs there something wrong with not being into fat ugly guys?

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    Shhh. You might insult Oozyrat and he'll get all masc on you...icon_eek.gificon_lol.gif
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    Jan 22, 2013 2:21 PM GMT
    showme saidIs there something wrong with not being into fat ugly guys?

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    I think there is icon_rolleyes.gif
  • HottJoe

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    Jan 22, 2013 2:23 PM GMT
    ^Is there something wrong with wanting to lick Jewcifer's new pic?icon_redface.gif
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    Jan 22, 2013 2:25 PM GMT
    HottJoe said^Is there something wrong with wantimg to lick Jewcifer's new pic?icon_redface.gif



    No there isn't