For relationships, easier to find top/bottom/versatile?

  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jan 21, 2013 5:19 PM GMT
    In terms of people looking for relationships, and not people who are looking just to hook ups, for which many people complain about excess of bottoms, are there more tops/versatiles/bottoms who are looking for relationships in general?
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jan 22, 2013 12:10 AM GMT
    I'm verse and just taking my time to find the right guy for the job. I'd rather wait and be happy for the right guy than be miserable and lonely with the wrong one.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jan 22, 2013 12:21 AM GMT
    Ppl complain abt an excess of bottoms? Shit--send 'em my way!
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jan 22, 2013 12:23 AM GMT
    Not relationships... relationship and I guess I'll be the promoter of versatility to maintain the passion in love. Waflashhhh!
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jan 22, 2013 12:26 AM GMT
    seems that it's hardest to find sane, honest, well adjusted guys for relationships
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jan 22, 2013 12:27 AM GMT
    imasrxd saidseems that it's hardest to find sane, honest, well adjusted guys for relationships


    So srsly rite now
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jan 22, 2013 12:40 AM GMT
    imasrxd saidseems that it's hardest to find sane, honest, well adjusted guys for relationships

    This....and versatile
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jan 22, 2013 12:49 AM GMT
    Everyone knows the sex tapers off after marriage. So it doesn't matter.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jan 22, 2013 12:56 AM GMT
    imasrxd saidseems that it's hardest to find sane, honest, well adjusted guys for relationships


    This!
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jan 22, 2013 12:57 AM GMT
    mindgarden saidEveryone knows the sex tapers off after marriage. So it doesn't matter.


    I'm a sex pistol in waiting... He whom puts a ring or (lets me) put a ring on it will NEVER have a complaint in bed... I'm a libra/scorpio. I am to please, will and can love him LONG TIME! icon_twisted.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jan 22, 2013 1:13 AM GMT
    Okay, you're all gonna laugh but I'm still a virgin. (hangs head in shame!) but now that I want to start getting into a relationship, I kind of see myself as a bottom.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jan 22, 2013 1:17 AM GMT
    While sexual positioning can play a factor in the long term success in a relationship, it might not be best to use it as a foundation piece for selecting mates. It should be discussed obviously - but there are far more important things. That, and even seemingly sexually incompatible guys can engage in non-traditional dating paradigms.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jan 22, 2013 1:31 AM GMT
    I never care about a person's sexual position when choosing whom I date. If you love someone enough, you're willing to try new things.
  • He_Man

    Posts: 906

    Jan 22, 2013 1:34 AM GMT

    Here's some data gathered by Dylan from his blog, Noodles and Beef, about gay cliques and statistically where one falls into the tops/vers/bottoms spectrum. It distinguishes tops from bottoms based on which clique one falls into. He uses an online survey/questionnaire to gather his data and then created his famous clique Gay Clique Census:

    tumblr_lq1v5mWc811qbbjkro1_r1_1280.png


    http://www.studiomoh.com/fun/census/results.php#roles

  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jan 22, 2013 6:00 AM GMT
    I'm a top and I'm just into regular guys... and hairy Otter/Cub guys....(drooling now...). I don't seem to be able to meet anybody who ISN'T a bottom or "Vers bottom" (which basically means "total bottom"). Don't know why that is, but I'm fine with it.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jan 22, 2013 6:12 AM GMT
    ALL gay men are either a) bottoms or b) bottoms waiting for a top with a big dick

    This should be common knowledge by now, it's like newtons 69th law of gay physics icon_razz.gif
  • wild_sky360

    Posts: 1492

    Jan 22, 2013 6:51 AM GMT
    I'm off the market now but I wish there were more versatile guys that crossed my path, or were relationship material. My men have all been total bottoms; every one. Sex is good, cuz I lean top; but not to say I wouldn't mind a flip fuck once in a while. We're both satisfied, but there's that little itch. I'd rather have a great relationship than perfect sex.

    It's better than two bottoms trying to make it work. Good luck with that.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jan 22, 2013 6:55 AM GMT
    Crimsonnclover saidALL gay men are either a) bottoms or b) bottoms waiting for a top with a big dick

    This should be common knowledge by now, it's like newtons 69th law of gay physics icon_razz.gif


    LOL... not really. Yeah, this fits the description of a lot of guys, but hardly all. icon_wink.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jan 22, 2013 7:01 AM GMT
    wild_sky360 saidI'm off the market now but I wish there were more versatile guys that crossed my path, or were relationship material. My men have all been total bottoms; every one. Sex is good, cuz I lean top; but not to say I wouldn't mind a flip fuck once in a while. We're both satisfied, but there's that little itch. I'd rather have a great relationship than perfect sex.

    It's better than two bottoms trying to make it work. Good luck with that.


    Double headed dildos, no lie I know a couple who did this...
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jan 22, 2013 7:03 AM GMT
    intensity69 said
    Crimsonnclover saidALL gay men are either a) bottoms or b) bottoms waiting for a top with a big dick

    This should be common knowledge by now, it's like newtons 69th law of gay physics icon_razz.gif


    LOL... not really. Yeah, this fits the description of a lot of guys, but hardly all. icon_wink.gif


    The only 100% top I've ever met was a closeted Latin guy with 9.5 inches and a gf.

    Memories...

    I was such a SLUT
  • wild_sky360

    Posts: 1492

    Jan 22, 2013 7:31 AM GMT
    Crimsonnclover said
    wild_sky360 saidI'm off the market now but I wish there were more versatile guys that crossed my path, or were relationship material. My men have all been total bottoms; every one. Sex is good, cuz I lean top; but not to say I wouldn't mind a flip fuck once in a while. We're both satisfied, but there's that little itch. I'd rather have a great relationship than perfect sex.

    It's better than two bottoms trying to make it work. Good luck with that.


    Double headed dildos, no lie I know a couple who did this...


    And I know another that invited me to fuck them both...back to back. We tried that for a while,and it was fun, but two of us ended up together while the other cruises A4A
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jan 22, 2013 7:40 AM GMT
    wild_sky360 said
    Crimsonnclover said
    wild_sky360 saidI'm off the market now but I wish there were more versatile guys that crossed my path, or were relationship material. My men have all been total bottoms; every one. Sex is good, cuz I lean top; but not to say I wouldn't mind a flip fuck once in a while. We're both satisfied, but there's that little itch. I'd rather have a great relationship than perfect sex.

    It's better than two bottoms trying to make it work. Good luck with that.


    Double headed dildos, no lie I know a couple who did this...


    And I know another that invited me to fuck them both...back to back. We tried that for a while,and it was fun, but two of us ended up together while the other cruises A4A

    Crystal Connors would have so much to say about your behavioricon_smile.gif

    But you go! Get that dickicon_razz.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Jan 22, 2013 8:00 AM GMT
    Writer22 saidOkay, you're all gonna laugh but I'm still a virgin. (hangs head in shame!) but now that I want to start getting into a relationship, I kind of see myself as a bottom.


    If my sixth sense is right, you're more verse than you know and nothing wrong with being a virgin. I think that's very attractive. Be safe and be you. I pray you get someone that really cherishes the fact that you are a virgin and does right. Too many times, its about the score card when it comes to the V-Card. I took a couple of guy's virginity and made it about them. While our relationship didn't pan out, we are great friends and they always know they can call on me for whatever.
  • wild_sky360

    Posts: 1492

    Jan 22, 2013 9:11 AM GMT
    Crimsonnclover said
    wild_sky360 said
    Crimsonnclover said
    wild_sky360 saidI'm off the market now but I wish there were more versatile guys that crossed my path, or were relationship material. My men have all been total bottoms; every one. Sex is good, cuz I lean top; but not to say I wouldn't mind a flip fuck once in a while. We're both satisfied, but there's that little itch. I'd rather have a great relationship than perfect sex.

    It's better than two bottoms trying to make it work. Good luck with that.


    Double headed dildos, no lie I know a couple who did this...


    And I know another that invited me to fuck them both...back to back. We tried that for a while,and it was fun, but two of us ended up together while the other cruises A4A

    Crystal Connors would have so much to say about your behavioricon_smile.gif

    But you go! Get that dickicon_razz.gif


    What would Crystal Connors have to say? Homewrecker? It's not really how that worked out. i objected to playing out of bounds and was told it was not my decision