Is this a bromance?

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    Jan 21, 2013 10:04 PM GMT
    I have this friend, and I haven't known him for that long, but we just seem to connect. And lately we've been cuddling a lot together and even kissed. But we talked about sex, and decided that we're not going to do it, because we don't wanna become friends with benefits.
    I don't feel a romantic attachment to him, but I still care for him very deeply.
    I don't really think about it, but when I did the word "bromance" did pop up in my mind.
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    Jan 21, 2013 11:00 PM GMT
    My impression of what bromance means is still a strictly platonic relationship. Sure you may hug a lot and be more touchy than others, but if you're crossing over to cuddling and kissing I'm not sure if that counts as a bromance anymore. I can be wrong though.
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    Jan 21, 2013 11:08 PM GMT
    Bromance is the new word for male bonding.

    Cuddling is normal, even for straight guys. The kissing takes it over the "bromance" line.
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    Jan 22, 2013 2:35 AM GMT
    Aress saidI have this friend, and I haven't known him for that long, but we just seem to connect. And lately we've been cuddling a lot together and even kissed. But we talked about sex, and decided that we're not going to do it, because we don't wanna become friends with benefits.
    I don't feel a romantic attachment to him, but I still care for him very deeply.
    I don't really think about it, but when I did the word "bromance" did pop up in my mind.


    You're young. I'm assuming your friend is young.

    Remember, "friends with benefits" is better than "friends without benefits".

    "Benefits" by there very nature are "more".

    Keep talking to your friend. Keep cuddling with your friend. Keep kissing with your friend.

    Allow nature to take course.
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    Jan 22, 2013 2:43 AM GMT
    It was a bromance until you kissed. Paul pretty much nailed it and GAMRican drove it home. Now that you have kissed you may as well see where things lead. Just be clear about not wanting a relationship if you go the FWB route. Sometimes on our quest for more we wind up with less... Just sayin'!
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    Jan 22, 2013 2:45 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidBromance is the new word for male bonding.

    Cuddling is normal, even for straight guys. The kissing takes it over the "bromance" line.


    This. I would even say that you could go as far as a kiss or peck. But kissING takes it just over the goal line. Touchdown!
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    Jan 22, 2013 2:53 AM GMT
    GAMRican said
    Aress saidI have this friend, and I haven't known him for that long, but we just seem to connect. And lately we've been cuddling a lot together and even kissed. But we talked about sex, and decided that we're not going to do it, because we don't wanna become friends with benefits.
    I don't feel a romantic attachment to him, but I still care for him very deeply.
    I don't really think about it, but when I did the word "bromance" did pop up in my mind.


    You're young. I'm assuming your friend is young.

    Remember, "friends with benefits" is better than "friends without benefits".

    "Benefits" by there very nature are "more".

    Keep talking to your friend. Keep cuddling with your friend. Keep kissing with your friend.

    Allow nature to take course.


    P.S. Don't forget to pack premium rubbers and good lube. Nothings says "friendship" more than good gear.

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  • whytehot

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    Jan 22, 2013 3:15 AM GMT
    ^^

    "Hey... uh.. can we be more than just friends?"
    "I got lube and poppers!"
    "K, that escalated quick..."
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    Jan 22, 2013 3:44 AM GMT
    whytehot said...
    "K, that escalated quick..."


    Yes. Once you have K, it certainly has escalated...












    ...or disassociated.

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    Jan 22, 2013 3:49 AM GMT
    Gotta agree with the others, the kiss kinda crossed the line with the traditional concept of bromance. But it may be an untraditional bromance. Go with the flow. Stay good friends, be open to more.
  • unicoman1

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    Jan 22, 2013 4:04 AM GMT
    You don't feel a romantic attachment, but you cuddle and kiss and have discussed sex?
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    Jan 22, 2013 4:08 AM GMT
    WaytoDawn saidGotta agree with the others, the kiss kinda crossed the line with the traditional concept of bromance. But it may be an untraditional bromance. Go with the flow. Stay good friends, be open to more.
    And this is why you'll never get laid.

    Open yer eyes. When a dude kisses you (beyond the typical Latino lip smack and hug) it means he wants to fuck you. icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 22, 2013 4:11 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    WaytoDawn saidGotta agree with the others, the kiss kinda crossed the line with the traditional concept of bromance. But it may be an untraditional bromance. Go with the flow. Stay good friends, be open to more.
    And this is why you'll never get laid.

    Open yer eyes. When a dude kisses you (beyond the typical Latino lip smack and hug) it means he wants to fuck you. icon_wink.gif


    That's why I said stay open to the possibilities. icon_rolleyes.gif
    My family (latino in some way, shape or form) does alot of kissing, so I don't really have a good sense of feeling the meaning of a kiss.
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    Jan 22, 2013 9:15 AM GMT
    GAMRican said
    GAMRican said
    Aress saidI have this friend, and I haven't known him for that long, but we just seem to connect. And lately we've been cuddling a lot together and even kissed. But we talked about sex, and decided that we're not going to do it, because we don't wanna become friends with benefits.
    I don't feel a romantic attachment to him, but I still care for him very deeply.
    I don't really think about it, but when I did the word "bromance" did pop up in my mind.


    You're young. I'm assuming your friend is young.

    Remember, "friends with benefits" is better than "friends without benefits".

    "Benefits" by there very nature are "more".

    Keep talking to your friend. Keep cuddling with your friend. Keep kissing with your friend.

    Allow nature to take course.


    P.S. Don't forget to pack premium rubbers and good lube. Nothings says "friendship" more than good gear.

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    Truth!
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    Jan 22, 2013 11:40 AM GMT
    whytehot said^^

    "Hey... uh.. can we be more than just friends?"
    "I got lube and poppers!"
    "K, that escalated quick..."


    Nice one.