Little help?

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    Jan 22, 2013 1:09 AM GMT
    New to the site and decided to give this a shot, as I found that they can be useful sometimes. So here goes...

    I knew I was different from most other people my age. Other than the fact I was socially awkward (But getting around it), I had tendencies that I couldn't explain (Felt weird talking to really cute guys, was sometimes caught staring at them, etc.) So I know I'm attracted to guys (why else would I be on this site? lol). But then there would be these times in class when I would sit next to this really cute girl and I'd get real nervous quite fast. I get terrified of talking to her and I even ask myself "Wait, what?" Could it be that I'm Bi? Would appreciate any advice you guys can throw at me. Thanks!
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    Jan 22, 2013 2:30 AM GMT
    You would never know how fish taste like if you never tried it... icon_wink.gif
  • wellwell

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    Jan 22, 2013 2:33 AM GMT
    sounds Bi to me
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    Jan 22, 2013 2:36 AM GMT
    You are only 18. I would say try it out. Only you know what you like more. I think you should stay with a woman if you are attracted and able to feel the urge with her. At the end of the day it will be more happiness with you. The road of a gay person is a cold one. It teaches you to toughen up. But hey that is only my opinion. If you can go straight why bother to go gay. It is nothing that great.
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    Jan 22, 2013 2:46 AM GMT
    Perserverance saidYou are only 18. I would say try it out. Only you know what you like more. I think you should stay with a woman if you are attracted and able to feel the urge with her. At the end of the day it will be more happiness with you. The road of a gay person is a cold one. It teaches you to toughen up. But hey that is only my opinion. If you can go straight why bother to go gay. It is nothing that great.


    Wow way to force your beliefs upon someone else icon_rolleyes.gif. At the end of the day, who you want to be with shouldn't be dictated by the societal difficulties of doing so, especially when those can be preventable depending on how you perceive it. If he was living in Africa, that'd be one thing, but that's not the reality. Definitely go ahead and try both, sometimes you don't know what you don't try. icon_smile.gif
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    Jan 22, 2013 2:59 AM GMT
    Make sure you use rubbers, and have fun!

    You don't want preggers or STD by accident.
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    Jan 22, 2013 3:06 AM GMT
    Lunastar said
    Perserverance saidYou are only 18. I would say try it out. Only you know what you like more. I think you should stay with a woman if you are attracted and able to feel the urge with her. At the end of the day it will be more happiness with you. The road of a gay person is a cold one. It teaches you to toughen up. But hey that is only my opinion. If you can go straight why bother to go gay. It is nothing that great.


    Wow way to force your beliefs upon someone else icon_rolleyes.gif. At the end of the day, who you want to be with shouldn't be dictated by the societal difficulties of doing so, especially when those can be preventable depending on how you perceive it. If he was living in Africa, that'd be one thing, but that's not the reality. Definitely go ahead and try both, sometimes you don't know what you don't try. icon_smile.gif


    I am not forcing. The truth is the chance of happiness appears to be higher on the straight couple side. I mean why would you want to deal with discrimination and loneliness when you get old. We are not living in a gay society. We are the minority and that is the fact. There are positives and negatives aspects of both side but if I was given a choice I would pick being straight. That doesn't mean I do not love my self. It is just making life easier.
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    Jan 22, 2013 8:34 AM GMT
    Aristoshark saidYou're young. You're still figuring things out. That's okay. You don't need to label it. Go whichever way your dick points.


    This!