What is HOT

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    Sep 27, 2008 5:10 AM GMT
    I think we all understand that we project onto the photos and profiles here our own conceptions. So basically we are not "seeing" the person as they might be seen in a less virtual reality. BUT we are seeing something that is still for its on sake real and in some way true as it might be what the person wants to be seen as.

    I mean I know for myself I say I'm into or about certain things but at the same time undermine my own desire or go in the opposite direction for many reasons. So the way I represent myself may not be the way you would see me if you knew me like my friends do.

    That all aside, what inspires you to HOTLIST someone. List some characteristics? What makes HOT in a place where your opinion of someone might change if you were to be in their daily life?
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    Sep 27, 2008 8:03 AM GMT
    i hotlist someone for a number of things;
    1. he represents a fantasy; butch and muscular, or lean and a little nerdy(if he's wearing glasses, a big turn on!). if he's nerdy and muscular, with some chest hair, im all over it!!!
    2.he's actually a very interesting person in terms of his lifestyle, work, intelligence, sense of humour and friendliness
    3.he looks like he's someone i could actually hang around with.
    if i actually meet any of these guys i hotlisted in real life, i would be so nervous! i'll turn into a 16 yr old stuttering valley girl, LOL!!! icon_redface.gif
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    Sep 27, 2008 10:19 AM GMT
    acuariosalvaje saidI think we all understand that we project onto the photos and profiles here our own conceptions. So basically we are not "seeing" the person as they might be seen in a less virtual reality. BUT we are seeing something that is still for its on sake real and in some way true as it might be what the person wants to be seen as.

    I mean I know for myself I say I'm into or about certain things but at the same time undermine my own desire or go in the opposite direction for many reasons. So the way I represent myself may not be the way you would see me if you knew me like my friends do.

    That all aside, what inspires you to HOTLIST someone. List some characteristics? What makes HOT in a place where your opinion of someone might change if you were to be in their daily life?


    What i find HOT is a gay man who orders me to strip naked and bend over for a good hard ass fucking, That's what i find HOT
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    Sep 27, 2008 11:00 AM GMT
    What inspires me to hotlist someone?

    Alcohol, liquor and booze.
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    Sep 27, 2008 11:09 AM GMT
    Right off the bat

    What is "Hot" on the 2 dimensional net and in real "Life"
    are often two distinctly different things

    what makes me take notice and make me hotlist a guy
    is usually based on looks and body
    Yeah ... what he says on his profile might enter into it but not that much

    But what's hot in real life there's SO much more
    How he dresses
    walks
    talks
    does he have an accent
    and overall demeanor overshadows almost everything else
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    Sep 27, 2008 11:51 AM GMT
    Whatever makes my thang go from 0 to 700 in 5 seconds flat. That is hot!!

    For example, that picture that you (acuario salvaje) had in your pvt. photos of you lying on that black leather couch with those red shorts pulled down past your bum. Just remembering that gets my blood pumping!!
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    Sep 27, 2008 12:03 PM GMT
    1. Someone I can relate in terms of mental attractiveness and how I am approached ( like say people talking to me and sparking a good convo).

    2. Big turn is interests and someone with a active personality and rocking bod.

    3. Someone I could see myself developing an awesome friendship and possible more if I were to ever meet them.