Do you think guys over 50 are sexy?

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    Jan 24, 2013 6:58 PM GMT
    I was horrified and shocked when I hit 50 this month! Not that my age was the problem, but how other guys view that milestone! The moment the clock struck midnight, half of my potential dates on Match.com were cut in HALF! I have never felt better in my life. I look better than I did 10 years ago but wonder why most guys in their 50's want much younger guys and why all of a sudden guys in their 20's and 30''s are climbing on board the "daddy" train! Am I the new little black dress? How do you older gents feel about finding more grey hairs on those pecs you've worked so hard to build up? Embrace or wax? LOL. You younger guys, is it a stable relationship you are looking for or just a fantasy trip to do a older in shape man to put a notch on the headboard?
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    Jan 24, 2013 7:19 PM GMT
    First off... You look insanely amazing.....

    Older men who keep themselves looking fit and desirable certainly do the attention from younger males, including myself.

    You guys give off the aura of confidence, maturity. Now whether or not he wants to settle down or simply have a trophy 'boy' is under the sole discretion of the individual. Also the flip side, some guys wants the ultimate sugar daddy and you may fit that description for them.

    If I could, I would pursue something with you, only because in my mind, you have smarts to talk about anything that means something. Well some conversations can be meaningless but at least there can be room for development!! I've dated older guys who have fit well within your characteristics.I bonded with one, and he means the world to me. We are still very close friends. Age is only a number, but its how well you have played out your age that shows character.

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    Jan 24, 2013 7:49 PM GMT
    I would like to go on a date with the OP. icon_wink.gif

    Anyways, I don't think all younger guys just want a fling with an older guy. Some/most would like a long term relationship. The general assumption is that older guys are more mature and have a stable lifestyle.
  • TheAlchemixt

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    Jan 24, 2013 8:21 PM GMT
    I've met some really hot 50+ guys. Yes, I would say that some are sexy.
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    Jan 24, 2013 8:33 PM GMT
    Sexy is sexy. Fifty year olds that look like YOU are the little black dress that've always been in style, as are forty and sixty year olds. As long as one keeps their stock up and remains "hot" do men older and younger than you really care about your age?

    It'd be interesting to see how this thread would've gone were it posted by a standard-issue fifty year old (like, say me).

    Does splitting your time between Weho and Palm Springs maximize or minimize your appeal?
  • Fable

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    Jan 24, 2013 8:34 PM GMT
    No, Gimme 15 years and it'll probably change to yes.
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    Jan 24, 2013 9:19 PM GMT
    I've met some really ugly 50+ year olds.
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    Jan 24, 2013 9:25 PM GMT
    McQueen saidI've met some really ugly 50+ year olds.

    So have I - at my high school reunion!

    Your attempts to be provocative for once fail here. We all know you fell for an older sweetheart, ya big softy you!
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    Jan 24, 2013 9:31 PM GMT
    Men are hot when they are hot.

    Men are not hot when they are not hot.

    This concludes the discussion of what men are hot.

    ~The End~
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    Jan 24, 2013 9:32 PM GMT
    eagermuscle said
    McQueen saidI've met some really ugly 50+ year olds.
    So have I - at my high school reunion!
    Your attempts to be provocative for once fail here. We all know you fell for an older sweetheart, ya big softy you!
    I'm just pointing out that not all 50+ year olds are sexy, just as not all of them are ugly.
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    Jan 24, 2013 9:33 PM GMT
    Narciso saidMen are hot when they are hot.
    Men are not hot when they are not hot.
    This concludes the discussion of what men are hot.
    ~The End~
    I wish RJ had signatures so I could put this quote in mine.
  • Webster666

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    Jan 24, 2013 10:35 PM GMT
    I don't give a big rat's ass about a guy's age.

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    Jan 24, 2013 11:01 PM GMT
    SeaJockMan said... but wonder why most guys in their 50's want much younger guys and why all of a sudden guys in their 20's and 30''s are climbing on board the "daddy" train! Am I the new little black dress? How do you older gents feel about finding more grey hairs on those pecs you've worked so hard to build up? Embrace or wax? LOL. You younger guys, is it a stable relationship you are looking for or just a fantasy trip to do a older in shape man to put a notch on the headboard?

    1. because they are pigs
    2. If you're the new black dress, I want one
    3.Embrace, but I have none (at least not noticeable) yet
    4. The word 'daddy' means they will be taken care of ... a desire for the finer things in life or it's easier to take what someone else has already worked for
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    Jan 24, 2013 11:41 PM GMT
    First off...
    Eagermuscle you are not the standard, you are in amazing shape and sexy!
    I traved to PS and WeHo for vacation.
    Using the word"daddy" to describe someone...
    Could you be a 30 year old daddy?

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    Jan 24, 2013 11:47 PM GMT
    but honestly tho. ....

    Who wants to be working that hard at 50 to appear sexy and young? You must literally have to almost kill urself to remain in that shape at 50.....and you're still single, so really, I dont see the point in looking that good at 50

    I mean you're 50 for god's sake. Give it up.
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    Jan 24, 2013 11:52 PM GMT
    I'm too old for old guys, thats what old guys like right? Younger guys? Gay rules are so confusing icon_confused.gif
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    Jan 25, 2013 12:00 AM GMT
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    Jun 08, 2013 5:36 AM GMT
    SeaJockMan saidI was horrified and shocked when I hit 50 this month! Not that my age was the problem, but how other guys view that milestone! The moment the clock struck midnight, half of my potential dates on Match.com were cut in HALF! I have never felt better in my life. I look better than I did 10 years ago but wonder why most guys in their 50's want much younger guys and why all of a sudden guys in their 20's and 30''s are climbing on board the "daddy" train! Am I the new little black dress? How do you older gents feel about finding more grey hairs on those pecs you've worked so hard to build up? Embrace or wax? LOL. You younger guys, is it a stable relationship you are looking for or just a fantasy trip to do a older in shape man to put a notch on the headboard?


    LMFAO
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    Jun 08, 2013 5:45 AM GMT
    Weird but true. Almost nobody clicks on your profile any more, when the big five oh shows up in the tag line. But a much higher percentage of those who do will actively try to get into your pants.
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    Jun 08, 2013 5:53 AM GMT
    mindgarden saidWeird but true. Almost nobody clicks on your profile any more, when the big five oh shows up in the tag line. But a much higher percentage of those who do will actively try to get into your pants.


    ^This guy right here is sexy.
  • visualguy

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    Jun 08, 2013 10:03 AM GMT
    We live in a society that celebrates youth and caters to it. But sexy is sexy, regardless of how old you are. I think it's great that there are guys like the OP who disprove the notion that you can't be older and still look great and be in terrific physical shape. That alone should be enough motivation and inspiration for all the younger guys to treat themselves right. I tend to be attracted to guys over 30, but I would gladly date a guy over 50 if he took care of himself the way the OP does. The problem is, that particular dating pool is very small icon_sad.gif
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    Jun 08, 2013 10:06 AM GMT
    Hell yes! I remember when i was in my late 20s I met this guy and had a fun roll in the sack with him. He lied and told me he was in his late 30s. Looked sorta 40-ish to me at the time, but I still didn't judge him. Then after laying in bed and having a long midnight talk. He told me he was 51. I was like icon_eek.gif Why you lie to me man? But it didn't change a thing. We still kept making out. Damn I miss that guy. I so could of had a sugar daddy if I was less naive at the time.
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    Jun 08, 2013 11:53 AM GMT
    Thank you SJM for posting this. I take care of myself and it's not hard, but when guys find out your actual age it is a road block. I was out last night, age never came up... I'm one of the guys and they think i'm in my forties. It's all good.....
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    Jun 09, 2013 11:28 AM GMT
    50 is the new 40!
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    Jun 09, 2013 11:32 AM GMT
    Shall I unlock my private photos and show you the effect your profile had on me? icon_redface.gif