I like being tied up. My fiance does it for me, but he doesn't quite enjoy it the way I do. He admits that he does it for no other reason than because he knows i like it. One of the reasons he cites for not liking the bondage is the time it takes to actually tie me up. I found some instructional videos online for fast and easy rope bondage techniques that I think would help to make our own play better, where I get to be tied up and he can do it in a short amount of time. But for some reason he has no interest in watching them. However, he does often say that he'd like to come in from work on some days and see me already tied up, waiting for him to have his way with me.

So I need some advice on one or both of the following:

1. What can I do to convince him to at least try to watch and learn from the videos i found?


2. Does anybody have any easy self-bondage tips that I can use to tie myself up for when he gets in from work?