Fooling around in a club/bar

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    Jan 27, 2013 7:45 PM GMT
    So I am new to going to gay bars and clubs. Last night I was in a club and I look over to see two guys making out. No big deal, but one of the guys had his hand down the back of the other guys pants clearly fingering him.

    How do you guys react to seeing something like that? Am I just a prude because I think it is weird? Everyone in party acted like it was no big deal. I would be interested to see what other people think about this. I am the more conservative person in my gang of friends.
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    Jan 28, 2013 1:07 AM GMT
    Just be cool. It's none of your business unless they wave you over to join them.

    For whatever reason, I don't see that happening much any more. (Possibly because I hardly ever go out to clubs any more.) Ten years ago, hands in pants on the dance floor wasn't unusual. It was pretty common for people to be having oral or anal sex in the bathroom, or while waiting in line for the bathroom. You went about your business and moved on. Unisex bathrooms, too.

    I don't know what has changed. Maybe smartphone apps. Maybe the cops have cracked down. I've noticed that they've removed the bathroom stalls from some places. Oh, and the place that used to have St. Andrews crosses and sub cages next to the urinals has removed them.
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    Jan 28, 2013 1:45 AM GMT
    It doesn't bother me one bit because in a club, this type of PDA appears to be acceptable. After all, when at a club, we are there to have a good time and more than 1/2 of us are drunk. So when I see other guys making out, I'm looking to see if they're hot!
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    Jan 30, 2013 7:00 PM GMT
    It's pretty normal out here... I find it kinda hot actually... either seeing or participating lol icon_razz.gif