my boyfriend said his hand feels better than my ass...how would you feel if your boyfriend told you this?

  • rogerfederer

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    Jan 28, 2013 2:32 AM GMT
    it hurt my feelings bc honestly who prefers jacking off than to fucking a guy's butt?
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    Jan 28, 2013 2:56 AM GMT
    rogerfederer saidit hurt my feelings bc honestly who prefers jacking off than to fucking a guy's butt?

    Rather insensitive of him. It also tells me he may be spending a lot of time jerking off and has conditioned himself to need a very tight fist, which not all asses can match. And/or he just doesn't like anal - it's a fallacy that all gay men do.

    Have you asked him a reason for this preference? If it's the feel and tightness there may be things you can do to increase his pleasure with anal. Or he'll be the top long enough to please you, but then you'll actually get him off next with your mouth or your own hands. Some guys take turns like that, doing for the other what he likes best.
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    Jan 28, 2013 2:59 AM GMT
    Tell him that he hurt your feelings and find out why he said that to you. If he remains insensitive, I think you may be better off being single.
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    Jan 28, 2013 3:30 AM GMT
    I would enjoy it! haha, I don't know what his problem is.
  • seafrontbloke

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    Jan 28, 2013 4:14 PM GMT
    Insensitive, yes, but ask him to expIain why. We don't all like anal sex, and as has been said above, if we come to the party late we may well have conditioned ourselves to the feeling of a hand.
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    Jan 28, 2013 4:35 PM GMT


    Look at your own topic: http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/2770945/
  • JackDoyle

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    Jan 28, 2013 6:39 PM GMT
    you made a thread before saying you hated bottoming and got no pleasure from it, you should be happy
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    Jan 28, 2013 6:54 PM GMT
    get a new bf. I´ll adopt you as my fuck toy while you find one. #Kindness
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    Jan 31, 2013 3:55 PM GMT
    I offer my services as a second opinion. I'll be blindfolded. First his hand, then your ass. I'll you truthfully which is better.
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    Jan 31, 2013 4:12 PM GMT
    Some guys are jerkoholics and there's nothing you can do about that. He may be insensitive, but at least he's honest.
  • rnch

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    Jan 31, 2013 7:48 PM GMT
    GonzoTheGreat saidget a new bf. I´ll adopt you as my fuck toy while you find one. #Kindness





    gotta agree.




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  • Hothouse

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    Jan 31, 2013 8:02 PM GMT
    His hand must be AMAZING!