Drunk gays!

  • bish123

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    Jan 29, 2013 1:14 PM GMT
    Need some advice about as can't tell any of my friends! Me and this guys have been best friends for about 7 years! he is straight and we have never done any thing or it even crossed my mind to do sttuff till the other day we were both drunk and i ended up wanking him off (he tryed it on with me) and i really do not want it to effect our friendship! he did the usual straight guy thing in the morning like "i remember nothing from last night!" blah blah! any other guys had this or know of some advice? thanks
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    Jan 29, 2013 2:43 PM GMT
    Next time, when you meet him, don't talk about what happen between you two unless he brings it on...
    I'm sure this will keep your friendship running...
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    Jan 29, 2013 2:49 PM GMT
    The next time you two meet and if he acts as if nothing happened, then I'd say your friendship is safe. If he acts awkward around you and has a hard time finding what to say, then it's too late. Your wank adventure has already tarnished your friendship. Good luck!
  • bish123

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    Jan 29, 2013 4:42 PM GMT
    Thanks for the advice :-) seeing him tonight and we are going out again so hopefully it will all work out!
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    Jan 29, 2013 5:49 PM GMT
    Relax about tonite, I bet he knew exactly what he was doing and will say nothing about it. The "I dont remember a thing...." happens with straight women all the time who want to get fucked but dont want to look like a tramp, In this case, he was drunk and horny, and got off and got to use the excuse of bad memory. Let it go and move on I bet he is still your best friend. Good luck.
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    Jan 29, 2013 5:53 PM GMT
    bish123 saidNeed some advice about as can't tell any of my friends! Me and this guys have been best friends for about 7 years! he is straight and we have never done any thing or it even crossed my mind to do sttuff till the other day we were both drunk and i ended up wanking him off (he tryed it on with me) and i really do not want it to effect our friendship! he did the usual straight guy thing in the morning like "i remember nothing from last night!" blah blah! any other guys had this or know of some advice? thanks


    Pretend that nothing happened if that's the way he wants to handle it. At least you know that when you get desperate enough you can always ply him with alcohol and have your way with him. icon_twisted.gif
  • JackDoyle

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    Jan 29, 2013 6:03 PM GMT
    He's obviously not straight, same kinda thing happened with me and my friend when we were like 15, he had the nicest lil bubble butt and I got so horny I started dry humping him like a dog icon_lol.gif he just pushed me off but later that night he sucked me off, and this went on for a few weeks but now we never speak and he blanks me on the street and won't even add me on facebook icon_sad.gif it's sad cause we used to be such good friends, so if I were you I wouldn't get sexual with your friends
  • PolaroidSwing...

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    Jan 29, 2013 6:25 PM GMT
    JackDoyle saidHe's obviously not straight



    That's not necessarily true. Straight men can have sex with another man and still be straight. It's called situational homosexuality; it happens in prison all the time.
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    Jan 29, 2013 6:30 PM GMT
    Just leave it as the night you fooled around that's all. No need to bring up that topic.

    Its quite alright for two straight guys to have a one night stand with each other and then move back to their opposite gender interest.

    Don't make a mountain out of mole hill if you value his friendship.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jan 29, 2013 6:32 PM GMT
    Pretend like you don't remember either.

    And if he brings it up later ... pretend like you don't remember.
  • JackDoyle

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    Jan 29, 2013 6:34 PM GMT
    PolaroidSwinger said
    JackDoyle saidHe's obviously not straight



    That's not necessarily true. Straight men can have sex with another man and still be straight. It's called situational homosexuality; it happens in prison all the time.


    how would they get a boner though?? and how can ye be that horny that you'd switch sexuality? like no matter how horny I was I wouldn't be horny enough to fuck a girl
  • WhoDey

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    Jan 29, 2013 6:34 PM GMT
    PolaroidSwinger said
    JackDoyle saidHe's obviously not straight



    That's not necessarily true. Straight men can have sex with another man and still be straight. It's called situational homosexuality; it happens in prison all the time.


    I understand what you're saying, but disagree. He's not straight. But he's not gay either. He is somewhere in the middle of the Kinsey scale.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jan 29, 2013 6:35 PM GMT
    JackDoyle said
    PolaroidSwinger said
    JackDoyle saidHe's obviously not straight



    That's not necessarily true. Straight men can have sex with another man and still be straight. It's called situational homosexuality; it happens in prison all the time.


    how would they get a boner though?? and how can ye be that horny that you'd switch sexuality? like no matter how horny I was I wouldn't be horny enough to fuck a girl

    Guys can get boner from sitting to close to a warm heater ... really don't make more of it than it is.
  • WhoDey

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    Jan 29, 2013 6:36 PM GMT
    I'm not sure the "pretend like nothing happened" will work. Sometimes there can be some awkwardness until the "elephantin the room" can be brought out.
  • MidwesternKid

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    Jan 29, 2013 6:38 PM GMT
    Harry7785 saidNext time, when you meet him, don't talk about what happen between you two unless he brings it on...
    I'm sure this will keep your friendship running...


    Exactly. Let him make the move on the subject first.
  • PolaroidSwing...

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    Jan 29, 2013 6:40 PM GMT
    JackDoyle said
    PolaroidSwinger said
    JackDoyle saidHe's obviously not straight



    That's not necessarily true. Straight men can have sex with another man and still be straight. It's called situational homosexuality; it happens in prison all the time.


    how would they get a boner though?? and how can ye be that horny that you'd switch sexuality? like no matter how horny I was I wouldn't be horny enough to fuck a girl


    You might be surprised in the right situation. And arousal is an oftentimes uncontrollable physiological response to stimulation. Sometimes rape victims become aroused during the rape; doesn't mean they enjoy it.
  • JackDoyle

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    Jan 29, 2013 6:40 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk said
    JackDoyle said
    PolaroidSwinger said
    JackDoyle saidHe's obviously not straight



    That's not necessarily true. Straight men can have sex with another man and still be straight. It's called situational homosexuality; it happens in prison all the time.


    how would they get a boner though?? and how can ye be that horny that you'd switch sexuality? like no matter how horny I was I wouldn't be horny enough to fuck a girl

    Guys can get boner from sitting to close to a warm heater ... really don't make more of it than it is.


    yeah thats true, but you wouldn't let your friend wank you if you were straight doesn't matter how drunk you are
  • Medjai

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    Jan 29, 2013 6:57 PM GMT
    JackDoyle said
    yeah thats true, but you wouldn't let your friend wank you if you were straight doesn't matter how drunk you are


    No. Situational homosexuality is very documented. He was drunk, and likely not remotely turned on by his friend. Rather, it was convenient and felt good, independant of gender. It was just a hand, and it got him off. It in no way reflects on his sexuality, especially under the circumstances.
  • TheAlchemixt

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    Jan 29, 2013 7:56 PM GMT
    I am not sure but you should ask AwkwardAodhan. He likes doing the whole drunk and gay thing. He did it last night! ;)
  • JackDoyle

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    Jan 29, 2013 8:02 PM GMT
    Medjai said
    JackDoyle said
    yeah thats true, but you wouldn't let your friend wank you if you were straight doesn't matter how drunk you are


    No. Situational homosexuality is very documented. He was drunk, and likely not remotely turned on by his friend. Rather, it was convenient and felt good, independant of gender. It was just a hand, and it got him off. It in no way reflects on his sexuality, especially under the circumstances.


    ugh this is making me question was my friend even Bi, maybe thats why he hates me icon_confused.gif
  • Medjai

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    Jan 29, 2013 8:04 PM GMT
    JackDoyle said
    ugh this is making me question was my friend even Bi, maybe thats why he hates me icon_confused.gif


    Who knows?

    What I'm getting from this thread is that someone needs to get me drunk and take advantage of me.
  • Sportsfan1

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    Jan 29, 2013 11:31 PM GMT
    Do not bring it up. This happened to me many years ago and a friendship ended. I was more than willing to remain friends but he as the "straight" guy could not handle it. Not surprised he pulled the "I don't remember a thing" card. That is an excuse, a cop out. Be prepared that there may be some awkwardness at first. Try to be as natural as possible. Good luck to you.
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    Jan 29, 2013 11:40 PM GMT
    Yeah, I wouldn't bring it up. It shouldn't have happened in the first place.
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    Jan 29, 2013 11:41 PM GMT
    Cool story bro
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    Jan 29, 2013 11:42 PM GMT
    You jacked off your straight best friend? Congrats! icon_biggrin.gif