bill_asian saidI am a chubby. I have to admit. Now i am looking for a bf, yes, i admit i like muscular guys even though i am not one. so i m looking for someone that would inspire me to slim down. So any guys out there that could help me? thanks
You don't need a boyfriend (or be looking for a boyfriend) to motivate you to get into better shape. If you want to get into shape, do it for the right reasons--because you want to do it. Whatever you do, don't do it because society (especially the gay community) judges you for not being in shape.
Honestly, a chubbier guy who is happy and confident in themselves is a lot more attractive than an insecure muscular guy who is overly concerned with his looks and thinks he's overweight.