Looking for bf and also inspiration to slim down.

  • bill_asian

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    Feb 01, 2013 3:24 AM GMT
    I am a chubby. I have to admit. Now i am looking for a bf, yes, i admit i like muscular guys even though i am not one. so i m looking for someone that would inspire me to slim down. So any guys out there that could help me? thanks
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    Feb 01, 2013 3:25 AM GMT
    Do it for you, never for someone else.
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    Feb 01, 2013 3:29 AM GMT
    just think of a hot celeb for inspiration, u dont need a bf icon_smile.gif
  • AMoonHawk

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    Feb 01, 2013 3:41 AM GMT
    Why do you need inspiration ... why don't you just do it to prove you can. And once you have gotten there ... decide if you want to turn back.
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    Feb 01, 2013 4:07 AM GMT
    sigh...think about me...
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    Feb 01, 2013 5:44 AM GMT
    I feel really bad for you since half of the threads on here are about how guys don't like Asians and muscular guys don't like skinny guys. It's like you can't win.

    Maybe this will inspire you to slim down for yourself first and as a means to an end second.
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    Feb 01, 2013 6:11 AM GMT
    eagermuscle saidI feel really bad for you since half of the threads on here are about how guys don't like Asians and muscular guys don't like skinny guys. It's like you can't win.



    Don't forget the hate for the fats.
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    Feb 01, 2013 6:20 AM GMT
    Narciso said
    eagermuscle saidI feel really bad for you since half of the threads on here are about how guys don't like Asians and muscular guys don't like skinny guys. It's like you can't win.



    Don't forget the hate for the fats.


    Ya know what gets MY goat????

    Those African American chubby Drag Queens who ONLY eat cake and butter BUT INSIST on bedding down Caucasian elderly Men who wear Asian eyeliner but live in a Mongolian Yurt and bind their feet but STILL tell a beatiful story thru the art of Hulla Dancing.

    I mean SERIOUSLY...wtf?!?!?!?!!?!
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    Feb 01, 2013 6:21 AM GMT
    Cash said
    Those African American chubby Drag Queens who ONLY eat cake and butter BUT INSIST on bedding down Caucasian elderly Men who wear Asian eyeliner but live in a Mongolian Yurt and bind their feet but STILL tell a beatiful story thru the art of Hulla Dancing.



    I love a man with dainty bound feet. Fuckin' HOT.
  • bill_asian

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    Feb 01, 2013 12:07 PM GMT
    i think by looking at all your pictures it would be inspiring enough. hehe icon_lol.gif
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    Feb 01, 2013 12:14 PM GMT
    bill_asian saidI am a chubby. I have to admit. Now i am looking for a bf, yes, i admit i like muscular guys even though i am not one. so i m looking for someone that would inspire me to slim down. So any guys out there that could help me? thanks


    You don't need a boyfriend (or be looking for a boyfriend) to motivate you to get into better shape. If you want to get into shape, do it for the right reasons--because you want to do it. Whatever you do, don't do it because society (especially the gay community) judges you for not being in shape.

    Honestly, a chubbier guy who is happy and confident in themselves is a lot more attractive than an insecure muscular guy who is overly concerned with his looks and thinks he's overweight.
  • TheAlchemixt

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    Feb 01, 2013 12:16 PM GMT
    Narciso saidDo it for you, never for someone else.

    +1 PREACH
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    Feb 01, 2013 12:20 PM GMT
    Narciso saidDo it for you, never for someone else.


    +1 this is powerful!, reminds me of my uncle who said this, The few things in life You got to Love Yourself first

    Look in, then look out...icon_wink.gif
  • Bunjamon

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    Feb 01, 2013 1:04 PM GMT
    TheAlchemixt said
    Narciso saidDo it for you, never for someone else.

    +1 PREACH


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  • calibro

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    Feb 01, 2013 1:13 PM GMT
    Narciso said
    Cash said
    Those African American chubby Drag Queens who ONLY eat cake and butter BUT INSIST on bedding down Caucasian elderly Men who wear Asian eyeliner but live in a Mongolian Yurt and bind their feet but STILL tell a beatiful story thru the art of Hulla Dancing.



    I love a man with dainty bound feet. Fuckin' HOT.


    like jesus?
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    Feb 01, 2013 1:20 PM GMT
    Narciso saidDo it for you, never for someone else.

    This...You have to want it for you.
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    Feb 01, 2013 3:37 PM GMT
    bill_asian saidi think by looking at all your pictures it would be inspiring enough. hehe icon_lol.gif

    Don't know what's more flattering. The one in three chance you're talking about me instead of Narciso or Cash, or actually being quoted by Narciso and Cash in succession. If the former, thanks! If the latter, now I can retire.
  • HottJoe

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    Feb 01, 2013 3:40 PM GMT
    Tough love time:

    You're into muscle because you covet. The solution starts with you. Grab a fucking jump rope already and quit making excuses.
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    Feb 01, 2013 3:41 PM GMT
    You can look at guys results and get inspired, but it ultimately comes down to you and YOU wanting to make the lifestyle change. My thing back in the day was buying a "goal shirt". Went to a store that was generally geared towards thin bodied guys and bought a Large (at the time i was XXL)

    Picked a time I wanted to be able to fit into it, worked my ass off and was able to do it. Funny enough after I fit into the shirt i never wore it again, man it was ugly and I had no clue what i was thinking when i bought the thing.
  • bill_asian

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    Feb 01, 2013 4:06 PM GMT
    it s hard for me to look for a muscular bf that would like me the way i m. so i have to make the change in order to approach them. thanks for all the post. getting more inspired now. and sorry for the bad english