A big thanks to you all!

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    Sep 30, 2008 11:28 PM GMT
    I just want to say thank you to all your responses to my question I posted a couple of days ago:
    "Are gays hostile to straights and even bisexuals?"
    The response was quite overwhelming. Keep up the good work.
    The forum is a brilliant idea. At last we get to talk.
    Just one error on my part - In my original message I wrote that I was married. That was a grammatical mistake. I'm still happily married, and there is no thought of separation in sight.
    Overall, you seem to be quite happy to have a straight/bi on this site. I will go as far to say that most of you who responded have a better tolerance of us than many straights have of gays.
    In my younger years (in 1973) I was a qualified pool lifeguard. But even then I had a wolf-whistle blown at me from time to time, someone peering out of the corner of his eye while whispering to a passing stranger, and turning round to find three youths at poolside gazing at me and gigling to each other. Yet no-one ever approached me face to face to share the problem.
    Have you experienced anything like these?:

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    Oct 01, 2008 1:53 AM GMT
    Working as a nurse, for an agency. I get to move around a lot. Most assume I'm str8, and not wearing my sexuality on my sleeve I let em think this too.

    The other day I was wearing shorts to work, something I just about never do, and I had a few young things whispering about my calves, as they are big, and well defined. But nothing was said to me. I could hear some remarks, and see where their eyes are looking.

    Or I'll have em start to be all Queenie around me, to see how I react to their actions. I never react to such action, anywhere. But I do find it entertaining at work.

    Oh I don't live in the closet, I just don't wear my sexuality on my sleeve. Just about all my friends are str8, and know about me. yet have no issues with my sexuality. Can't say they are the same with all. I know my man and I have very diffrent timetables, and I do lots of things on my own, and many of my friends are saddened by this. But it's just the way it is.

    I don't care if you have a wife and 12 kids. If you are bi or str8. Another's sexuality is of no issue to me. Not unless I wanted to make him husband number 3. icon_biggrin.gif

    Kind regards from the only fag in the village. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 01, 2008 1:57 AM GMT
    Pattison saidWorking as a nurse, for an agency. I get to move around a lot. Most assume I'm str8, and not wearing my sexuality on my sleeve I let em think this two.

    The other day I was wearing shorts to work, something I just about never do, and I had a few young things whispering about my calves, as they are big, and well defined. But nothing was said to me. I could hear some remarks, and see where their eyes are looking.

    Or I'll have em start to be all Queenie around me, to see how I react to their actions. I never react to such action, anywhere. But I do find it entertaining at work.

    Oh I don't live in the closet, I just don't wear my sexuality on my sleeve. Just about all my friends are str8, and know about me. yet have no issues with my sexuality. Can't say they are the same with all. I know my man and I have very diffrent timetables, and I do lots of things on my own, and many of my friends are saddened by this. But it's just the way it is.

    I don't care if you have a wife and 12 kids. If you are bi or str8. Another's sexuality is of no issue to me. Not unless I wanted to make him husband number 3. icon_biggrin.gif

    Kind regards from the only fag in the village. icon_biggrin.gif



    This from a guy who supports the Republican party, that wants to deny gay people the right to marry. How sickening and contradicting!
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    Oct 01, 2008 2:17 AM GMT
    Koaa2 said
    Pattison saidWorking as a nurse, for an agency. I get to move around a lot. Most assume I'm str8, and not wearing my sexuality on my sleeve I let em think this two.

    The other day I was wearing shorts to work, something I just about never do, and I had a few young things whispering about my calves, as they are big, and well defined. But nothing was said to me. I could hear some remarks, and see where their eyes are looking.

    Or I'll have em start to be all Queenie around me, to see how I react to their actions. I never react to such action, anywhere. But I do find it entertaining at work.

    Oh I don't live in the closet, I just don't wear my sexuality on my sleeve. Just about all my friends are str8, and know about me. yet have no issues with my sexuality. Can't say they are the same with all. I know my man and I have very diffrent timetables, and I do lots of things on my own, and many of my friends are saddened by this. But it's just the way it is.

    I don't care if you have a wife and 12 kids. If you are bi or str8. An other's sexuality is of no issue to me. Not unless I wanted to make him husband number 3. icon_biggrin.gif

    Kind regards from the only fag in the village. icon_biggrin.gif



    This from a guy who supports the Republican party, that wants to deny gay people the right to marry. How sickening and contradicting!


    It amazes me that I can sit on the fence politically and state this, yet it's convenient to forget that. No-one knows who I would vote for,and If I had a vote in America, it would be my vote do do as I wish, and not yours!

    One fails to see what is contradictory to this.

    You are very closed minded to anyone who dose not think the same way as you, or have the same wants and need as you do. For me you are a great poster boy, of why not to vote for the democrats, and why children should not be put in your care.

    Marriage is a religious institution, not made for same sex people. if you went for acknowledgement of long term relationships, via de-facto laws. I would give that my full support. You comden religious people, yet you want access to their ceremonies. Marriage is a religious ceremony.

    I have 2 long term relationships. Do you care if you got what you wanted access to marriage. this still would leave me out in the cold. To marry, I would have to pick one. why should I do this. But you would not care about this, so long as you got what you wanted, fuck everybody else. So I'm more than happy the way things are, as I don't have to pick.

    I have a more open mind than you do, as I am able to look at the other sides view and not feel threatened by it. It is people like you and a number of these here why I would not vote for the democrats.

    If you find one sickenings your issues and you have too carry that luggage. You want all the rights, yet willing to deprive others of their rights too.

    I still stand by my original post.
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    Oct 01, 2008 2:20 AM GMT
    Pattison saidWorking as a nurse, for an agency. I get to move around a lot. Most assume I'm str8, and not wearing my sexuality on my sleeve I let em think this too.

    The other day I was wearing shorts to work, something I just about never do, and I had a few young things whispering about my calves, as they are big, and well defined. But nothing was said to me. I could hear some remarks, and see where their eyes are looking.

    Or I'll have em start to be all Queenie around me, to see how I react to their actions. I never react to such action, anywhere. But I do find it entertaining at work.

    Oh I don't live in the closet, I just don't wear my sexuality on my sleeve. Just about all my friends are str8, and know about me. yet have no issues with my sexuality. Can't say they are the same with all. I know my man and I have very diffrent timetables, and I do lots of things on my own, and many of my friends are saddened by this. But it's just the way it is.

    I don't care if you have a wife and 12 kids. If you are bi or str8. Another's sexuality is of no issue to me. Not unless I wanted to make him husband number 3. icon_biggrin.gif

    Kind regards from the only fag in the village. icon_biggrin.gif

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    Oct 01, 2008 8:16 AM GMT
    you are welcome