How do I big-spoon someone half a foot taller than me?

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    Feb 03, 2013 8:05 PM GMT
    I usually date around the same height, but when I get messaged by a super cute guy who loves being small spoon, I can't just eliminate him for being 5'11 haha. Hence the thought came up.

    A segway... I think part of the reason I can't imagine being small-spoon, (besides wanting to observe the beauty of the guy i'm spooning), is because I feel the need to control the level of affection being given during those intimate moments, maybe because I don't want to be let go from an embrace sooner than expected or something like that. Thoughts?
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    Feb 04, 2013 2:32 AM GMT
    Bless your little heart! ;)

    When my hubby is the big spoon, his face is usually at the base of my neck. I'd recommend your lap is under super-cute-guy's butt, and your arm tucks nicely under his armpit, then reach around and grab his pecs or his tummy.
  • barriehomeboy

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    Feb 04, 2013 2:36 AM GMT
    I need u turorial. I just know top and bottom. What's the big and small spoon thing about?
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    Feb 04, 2013 2:44 AM GMT
    With all the huggin cuddle lovins you can muster!
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    Feb 04, 2013 2:45 AM GMT
    boston6_8guy saidBless your little heart! ;)

    When my hubby is the big spoon, his face is usually at the base of my neck. I'd recommend your lap is under super-cute-guy's butt, and your arm tucks nicely under his armpit, then reach around and grab his pecs or his tummy.


    This is what my bf does. I'm 6'2" and he's.. um.. short. lol

    @Barrie: Dude in tank is big spoon.
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    Feb 04, 2013 2:45 AM GMT
    I'm 5'8 and my ex is 6'1. To spoon him, I lie down first and pat my hand against my chest and look at him with my puppy eyes. Once he lays down on my chest, I then enclose him like a venus fly trap. Done.
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    Feb 04, 2013 2:48 AM GMT
    huhwhat saidI'm 5'8 and my ex is 6'1. To spoon him, I lie down first and pat my hand against my chest and look at him with my puppy eyes. Once he lays down on my chest, I then enclose him like a venus fly trap. Done.


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    Feb 04, 2013 2:50 AM GMT
    Easy...
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  • Timbales

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    Feb 04, 2013 2:51 AM GMT
    match up hip to hip, like he's sitting in your lap, wrap your arms around him and rest your head on his back
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    Feb 04, 2013 3:20 AM GMT
    Just be the big spoon, hang on for dear life and pray he doesn't roll over on his back.
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    Feb 04, 2013 3:21 AM GMT
    have him curl his legs around yours
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    Feb 18, 2013 2:00 AM GMT
    Yeah, so it didn't work out lol. And I'm SURE part of it had to do with him not getting "wrapped" as much as he would like when we were spooning. I couldn't even imagine how topping him would be like...
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    Feb 18, 2013 2:02 AM GMT
    5'11 isn't that tall, just slightly above average. Do you norm date guys around the 5'5" range?
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    Feb 18, 2013 2:03 AM GMT
    him being almost half a foot taller than me matters more than whether he's merely above average or not lol

    I really envy tall people; they don't even have to be as hot to get the cute guys haha
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    Feb 18, 2013 2:04 AM GMT
    Seeing as how I'm 5' 5 1/2" tall, I don't ever foresee me being the big spoon. It'd be tough to work. Having never spooned, I am unsure as to how I would like it. But, from a 3rd person perspective, it seems good.
  • nomad4life

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    Feb 18, 2013 2:21 AM GMT
    Walking around all tall people like to assume we'd be the big spoon just because of height. When you find a tall guy (who likes to be little spoon) and you are willing to big spoon him, he will like you sooo much more, if anything just because you try
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    Feb 18, 2013 2:29 AM GMT
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    What does height have to do with anything when you're horizontal? Stop spooning standing up and you shouldn't have a problem. Remember. Don't spoon in the dishwasher. Only spoon in a drawer.
  • Stephan

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    Feb 18, 2013 2:31 AM GMT
    Just Do it! When Love is involved, there is no question of height, weight, or color, but the emotion!
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    Feb 18, 2013 2:32 AM GMT
    mashedpotatoes saidhim being almost half a foot taller than me matters more than whether he's merely above average or not lol

    I really envy tall people; they don't even have to be as hot to get the cute guys haha

    There are plenty of us who love short guys! ;)
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    Feb 18, 2013 2:48 AM GMT
    I'm 5'9", and years ago I dated a guy who was 6'2". It's possible. You just have to come to grips with the fact that your face is going to be against his back. You can cheat a little bit by holding him where your dick is at the top of his butt rather than down by his perineum. Also, straighten your legs a little and flatten the angle to make it more comfortable. Let's face it, there's no magic formula that's going to make you wrap around him naturally, so just make the best of it.

    I love being the big spoon. It's like I'm holding my own living, sexy teddy bear.
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    Feb 19, 2013 5:40 PM GMT
    With a fair bit of will , you can bloody climb a mountain icon_smile.gif
  • wild_sky360

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    Feb 19, 2013 6:57 PM GMT
    I'm short and my boyfriends have all been taller; some much taller. Face to back is actually a more relaxing spot. You can kiss his back and neck, instead of his hair. And, the back is a lot softer than back of his skull if there is a sudden movement after dozing off.
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    Feb 21, 2013 12:47 AM GMT
    jrmdavis said
    mashedpotatoes saidhim being almost half a foot taller than me matters more than whether he's merely above average or not lol

    I really envy tall people; they don't even have to be as hot to get the cute guys haha

    There are plenty of us who love short guys! ;)


    Everyone who says that is a top =(
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    Feb 21, 2013 12:48 AM GMT
    It's not hard. No, your face might nestle at his shoulder rather than the back of his head, but it still works.
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    Feb 21, 2013 12:50 AM GMT
    mashedpotatoes said
    jrmdavis said
    mashedpotatoes saidhim being almost half a foot taller than me matters more than whether he's merely above average or not lol

    I really envy tall people; they don't even have to be as hot to get the cute guys haha

    There are plenty of us who love short guys! ;)


    Everyone who says that is a top =(


    Ummm... I can't refute that *myself*. But I've known couples that we the opposite: short top, taller bottom. It's all about chemistry, and height often doesn't come into play.