desxxxoh saidWhat do you think? I'm personally a fem dragqueen majority the time I talk to guys I'm like denied cause I'm a fem drag queen and its really like annoying cause this who I am and I want find love and relationship but its just so difficult like I just feel like picking up 40lbs weights and becoming masc just I can actually have guy talk to me. Is this normal for me feel so jaded I bet if I was hot that would change.. but I really like having a slim figure to fit an illusion of women in my way. And please noh8 I want read what people have to say about this I don't want to see random threads of angry men attacking me. Please & thank you.
Folks have their preferences. If you like masculine jocks, this is a good site for that.
As such, personally, if I wanted to date girls, I would, and could, but, every person has their preferences.
If you act a certain way, dress a certain way, have blue hair, etc., you should expect a certain level of rejection. It comes with the territory.
If you wanta' be a flamer, that's your thing, and there's certain folks that think it's part of the gay identity, but, lots of gay men are quite happy to act like typical guys. It helps to break down stereotypes.
If you wanta' wear a dress, that's your thing, but, any time you deviate beyond a certain level from "norm", you can expect, and, in fact, set yourself up for rejection. You get to decide if you like that rejection, or not.
The World is not a fair place, and all accepting. We have expectations set upon all us the time: behavior, appearance, etc. Sound judgment protects us in life's journey, and being judgmental is imperative to success.
Gay acceptance has come a long way because folks have found out their best friend is gay, and he's not a flamer, and so on.
You are who you are, and, if that's who you are, you should seek out like minded folks, rather than seeking rejection and whining.
I have skinny gay guys that lash out at me for looking a certain way, but, of course, that's angry projection, and, I take it for what it is.
Rather than complaining, you need to engineer an intelligent community of like minded people. Folks like what they like.