IT'S SO MUCH EASIER FOR PEOPLE TO GIVE THEIR BODIES THAN THEIR HEARTS

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    Feb 05, 2013 8:08 PM GMT
    "RELAX it's just Sex!"

    Oh Really?
    When you've had fantastic sex with somebody you couldn't help but fall for them? Not that easy. Why?
    Have we been broken hearted that long enough that we numb our emotions the sensation that sex brings? Isn't it supposed to bring us closer, not farther apart?
    Discuss....
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    Feb 05, 2013 8:13 PM GMT
    I know for some it's just play, but what if we want more than just the physical?
    What if the playing made you realize what you wanted was something other, something more meaningful, long term?
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    Feb 05, 2013 8:43 PM GMT
    Some really, really, really needs a boyfriend, and I hope he finds one. icon_biggrin.gif
  • LEANDRO_NJ

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    Feb 05, 2013 11:01 PM GMT
    Rudy some of us are aware we are more then just sexual creatures! sadly men but gay men in particular have bought into the idea, that gays are not capable to commit much less love!! but that's o.k, because you and I are living proofs that those assumptions aren't true, at all!!
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    Feb 05, 2013 11:04 PM GMT
    showme saidSome really, really, really needs a boyfriend, and I hope he finds one. icon_biggrin.gif
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  • LEANDRO_NJ

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    Feb 05, 2013 11:08 PM GMT
    By the way, I don't know about you!? but for me whenever I am emotionally connected with my sexual partner, the sexual pleasures are ten times more intense! having said that Love is not something that happens overnight, it takes time, lots and lots of trial times!
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    Feb 05, 2013 11:32 PM GMT
    yes giving your heart is perilious
  • calibro

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    Feb 06, 2013 4:20 AM GMT
    you say that like it's a bad thing
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    Feb 06, 2013 4:21 AM GMT
    No one gets this body unless there is MONOGAMY! I learned that from Patti Stanger


    Unless I am horny and they are really really really hot
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    Feb 06, 2013 4:33 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    showme saidSome really, really, really needs a boyfriend, and I hope he finds one. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 06, 2013 5:07 AM GMT
    LEANDRO_NJ saidBy the way, I don't know about you!? but for me whenever I am emotionally connected with my sexual partner, the sexual pleasures are ten times more intense!
    Having said that Love is not something that happens overnight, it takes time, lots and lots of trial times!


    THANK YOU!

    And YES, I Want a Boyfriend!
    Working on it already betches! icon_wink.gif
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    Feb 06, 2013 6:30 AM GMT
    I'll be your boyfriend if you want icon_redface.gif
  • CityofDreams

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    Feb 06, 2013 6:31 AM GMT
    JumpMan_Josh saidI'll be your boyfriend if you want icon_redface.gif


    Says the man who already has one icon_lol.gif
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    Feb 06, 2013 6:31 AM GMT
    Thread title is so true!
    That's why I give neither
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    Feb 06, 2013 6:32 AM GMT
    I like the guy above me.

    Nobody is getting either right now lol
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    Feb 06, 2013 6:47 AM GMT
    Trollileo saidI wonder how much my heart would go for on the black market...
    Hmmmm I paid 50 grand my new one.
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    Feb 06, 2013 6:51 AM GMT
    Trollileo said
    RadRTT said
    Trollileo saidI wonder how much my heart would go for on the black market...
    Hmmmm I paid 50 grand my new one.
    Let me know if you need another one. I'll "cut you a deal."
    15-20 years I need another one.
  • Medjai

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    Feb 06, 2013 6:52 AM GMT
    RadRTT saidNo one gets this body unless there is MONOGAMY! I learned that from Patti Stanger


    Unless I am horny and they are really really really hot


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    Feb 06, 2013 7:03 AM GMT
    Trollileo said
    RadRTT said
    Trollileo said
    RadRTT said
    Trollileo saidI wonder how much my heart would go for on the black market...
    Hmmmm I paid 50 grand my new one.
    Let me know if you need another one. I'll "cut you a deal."
    15-20 years I need another one.
    Oh good. That's when I'm expected to die.
    Better not be heart failure.
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    Feb 06, 2013 7:10 AM GMT
    Agreed with OP. It's easier to get a nut off than it is to give your heart. When you love someone and give your love to them, you give them a power of you and the ability to destroy you. I don't know if I am willing to give that so freely anymore. I am open to it but I've become better at holding myself back from crossing that line because if I don't I get hurt and for some reason it's my fault because I should have known better. Can't win for losing.
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    Feb 06, 2013 7:23 AM GMT
    Good sex is when you have sex to express how much you love someone, filling both sexual needs while intimately bonded emotionally. But those who only want to play and sex-hook up for sport, are seeking to expresss how much they LUST someone. As hot as emotionless sex can be, it can never be as hot or as fulfilling as sex with someone you know well and love on an emotional level. But then no one said it would be easy to attain. What really good things in life come easy?
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    Feb 06, 2013 8:36 AM GMT
    Love is in the air...
    Everywhere I look around...

    Love is in the air...
    Every sight and every sound...

    And I don't know if I'm being foolish
    Don't know if I'm being wise

    But it's something that I must believe in
    And it's there when I look in your eyes


    Love is in the air...
    In the rising of the sun

    Love is in the air...
    When the day is nearly done

    And I don't know if you are an illusion
    Don't know if I see truth

    But you are something that I must believe in
    And you are there when I reach out for you




    *WAIT not just yet Rudy.... icon_razz.gif
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    Feb 06, 2013 8:39 AM GMT
    Not me, but I'm known for being abnormal.
  • drypin

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    Feb 06, 2013 9:45 AM GMT
    IT'S SO MUCH EASIER FOR PEOPLE TO GIVE THEIR BODIES THAN THEIR HEARTS ...

    ah, but the rewards are far greater if you take the risk.
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    Feb 06, 2013 5:00 PM GMT
    Har19 said
    Love is in the air...
    Everywhere I look around...

    Love is in the air...
    Every sight and every sound...

    And I don't know if I'm being foolish
    Don't know if I'm being wise

    But it's something that I must believe in
    And it's there when I look in your eyes


    Love is in the air...
    In the rising of the sun

    Love is in the air...
    When the day is nearly done

    And I don't know if you are an illusion
    Don't know if I see truth

    But you are something that I must believe in
    And you are there when I reach out for you




    *WAIT not just yet Rudy.... icon_razz.gif



    Haha, LOVE ET! icon_biggrin.gif

    I got it. I'll wait...