Being alone for the rest of my life

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    Feb 06, 2013 6:43 AM GMT
    Hello, I haven't met anyone who is a guy that I can see myself being with. Gay men are usually to feminine for me. I haven't been in a relationship yet and i'm only getting older. I'm always worried that ill never find anybody. Do you believe that being gay makes it a lot more likely that you'll end up alone? and how do you think I can avoid going home to an empty house for the rest of my life?
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    Feb 06, 2013 6:50 AM GMT
    You're 19 man. Life has barley started. I'm 19 as well and I believe we are far too young to love right now. I view this point in my life as time for me to grow and find out who I am and what I want to do with my life. I'd like to live my life for a while before I am ready to share it. This is only the beginning, peruse dreams and do everything you can to further yourself and live a happy life. The time for love will come icon_smile.gif
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    Feb 06, 2013 6:51 AM GMT
    you're still 19...you'll find someone for sure!

    Being gay doesn't make one alone...a feeling of not being loved makes people alone!

    Go & meet people!

    If you consider all gay men are feminine, then I can assure you that you haven't met all of them!..
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    Feb 06, 2013 6:52 AM GMT
    a 19 year old worried about being alone forever omfg lmfao ur killing me
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    Feb 06, 2013 6:53 AM GMT
    #jumpingtheshark@19

    #imalonebutnobodymeetsmystandards
  • Karl

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    Feb 06, 2013 6:55 AM GMT
    McQueen saida 19 year old worried about being alone forever omfg lmfao ur killing me

    I was trying to not laugh but after reading your post I couldn't help it21.gif
  • TheAlchemixt

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    Feb 06, 2013 8:07 AM GMT
    Karl said
    McQueen saida 19 year old worried about being alone forever omfg lmfao ur killing me

    I was trying to not laugh but after reading your post I couldn't help it21.gif

    +1
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    Feb 06, 2013 8:10 AM GMT
    Is you serious rn?
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    Feb 06, 2013 8:33 AM GMT
    *facepalm*

    You're half my age. Stop putting so much pressure on yourself. You have many, many years to find your partner for life. Have some fun. Make some friends. Explore yourself a little. Above all, RELAX!
  • zakariahzol

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    Feb 06, 2013 11:47 AM GMT
    I use to feel this way when I was 19. Life turn out, surprisingly different. I meet love , travel all over the world, have great career, learn different language and embarking in all kind of interest and adventure. I certainly have no time for self pity or being lonely. It just a phase. You get over it..trust me
  • calibro

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    Feb 06, 2013 12:31 PM GMT
    i'm crying on the inside
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    Feb 06, 2013 1:10 PM GMT
    Set a pact with someone. If you are both single by a certain age then promise to get together.
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    Feb 06, 2013 1:19 PM GMT
    19 and complaining hahaha icon_lol.gif you are handsome and young , leave the complaining to people who suffer health problems or ugliness . Man you are in noooo position to complain shame on you ...
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    Feb 06, 2013 1:27 PM GMT
    Unless you want to be lonely by the time you get to my age, Go out and put yourself out there and be open minded, not picky.
  • bmw0

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    Feb 06, 2013 1:29 PM GMT
    Funny, because being single for me does not make me alone.

    I don't get why everyone is so obsessed with finding someone to make them whole. Especially at your age. You have no idea how much your world is going to change over the next ten years. So i recommend that you focus on yourself first and foremost. That's what I did. I focused on my relationships with friends and family and worked on making myself a better person. I started volunteering and being friendly. So far it's worked pretty well for me. I have a lot of people that i can count on and i've never been in a more solid place in my life. I don't care if i ever find a partner. I mean, if i do that would be great and i would welcome it with open arms, but i am perfectly happy being single knowing i put my best foot forward, i help others, i'm kind to people and there are amazing people around me.

    Best of luck and i hope you find your happiness.
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    Feb 06, 2013 1:33 PM GMT
    ryan2013 saidUnless you want to be lonely by the time you get to my age,
    oMFG U ARE 24 U ARENT EVEN OLD JFC U PEOPLE ARE CRAY
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    Feb 06, 2013 1:34 PM GMT
    McQueen said
    ryan2013 saidUnless you want to be lonely by the time you get to my age,
    oMFG U ARE 24 U ARENT EVEN OLD JFC U PEOPLE ARE CRAY


    Preach.
  • spacemagic

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    Feb 06, 2013 1:35 PM GMT
    I remember feeling like that at your age too. Bmw0 gave some great advice that I second.
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    Feb 06, 2013 1:44 PM GMT
    93stunner saidHello, I haven't met anyone who is a guy that I can see myself being with. Gay men are usually to feminine for me. I haven't been in a relationship yet and i'm only getting older. I'm always worried that ill never find anybody. Do you believe that being gay makes it a lot more likely that you'll end up alone? and how do you think I can avoid going home to an empty house for the rest of my life?


    Things will get better in the dating department. Don't you worry.

    For now, focus on getting an education and a career. You're cute enough to attract the right guy at the right time. What you NEED to do now is grow up, learn more about the world, and learn more about who you are supposed to become.
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    Feb 06, 2013 1:57 PM GMT
    My crystal ball shows me a fat, bitter, lonely old queen who surprising enough is not alone because he cares for 15 to 20 feral cats. Is it you? Fuck if I know. I do know you're only 19 y/o and have a lot of time to work towards making your life how you want it to be.

  • blueandgold

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    Feb 06, 2013 1:58 PM GMT
    Saber170 saidYou're 19 man. Life has barley started. I'm 19 as well and I believe we are far too young to love right now. I view this point in my life as time for me to grow and find out who I am and what I want to do with my life. I'd like to live my life for a while before I am ready to share it. This is only the beginning, peruse dreams and do everything you can to further yourself and live a happy life. The time for love will come icon_smile.gif


    I don't know if I agree that 19 is "far too young to love". I know several people who met or were in a relationship at 19 that turned into a marriage.

    I think that penning yourself into a corner as too young for love is in a way just as restrictive as saying you are too old to find somebody. Too many people I know dismiss gays in their early 20s as incapable of a meaningful relationship. Give yourself some credit; hopefully you have the emotional depth to love somebody if the right person came along.

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    Feb 06, 2013 1:59 PM GMT
    You're only 19... Time is on your side!
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    Feb 06, 2013 2:00 PM GMT
    You're getting old??? At 19 you should be worrying about other stuff rather than being in a relationship. I remember I had the same fear at that age, but trust me dude, sometimes it's best to be single and happy than in a relationship and unhappy. My advice to you is focus on school, work, a career, and the rest will come.
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    Feb 06, 2013 2:37 PM GMT
    At 31, still being reminded I'm young. Cut yourselves a break, and date guys for less tangible superficial reasons. That, and you have no idea what feeling alone is, if being alone hasn't been motivation enough to get out and change your life. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Feb 06, 2013 2:52 PM GMT
    This cynical at 19? Your balls just dropped for fucks sake.