mr_ngt saidGot this friend from work close to known him for nearly a year, we get on well similar interests n both go to the gym together after work, gotta admit was attracted to the guy at first then that developed into a really good friendship, I have no idea if he knows about me at all but there have been moments where I possibly think he could be Bi, still really good friends with him but what do u do when u find yourself developing feelings for a friend that is str8 and may not have a clue that am gay, what can I do or what should I do? Anyone have some advice they can give??
Cope with it as best you can. I'm dealing with the same issue and it's extremely painful.
Tell him you're gay and see how he reacts for starters. If he's your really good friend, he should accept you and be supportive. If he doesn't, then he's probably not your friend.
If he's ok with you being gay, you have to make the choice of whether to admit to him how you feel. Unfortunately, most straight guys struggle with finding out their gay friend has feelings for them. It will either destroy your friendship, or at least make things awkward for awhile while you both deal with it. Hope your friend is one of the rare straight guys who aren't offended by it and won't ditch you when they find out. I'm fortunate in that my first and strongest crush on a straight friend didn't turn him away, it made our friendship stronger.
Your only other option is to not tell him you have feelings for him and hope you can get over it, or just live with it.