kevmoran saidI feel like I've run out of guys in my area, but there has to be some in hiding. At the moment I just go to bars occasionally and dating sites. But there has to be another way, especially because most of the great guys are not the bar type or the dating site type.
I hear you. I have even done the numerical analysis for my situation:
500,000 people live within a reasonable distance
10,000 of those are gay men
2,000 of them are in the right age range (35-45)
200 of them are on the dating market (the rest is already partnered, happily single, not out, etc)
40 of them are dating material (have their life together, not obese, etc)
10 of those I have some interests in common with.
And I wonder if I haven't already met them all...