In case you thought your dating situation was tough.

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    Oct 02, 2008 8:49 AM GMT
    So I met this guy last year. He was "straight" until he was drunk. One of those. I didn't mind for a while that we were definitely not going to date but we became really close best friends.

    He has an ex-girlfriend whos always around and I just developed a hunch that they're still sleeping together as well as he let me borrow his laptop and I saw in his web browser history some m4w sex ad. After he rolled off me today when we slept together he got a text from some number that said "do you live alone?" which I suspect is some Craigslist broad.

    Wow, I never ever thought I'd get myself into one of these.
    I almost feel resentful enough to out him but not even I am that mean.
    Jesus, I would always look at these guys that were all I'm in love with my best friend and he wont convert over publicly, and now I'm one of them. Jeeeez.

    Even more that men are so much more complicated than women.
    Sometimes I think I'm going straight. No joke.
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    Oct 02, 2008 8:52 AM GMT
    Your sleeping with a straight

    WTF did you expect? candles, roses and white picket fences?
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    Oct 02, 2008 8:54 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidYour sleeping with a straight

    WTF did you expect? candles, roses and white picket fences?


    My thoughts exactly! One more: YOU=Fleshlight or Blow-Up Doll icon_lol.gif
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    Oct 02, 2008 8:58 AM GMT
    I know right. Trust me, trust me. I know I'm dumb.

    It doesn't help that he's half Brazilian/White and half Black. I mean the combo makes him really really good looking. He's actually a nice guy besides the fact I suspect he's dicking around. Which I mean, I'm not his boyfriend so I think my next step is to find some normal dude.

    PS -- Thank you baby Jesus with my paranoia of STDs and I always wrap and demand wrapped tools before they enter the shed.
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    Oct 02, 2008 9:06 AM GMT
    Insisting on condoms is not paranoia, it is smart.

    But sleeping with this guy it dumb. Enjoy the fuck and don't have any emotional attachments. If you can't, then stop sleeping with him. You are just hurting yourself and you know it.
  • GQjock

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    Oct 02, 2008 10:46 AM GMT
    After you skipped over the barbed wire and got through the minefield and the man eating troll that lived under the bridge...

    ...did you have an inkling that there might be trouble ahead?
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    Oct 02, 2008 2:28 PM GMT
    MunchingZombie saidInsisting on condoms is not paranoia, it is smart.

    But sleeping with this guy it dumb. Enjoy the fuck and don't have any emotional attachments. If you can't, then stop sleeping with him. You are just hurting yourself and you know it.


    Yeah, I'm being a huge sucker. I never thought I would be and the sad part is I know I'm being a huge sucker. Half of me doesn't care he's doing his thing and the other half wants to date him.

    I think my best bet is to start looking elsewhere. I'm really picky but obviously plan A isn't working.
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    Oct 02, 2008 3:10 PM GMT
    Hate to overstate the obvious...
    But this isn't dating, it's fucking.
    And you're not in a relationship, you have a fuck bud.
    And this isn't complicated, it's sterotypical...

    If you want a bf, yeah, you'll have to raise your standards and be single for years like the rest of us icon_eek.gif
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    Oct 02, 2008 3:12 PM GMT
    BodyWork4 saidHate to overstate the obvious...
    But this isn't dating, it's fucking.
    And you're not in a relationship, you have a fuck bud.
    And this isn't complicated, it's sterotypical...

    If you want a bf, yeah, you'll have to raise your standards and be single for years like the rest of us icon_eek.gif



    Very WELL put!!!! Nuff said.....
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    Oct 02, 2008 3:14 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidYour sleeping with a straight

    WTF did you expect? candles, roses and white picket fences?




    Ummmmm, is that a problem? icon_rolleyes.gif
  • dfrourke

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    Oct 02, 2008 3:36 PM GMT
    "Wow, I never ever thought I'd get myself into one of these."

    really?

    "So I met this guy last year. He was "straight" until he was drunk. One of those. I didn't mind for a while that we were definitely not going to date but we became really close best friends."

    Sounds like you got exactly what you were looking for...

    - David icon_rolleyes.gif

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    Oct 02, 2008 3:43 PM GMT

    After he rolled off of you....any more romantic imagery for us?

    I recall situations like this, the well had run dry and the only guy around was some "inbetweener" looking to roll on top of me, get off, and then roll off.

    Needless to say, me and my right hand found more desirable evening plans.
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    Oct 02, 2008 3:59 PM GMT
    Em is he really that "straight"?

    Dude i'd let him go. God knows what he's gonna bring home to you when he's spreading himself around like that.

    Regardless of how hot he is, is it worth you feeling 2nd rate? or having your heart stabbed everytime he gets a txt from some girl or... guy?

    Move on bud icon_sad.gif
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    Oct 02, 2008 4:21 PM GMT
    juliogarcia saidYeah, I'm being a huge sucker. I never thought I would be and the sad part is I know I'm being a huge sucker. Half of me doesn't care he's doing his thing and the other half wants to date him.

    I think my best bet is to start looking elsewhere. I'm really picky but obviously plan A isn't working.


    That is my advice exactly! Get yourself a few friends to fuck, get out there are meet openly gay guys, and have fun. This guy is an emotional death trap and the only way you can remain friends with him is to have other guys stuff wrapped tools in your shed.
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    Oct 02, 2008 8:08 PM GMT
    CuriousJockAZ said
    lilTanker saidYour sleeping with a straight

    WTF did you expect? candles, roses and white picket fences?




    Ummmmm, is that a problem? icon_rolleyes.gif


    Nothing is wrong with wanting that, whats wrong, is wanting it from the wrong person.

    The guy is obviously not interested in any sort of relationship so the post should not be expecting any sort of commitment or anything else really except a lay.