THE "Doghouse"....

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    Feb 07, 2013 11:55 PM GMT
    As one that has fucked up more than once, what is you surefire method of redeeming yourself with your husband, spouse, BF, etc....icon_redface.gificon_rolleyes.gif
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    Feb 08, 2013 12:04 AM GMT
    Apologize. Mean it. And whatever it is that got you into the doghouse, don't do that s**t anymore.
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    Feb 08, 2013 2:13 AM GMT
    Apologizing

    "I'm sorry" are the 2 hardest words to say, but are also the most necessary
  • MidwesternKid

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    Feb 08, 2013 2:42 AM GMT
    Feed the boy.
  • great_scott

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    Feb 09, 2013 3:06 AM GMT
    Admit you fucked up. I've found it also helps if you throw in some of your previous fuck ups and re-apologize for those. Gives the current apology that truly sorry effect. icon_wink.gif
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    Feb 09, 2013 3:11 AM GMT
    Couples therapy?
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    Feb 09, 2013 3:30 AM GMT
    maybe if you quit 'fucking up' you wont end up there!! icon_wink.gif
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    Feb 09, 2013 3:37 AM GMT
    Figure out why you keep fucking up, and create a plan to stop fucking up. Admit to your husband, boyfriend, etc that you have the issues, and are willing to do the work to correct them. He will either forgive you or not....you must accept his decision, since you created his shit storm!

    Good luck!
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    Feb 09, 2013 5:21 AM GMT
    Can you elaborate on what you mean by the dog-house? What does it look like? What behaviors of you and your partner create this "dog-house?" I'm genuinely curious to know before I provide my two cents.
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    Feb 09, 2013 12:43 PM GMT
    Grow up. Stop doing the stupid stuff that you know will not be tolerated.
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    Feb 09, 2013 12:58 PM GMT
    try not being a douche to begin with- it goes a long way.

  • LuckyGuyKC

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    Feb 09, 2013 1:14 PM GMT
    Lots of lube
  • HndsmKansan

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    Feb 09, 2013 1:17 PM GMT
    It hasn't happened very often...lol
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    Feb 09, 2013 9:19 PM GMT
    learn to love the bottom of the dogpile