Who would date me?

  • gregory548

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    Oct 02, 2008 7:04 PM GMT
    I´m single and I´m single long time. Nobody likes me... But I´m not in depresion, i have lots of friends but not a serious relationship... and i think i need it.
    any advice?
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    Oct 02, 2008 8:16 PM GMT
    If you want advice, we'll need more information. For instance: how long you've been single, why you think you need a relationship, what you mean by noby liking you, etc.
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    Oct 02, 2008 8:19 PM GMT
    You're only 19. Don't worry about it. Give yourself some time. Enjoy the company of your friends and one day you'll make a friend who is a bit more special than the others.
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    Oct 02, 2008 8:49 PM GMT
    J'ai lu votre "profil." L'anglais n'est pas mauvais pour vous; mon français est! icon_biggrin.gif Mais si je peux continuer en anglais, pour fournir pour vous une réponse, peut-être...

    You are just 19, as someone else here has said. It is not such a long time to be 19, is it? And each person finds their own time in this world. Your own will come in due time.

    Mais mon cher, vous ne souriez pas en vos photographies. Je vous espère sourire pour vos amis. Le sourire est la voie d'aimer, n'est-ce pas?

    But I have not heard your voice, not heard your words. They must be attractive as well, for you to do well. What is it you do in life? A student, perhaps? Je vois l'étudiant dans vos yeux.

    Please tell us more, and someone here may be better able to advise you.

    Mon meilleur à toi.
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    Oct 02, 2008 8:59 PM GMT
    Will these posts never end!? icon_mad.gif
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    Oct 02, 2008 9:05 PM GMT
    HighVoltageGuy saidWill these posts never end!? icon_mad.gif


    How cruel and apathetic. No one is making you read these posts. Some of us need advice, and some of us are willing to give it--rather than bitch. No one is perfect... are you?
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    Oct 02, 2008 9:13 PM GMT

    When your post tally is 971, you can bitch his head off cjcscuba1984.

    He's obviously been here longer and knows the rhymes and rythms of the RealJock forums better than you do. Yes, this is a discussion forum chock full of good advice, real life stories, and vital information, but my god, some questions answers are just common sense....like this one. icon_lol.gif
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    Oct 02, 2008 9:20 PM GMT
    dapaka saidI´m single and I´m single long time. Nobody likes me... But I´m not in depresion, i have lots of friends but not a serious relationship... and i think i need it.
    any advice?



    dont worry, i have been single foreverrrrrrr, i am thinking about dating but the right guy has not come along yet, and that might be the case with you

    one thing i can say for sure is, dont just date anyone just cuz u want a boy friend, thats about the worst thing you can do
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    Oct 02, 2008 9:25 PM GMT
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    Oct 02, 2008 9:25 PM GMT
    dapaka saidI´m single and I´m single long time. Nobody likes me... But I´m not in depresion, i have lots of friends but not a serious relationship... and i think i need it.
    any advice?



    Rule #1 for getting a date: Do NOT throw a "Pity Party" for yourself -- ever!
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    Oct 02, 2008 9:28 PM GMT
    Thank you GG!

    In a way I am being a little cruel and apathetic. This question pops up every other week and is usually posted by an individual under the age of 20. "I've been single foooorrrrevvvver!" Give me a break. You've only been 'legal' for a couple years and have yet to experience life. If you're still single at 30, 40, 50 or even 60...then you can come back to the boards and ask "what's wrong with me." Until then...stop whining.
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    Oct 02, 2008 9:32 PM GMT
    My 2 cents...

    You're never going to be in a fulfilling relationship until you're happy with yourself first.

    So take care of you first. Instead of looking to the outside about being single forever, why not celebrate single stuff?

    ** Eat dinner out in a cafe and people watch
    ** Walk around your entire house in your underwear
    ** Fix waffles and hash browns and cereal for dinner because nobody's gonna judge if you eat breakfast food at supper time
    ** Treat yourself to a good solid workout
    ** Go for a quiet walk and watch the fall leaves start to turn

    If you enjoy your own company, you'll be in a better spot for someone else to spend time with you as well. And I bet it happens when you least expect it and are NOT looking for anything...
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    Oct 02, 2008 9:35 PM GMT
    COJock1974 saidMy 2 cents...

    You're never going to be in a fulfilling relationship until you're happy with yourself first.

    So take care of you first. Instead of looking to the outside about being single forever, why not celebrate single stuff?

    ** Eat dinner out in a cafe and people watch
    ** Walk around your entire house in your underwear
    ** Fix waffles and hash browns and cereal for dinner because nobody's gonna judge if you eat breakfast food at supper time
    ** Treat yourself to a good solid workout
    ** Go for a quiet walk and watch the fall leaves start to turn

    If you enjoy your own company, you'll be in a better spot for someone else to spend time with you as well. And I bet it happens when you least expect it and are NOT looking for anything...


    You SO rock!!!


    and who cares if I'm biased!!! LOL!!!
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    Oct 02, 2008 9:37 PM GMT
    Great advice above...I'd just add my two cents:

    *Get in front of a mirror and look at yourself. Let your hands go over your body, let your fingertips explore your skin. Make a face at yourself and laugh. Make yourself cum. Learn to accept yourself.

    *Take yourself out to a museum and find a piece that catches your attention. Think about what it is in the piece that speaks to you and why? Think about the artist's intentions. Learn the silent art of communication.

    *Buy yourself something that makes you feel sexy. Get yourself some junk food and eat til' you feel sick. Go to a club (or do it at home) and let yourself go to the music. Learn about what makes you feel good.

    Most of all man, you've gotta learn to love yourself and be cool being single because that's when (IMHO) you get a man who's ready for you. That emptiness you feel in your stomach won't be satiated by anyone else but you...people are great auxiliaries but we've got to be our own lovers, our own friend. Cheers.
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    Oct 02, 2008 9:45 PM GMT
    HighVoltageGuy saidThank you GG!

    In a way I am being a little cruel and apathetic. This question pops up every other week and is usually posted by an individual under the age of 20. "I've been single foooorrrrevvvver!" Give me a break. You've only been 'legal' for a couple years and have yet to experience life. If you're still single at 30, 40, 50 or even 60...then you can come back to the boards and ask "what's wrong with me." Until then...stop whining.


    The difference of just a few years is a lifetime when you're young. Look at the difference between a boy of 10, a teenager of 15, and a man of 20. Five years is nothing to me now, but it was an eternity when it was a third of my life.

    And have you not bothered to check our original poster's profile? He lives in Paris, France, on the Isle de France, and just maybe your cultural notions don't apply there?

    And yet, perhaps there are universalities of human experience, that even transcend gay & straight. So you may be right, that what this young man asks has been asked since humans first spoke, and a thousand times here in RJ.

    Except... HE never spoke it before, and HE never got an answer before, and so HE deserves our attention and support. The world reinvents itself with every generation, and if we forget that then we ourselves have failed to keep growing and learning, and we'll fail to extend a helping hand to those who are coming after us. Can we be more selfish and self-centered?
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    Oct 02, 2008 9:55 PM GMT
    Red_Vespa said


    Can we be more selfish and self-centered?


    Yes. icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 02, 2008 9:55 PM GMT

    If you ask me, this kid should never be single! He should always be coupled with a chicken sandwich and a 64 oz. MILK. icon_twisted.gif
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    Oct 02, 2008 9:56 PM GMT
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    HighVoltageGuy saidThank you GG!

    In a way I am being a little cruel and apathetic. This question pops up every other week and is usually posted by an individual under the age of 20. "I've been single foooorrrrevvvver!" Give me a break. You've only been 'legal' for a couple years and have yet to experience life. If you're still single at 30, 40, 50 or even 60...then you can come back to the boards and ask "what's wrong with me." Until then...stop whining.


    The difference of just a few years is a lifetime when you're young. Look at the difference between a boy of 10, a teenager of 15, and a man of 20. Five years is nothing to me now, but it was an eternity when it was a third of my life.

    And have you not bothered to check our original poster's profile? He lives in Paris, France, on the Isle de France, and just maybe your cultural notions don't apply there?

    And yet, perhaps there are universalities of human experience, that even transcend gay & straight. So you may be right, that what this young man asks has been asked since humans first spoke, and a thousand times here in RJ.

    Except... HE never spoke it before, and HE never got an answer before, and so HE deserves our attention and support. The world reinvents itself with every generation, and if we forget that then we ourselves have failed to keep growing and learning, and we'll fail to extend a helping hand to those who are coming after us. Can we be more selfish and self-centered?


    o wow. That was so beautifully written. And so undeniably true. I'm your fan now icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 02, 2008 10:01 PM GMT
    GuiltyGear said
    If you ask me, this kid should never be single! He should always be coupled with a chicken sandwich and a 64 oz. MILK. icon_twisted.gif


    Too funny!

    It's obvious people take things waaaay too seriously. Oh well!
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    Oct 02, 2008 10:03 PM GMT
    bill007 saidBless your heart


    Awwww, give mommy a hug too, cher.
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    Oct 02, 2008 10:05 PM GMT
    collegeswimmr said
    o wow. That was so beautifully written. And so undeniably true. I'm your fan now icon_smile.gif


    Well, that's awfully nice of you, truly. But I'd be wary of joining my "fan club" too soon. Wait until I let go with something totally jerked-off (as some here would contend I've already done a few times). I love to write for the joy of writing, and I can pump out stuff as fast & easily as breathing. Sadly, sometimes my fingers get ahead of my brain. icon_sad.gif
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    Oct 02, 2008 10:19 PM GMT

    wow , you guys are being too simpatico ... you should be more agressive and more offensive ..

    maybe you don't get it right : he is asking for an ADVICE !! I think we should murder him !
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    Oct 02, 2008 10:30 PM GMT

    HE SHOULD STOP WHINING

    AND GROW UP!


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    Oct 02, 2008 10:34 PM GMT
    Who needs to grow up now , GG ?
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    Oct 02, 2008 10:38 PM GMT
    GHoSTa saidWho needs to grow up now , GG ?


    I can't wait for GG's answer!!!