anyone who can't get it up and is a bottom?

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    Feb 08, 2013 8:04 PM GMT
    Just curious if anyone has erectile problems and that's why they prefer bottoming?
  • rnch

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    Feb 08, 2013 8:11 PM GMT
    Although I am no longer 19 anymore, popping wood is seldom a problem.

    When my last long termer and I became semi-serious, we both considered ourselves "tops".

    Obviously "something had to give".

    We both tried bttming for the other.

    As it turned out, I was a better bttm for him than he was for me......and he was a better top for me than I was for him.

    "Life IS a compromise".





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    Feb 08, 2013 9:52 PM GMT
    cielbleu saidJust curious if anyone has erectile problems and that's why they prefer bottoming?
    I don't think one's preference for top or bottom is related to ED.
  • takashi

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    Feb 08, 2013 10:19 PM GMT
    lagwm said
    cielbleu saidJust curious if anyone has erectile problems and that's why they prefer bottoming?
    I don't think one's preference for top or bottom is related to ED.


    Yeah, I don't think one's preference for top or bottom is related to ED, either. Although, I do not get hard when I am bottoming.
    Alot of guys here ask, then what's the point or pleasure of being a bottom?
    If you have to ask that then you are not going to be a bottom.

    This is only my opinion and I think there are alot of bottoms that have different opinions. But here goes...I love bottoming because I am submissive. I am small and thin and when I am with a top I feel so submissive and want my top to take control. I love the feel of a cock penetrating my body. Its so intense. To relax your muscles, your barriers to let in another man inside of you, that is the ultimate intimacy. I love having a top invade me, feel him going in and out of me and sharing that brief moment (which can take hours, when I am lucky) with a man being connected in the most intimate way.

    Also, which is very rare but, if I am really lucky, my top will jerk me off while he is pounding me. That usually is the ultimate release for both of us.
    Now that I am older, I do not get hard easily, especially when I have member inside of me, could be ED, but I was always a bottom.
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    Feb 09, 2013 1:33 AM GMT
    cielbleu saidJust curious if anyone has erectile problems and that's why they prefer bottoming?
    It merans they were supposed to be a girl, but their pussy got relocated to their backside at birth.