cielbleu saidJust curious if anyone has erectile problems and that's why they prefer bottoming?I don't think one's preference for top or bottom is related to ED.
Yeah, I don't think one's preference for top or bottom is related to ED, either. Although, I do not get hard when I am bottoming.
Alot of guys here ask, then what's the point or pleasure of being a bottom?
If you have to ask that then you are not going to be a bottom.
This is only my opinion and I think there are alot of bottoms that have different opinions. But here goes...I love bottoming because I am submissive. I am small and thin and when I am with a top I feel so submissive and want my top to take control. I love the feel of a cock penetrating my body. Its so intense. To relax your muscles, your barriers to let in another man inside of you, that is the ultimate intimacy. I love having a top invade me, feel him going in and out of me and sharing that brief moment (which can take hours, when I am lucky) with a man being connected in the most intimate way.
Also, which is very rare but, if I am really lucky, my top will jerk me off while he is pounding me. That usually is the ultimate release for both of us.
Now that I am older, I do not get hard easily, especially when I have member inside of me, could be ED, but I was always a bottom.