Feb 10, 2013 12:10 PM GMT
I just don't like being hugged whether it's after sex or out of the blue, just to show affection. All the guys I've been with thought it was weird as hell. I'm a bottom (by choice...) so you'd assume I like being hugged and cuddled up, but no. I prefer to do the hugging/showing affection. But then again, most tops don't like that. Why is that? Is it because I feel like I need to be the one who's in control? If yes, is there something wrong with it? More importantly, is there something wrong with ME?