What are some signs from guys in the gym that may be into you (or are gay)? I have had a few experience that made me wonder!!!

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    Feb 11, 2013 5:51 AM GMT
    You guys have been giving me such good advice, so hear I go again!!! I go to my campus gym daily, and there are these two guys that are always in there at the same time. I always catch them looking at me, then we make awkwardly long eye contact with one another. However, I don't know if this just happened by chance one time, and they are just curious and maybe think I am the creep. Or what? And I will say that they are both gorgeous and huge!!! But no guy has ever held a stare with me in the gym for as long as they do. Today I was on my way to play basketball, and one of them was casually walking by, but awkwardly said, "Hey man, how are you?" So please give me you thoughts!!!

    Thanks!!!
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    Feb 11, 2013 6:18 AM GMT
    #YCYL (you cruise, you lose)
  • AMoonHawk

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    Feb 11, 2013 6:21 AM GMT
    Incendiary said#YCYL (you cruise, you lose)

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    Feb 11, 2013 6:21 AM GMT
    Maybe he's just being friendly. Don't try to look for something that isn't there. It could turn awkward. icon_lol.gif

    The only way to know if the guy is gay or into you is to just chat with him.
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    Feb 11, 2013 6:27 AM GMT
    if he drops down to his knees and opens his mouth he might be gay
  • HottJoe

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    Feb 11, 2013 6:28 AM GMT
    If they're staring at you and awkwardly trying to talk to you they're not straight.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Feb 11, 2013 6:28 AM GMT
    next time take a bottle of lotion with you ... Jergans original wild cherry flavor is the best smelling ... don't make eye contact ... before getting dressed. apply lotion all over you body ... as you apply the lotion on your legs, face the locker ... don't make eye contact ... lift one leg on the bench and start from your foot and work the lotion all the way up your leg to your ass and crotch .... apply it nice and slow and evenly ... especially on your ass, but only do the one cheek ... now lift the other leg to the bench and do the same ... then work your way up your torso and your arms ... nice and slow ... If they stay and watch the entire time ... ya ... they're interested icon_twisted.gif
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    Feb 11, 2013 6:51 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidnext time take a bottle of lotion with you ... Jergans original wild cherry flavor is the best smelling ... don't make eye contact ... before getting dressed. apply lotion all over you body ... as you apply the lotion on your legs, face the locker ... don't make eye contact ... lift one leg on the bench and start from your foot and work the lotion all the way up your leg to your ass and crotch .... apply it nice and slow and evenly ... especially on your ass, but only do the one cheek ... now lift the other leg to the bench and do the same ... then work your way up your torso and your arms ... nice and slow ... If they stay and watch the entire time ... ya ... they're interested icon_twisted.gif


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    Feb 11, 2013 7:15 AM GMT
    Step 1. You have to find out who all his friends are. Then find out which forums or social media he uses.
    Step 2. Stalk him. If he starts asking "why that guy from the gym that I asked how he was never said anything back?" or "does that guy I keep checking out at the gym who looks at me too mean anything?" then you know he's into you. If he doesn't, then you're making something out of nothing.

    He might just be a friendly guy.
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    Feb 11, 2013 1:39 PM GMT
    Just be friendly and get to know them. Eventually you or they will come out as gay. Usually someone just refers to their ex-boyfriend or the gay bar they went to last weekend, and then everyone knows.

    I thought several times that guys were gay and were flirting with me, when it was just them being friendly, and me full of wishful thinking. Anyhow, its awesome to have good gym buddies, so you can't lose by striking up a conversation.
  • Montague

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    Feb 11, 2013 1:42 PM GMT
    Neight saidif he drops down to his knees and opens his mouth he might be gay


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  • HottJoe

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    Feb 11, 2013 2:06 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidnext time take a bottle of lotion with you ... Jergans original wild cherry flavor is the best smelling ... don't make eye contact ... before getting dressed. apply lotion all over you body ... as you apply the lotion on your legs, face the locker ... don't make eye contact ... lift one leg on the bench and start from your foot and work the lotion all the way up your leg to your ass and crotch .... apply it nice and slow and evenly ... especially on your ass, but only do the one cheek ... now lift the other leg to the bench and do the same ... then work your way up your torso and your arms ... nice and slow ... If they stay and watch the entire time ... ya ... they're interested icon_twisted.gif


    I didn't know we went to the same gym. icon_surprised.gif
  • Karl

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    Feb 11, 2013 2:09 PM GMT
    Incendiary said#YCYL (you cruise, you lose)

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  • ThatSwimmerGu...

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    Feb 11, 2013 2:14 PM GMT
    Talk to him, be friendly. If he has approached you then it shouldn't be a problem. For all you know they could be sucking your massive cock everyday after your workout.
  • MuscleComeBac...

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    Feb 11, 2013 2:19 PM GMT
    Ask. But ask when you see them outside the gym.
    Not "hey man, do you suck dick?" But "hey, i keep meaning to ask if i can take you to dinner. Interested?"
    Until then, in the gym, say hello, be friendly, then do what you came for - work out.

    Why people aren't direct (in the right situation) always floors me. Games are for children. Confident men are sexy - and rare. Mind you if you ask every eye-catching guy 'wanna fuck?' then you're a desperate ho, or a sociopath. But if there's flirtation and response, get on with it!
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    Feb 11, 2013 2:26 PM GMT
    forest saidYou guys have been giving me such good advice, so hear I go again!!! I go to my campus gym daily, and there are these two guys that are always in there at the same time. I always catch them looking at me, then we make awkwardly long eye contact with one another. However, I don't know if this just happened by chance one time, and they are just curious and maybe think I am the creep. Or what? And I will say that they are both gorgeous and huge!!! But no guy has ever held a stare with me in the gym for as long as they do. Today I was on my way to play basketball, and one of them was casually walking by, but awkwardly said, "Hey man, how are you?" So please give me you thoughts!!!

    Thanks!!!



    In my recent personal experience, straight guys at the gym do stare and they are friendly and will say hello outside of the gym. I have had quite a few stare downs recently with some dudes at my gym. Some have turned into friendships and others just faded. But they are all definitely straight. I have had a few queers stare me down, but they usually will only chat with me outside of the gym on grindr / scruff.

    In regards to you situation, just go with the flow. Do your thing and be friendly. You don't know the situation right now and making a wrong moves so to speak may make things extremely awkward for you in the gym and that would really suck.

    In regards YCYL, while yes, "cruising" in the gym can be creepy, don't be afraid to meet someone at the gym and even go on a date. If you can't meet someone at the gym, then where the fuck are you supposed to meet guys.I personally prefer to meet guys when I am doing something that I love.

    but definitely in your situation don't make any sudden moves without true knowledge. There are a lot more guys out there than there are good gyms.
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    Feb 11, 2013 2:27 PM GMT
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  • Destinharbor

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    Feb 11, 2013 4:42 PM GMT
    dudewithabeard said
    forest saidYou guys have been giving me such good advice, so hear I go again!!! I go to my campus gym daily, and there are these two guys that are always in there at the same time. I always catch them looking at me, then we make awkwardly long eye contact with one another. However, I don't know if this just happened by chance one time, and they are just curious and maybe think I am the creep. Or what? And I will say that they are both gorgeous and huge!!! But no guy has ever held a stare with me in the gym for as long as they do. Today I was on my way to play basketball, and one of them was casually walking by, but awkwardly said, "Hey man, how are you?" So please give me you thoughts!!!

    Thanks!!!



    In my recent personal experience, straight guys at the gym do stare and they are friendly and will say hello outside of the gym. I have had quite a few stare downs recently with some dudes at my gym. Some have turned into friendships and others just faded. But they are all definitely straight. I have had a few queers stare me down, but they usually will only chat with me outside of the gym on grindr / scruff.

    In regards to you situation, just go with the flow. Do your thing and be friendly. You don't know the situation right now and making a wrong moves so to speak may make things extremely awkward for you in the gym and that would really suck.

    In regards YCYL, while yes, "cruising" in the gym can be creepy, don't be afraid to meet someone at the gym and even go on a date. If you can't meet someone at the gym, then where the fuck are you supposed to meet guys.I personally prefer to meet guys when I am doing something that I love.

    but definitely in your situation don't make any sudden moves without true knowledge. There are a lot more guys out there than there are good gyms.

    This is right. We all have the intervals between sets when you don't want to lose your bench or piece of equipment so you just sit there looking around. Straight or gay. I've also stared at some guy because he was doing an exercise that interested me. So by all means, say Hi when you see someone and you're not intruding on their work. All you have to say is some throwaway line like "Wow, some days this is harder than others." If they are friendly, they'll respond. And you've made a friend. Doesn't mean they're gay, though. You can figure that out later but don't push it while on the floor.
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    Montague said
    Neight saidif he drops down to his knees and opens his mouth he might be gay


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    Damn, no wonder I have no luck...been doing it wrong all these years.icon_lol.gif

    As for the creepers, ignore them. In time they'll move onto someone else.

  • JackDoyle

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    Feb 11, 2013 5:15 PM GMT
    If they give you this look, then they are 100% GAY



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    Feb 11, 2013 6:08 PM GMT
    forest saidYou guys have been giving me such good advice, so hear I go again!!! I go to my campus gym daily, and there are these two guys that are always in there at the same time. I always catch them looking at me, then we make awkwardly long eye contact with one another. However, I don't know if this just happened by chance one time, and they are just curious and maybe think I am the creep. Or what? And I will say that they are both gorgeous and huge!!! But no guy has ever held a stare with me in the gym for as long as they do. Today I was on my way to play basketball, and one of them was casually walking by, but awkwardly said, "Hey man, how are you?" So please give me you thoughts!!!

    Thanks!!!


    Don't be a creepy cruiser. Tell folks you're gay that you want to know. I do it all the time. I had a wonderful experience last week: I told this kid I was gay (as Mark, the boyfriend, was drooling over me while I did abs). The kid says to me "Dude! I have two Moms!" Taylor and I went to the gym, and buffet, together yesterday, and had a great time yesterday afternoon. We hit it off well, and Mark is off in Costa Rica this week...and I did a good thing...for him...and me. Taylor is straight, FYI, but, I understand his world, and he mine, and he wanted a mentor, and I sincerely enjoyed hanging out with him yesterday. I have a new friend!

    Man up. Put on your big boy pants. Be a real boy.
  • Suetonius

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    Feb 11, 2013 7:35 PM GMT
    Watch for when they leave, and follow them into the showers/sauna/hottub/whatever, and see if there is more contact (eye contact).
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    Feb 11, 2013 7:39 PM GMT
    forest saidYou guys have been giving me such good advice, so hear I go again!!! I go to my campus gym daily, and there are these two guys that are always in there at the same time. I always catch them looking at me, then we make awkwardly long eye contact with one another. However, I don't know if this just happened by chance one time, and they are just curious and maybe think I am the creep. Or what? And I will say that they are both gorgeous and huge!!! But no guy has ever held a stare with me in the gym for as long as they do. Today I was on my way to play basketball, and one of them was casually walking by, but awkwardly said, "Hey man, how are you?" So please give me you thoughts!!!

    Thanks!!!


    Many or most get a big endorphin buzz when doing free weights. Makes me much more talkative and friendly than usual and I assume the same applies to others. Probably, the vast majority of the time, nothing at all is meant by it except for making a new friend.
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    Feb 11, 2013 7:42 PM GMT
    dudewithabeard said
    forest saidYou guys have been giving me such good advice, so hear I go again!!! I go to my campus gym daily, and there are these two guys that are always in there at the same time. I always catch them looking at me, then we make awkwardly long eye contact with one another. However, I don't know if this just happened by chance one time, and they are just curious and maybe think I am the creep. Or what? And I will say that they are both gorgeous and huge!!! But no guy has ever held a stare with me in the gym for as long as they do. Today I was on my way to play basketball, and one of them was casually walking by, but awkwardly said, "Hey man, how are you?" So please give me you thoughts!!!

    Thanks!!!



    In my recent personal experience, straight guys at the gym do stare and they are friendly and will say hello outside of the gym. I have had quite a few stare downs recently with some dudes at my gym. Some have turned into friendships and others just faded. But they are all definitely straight. I have had a few queers stare me down, but they usually will only chat with me outside of the gym on grindr / scruff.



    I find virtually everyone responds very positively except for maybe the steroid queens.
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    Feb 11, 2013 8:02 PM GMT
    dudewithabeard said
    In my recent personal experience, straight guys at the gym do stare and they are friendly and will say hello outside of the gym. I have had quite a few stare downs recently with some dudes at my gym. Some have turned into friendships and others just faded. But they are all definitely straight. I have had a few queers stare me down, but they usually will only chat with me outside of the gym on grindr / scruff.

    In regards to you situation, just go with the flow. Do your thing and be friendly. You don't know the situation right now and making a wrong moves so to speak may make things extremely awkward for you in the gym and that would really suck.

    In regards YCYL, while yes, "cruising" in the gym can be creepy, don't be afraid to meet someone at the gym and even go on a date. If you can't meet someone at the gym, then where the fuck are you supposed to meet guys.I personally prefer to meet guys when I am doing something that I love.

    but definitely in your situation don't make any sudden moves without true knowledge. There are a lot more guys out there than there are good gyms.
    Funny, I thought that was just me. Guys will see your profile online and chat you up. But when you actually see them in person, it's like total strangers and no acknowledgement. icon_neutral.gif