He never responds

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    Feb 12, 2013 3:09 AM GMT
    Like 90% the guys a write never write me back why? I don't feel unattractive and i just want friends and this goes for average looking guys to it sounds pathetic writing my feelings on a jock site its just really irritating does this happen too anyone eles and happened constantly like a simple hey what's up never works anyway does this happen to anyone eles a lot cause it does to me.
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    Feb 12, 2013 3:12 AM GMT
    Because...despite having active profile....those RJers...died TWENTY years ago =oooooo

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  • HndsmKansan

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    Feb 12, 2013 3:13 AM GMT
    Try and not take it so personally. Think of yourself in a candy shop, a number of the guys want to check everybody out and easy to get their attention diverted. You have to be patient so some will be deep enough to see the kind of great qualities you may have.

    Stay involved and keep trying.. you will be rewarded!

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    Feb 12, 2013 6:09 AM GMT
    HndsmKansan saidTry and not take it so personally. Think of yourself in a candy shop, a number of the guys want to check everybody out and easy to get their attention diverted. You have to be patient so some will be deep enough to see the kind of great qualities you may have.

    Stay involved and keep trying.. you will be rewarded!

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    This! I joined RJ a month before you did OP and at first, I was invisible. But I kept interacting on the forums and then started receiving emails/chats. I've developed some strong online friendships in the process. Hang in there! icon_smile.gif
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    Feb 12, 2013 6:15 AM GMT
    Wow, that was a long sentence.
  • HottJoe

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    Feb 12, 2013 6:35 AM GMT
    You're insane.
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    Feb 12, 2013 6:46 AM GMT
    FWIW I prefer to meet a man in person (NOT online) for a boyfriend/boyfriend relationship. My experiences meeting guys in person have been so much better than searching online dating sites for a significant other. Body language is a huge indicator if he's into you and that's just not something you can get a sense of by exchanging email messages and pics.
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    Feb 12, 2013 1:53 PM GMT
    If you're writing something like "Hey" or "Sup" or "How's it going" to random strangers on the internet, then you can expect the response rate to be pretty low. Anyone who writes me without engaging with something I've written I completely ignore.

    And if you're writing to guys who haven't written much, then you're writing them because they're pretty. And those guys get 10 messages a day from randoms saying they're pretty. You're not going to stand out.
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    Feb 12, 2013 2:02 PM GMT
    Larkin saidIf you're writing something like "Hey" or "Sup" or "How's it going" to random strangers on the internet, then you can expect the response rate to be pretty low. Anyone who writes me without engaging with something I've written I completely ignore.

    Same here. And believe it or not I do get them, too.
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    Feb 12, 2013 2:41 PM GMT
    Never let yourself down by how others treat you...

    It's just internet, don't take it too seriously...

    Take it easy!

    Just like you...some people post their agony in previous forums...& when I feel it's too private to reply in threads, I mail them to their profile....
    Ironically, some of them don't reply to me!...but I don't mind at all because...it's just their attitude...

    They don't want to be treated like that & yet they treat others by not replying...

    My suggestions is
    Use forums & reply to other threads
    Verify & Fill your profile

    Just don't treat others the way you don't want to be treated...
    as time goes on
    you'll sure meet some good people...
    have patience "all good things happen for those who wait"