How Do You Meet Other Gay Men

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    Feb 12, 2013 3:36 AM GMT
    So I downloaded a lot of gay apps been to a lot of gay websites and i find that they are all the same . I hardly get any Messages and I find that most People just want to chat and not meet I am getting pretty tired of it , I don't live in the Big City where I can go to Bars late at Night , Dance and I am really Shy . I was just wondering if you guys have any suggestions thanxs xo
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    Feb 12, 2013 3:38 AM GMT
    I use Grindr
    holla
  • HottJoe

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    Feb 12, 2013 3:39 AM GMT
    All gay men are superficial. So try sweet talking them! icon_smile.gif
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    Feb 12, 2013 3:40 AM GMT
    HotJoee I tried like everything lol
  • highforthis

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    Feb 12, 2013 4:19 AM GMT
    there's probably plenty of guys you've ignored who are thinking the same thing icon_wink.gif
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    Feb 12, 2013 5:15 AM GMT
    Neight saidI use Grindr
    holla


    Mmmhmmm. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Feb 12, 2013 5:57 PM GMT
    Shawnathan saidAC, don't you live in Toronto? Pretty sure 5 million people counts as a big city.


    I like like a half an hour away from toronto , I live in Mississauga
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    Feb 12, 2013 6:43 PM GMT
    anthony2394 saidSo .... I am really Shy . I was just wondering if you guys have any suggestions thanxs xo


    You ? SHY???




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    REALLY??!!!

    ARE U FRIGGIN' SERIOUS!!!
  • Suetonius

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    Feb 13, 2013 7:30 AM GMT
    anthony2394 said
    Shawnathan saidAC, don't you live in Toronto? Pretty sure 5 million people counts as a big city.


    I don't live in the Big City where I can go to Bars late at Night ,

    I like like a half an hour away from toronto , I live in Mississauga

    Half an hour isn't really much - so go visit some bars not quite so late; don't expect to meet guys out in the suburbs - fewer of them and they tend to be fewer singles; hang out in toronto in venues other than bars and meet real guys - in person
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    Feb 13, 2013 12:11 PM GMT
    Shawnathan said
    fromthelumpalumpa said
    anthony2394 saidSo .... I am really Shy . I was just wondering if you guys have any suggestions thanxs xo


    You ? SHY???




    REALLY??!!!

    ARE U FRIGGIN' SERIOUS!!!

    I kept thinking that something was going to happen.


    Me too...
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    Feb 13, 2013 6:05 PM GMT
    Suetonius said
    anthony2394 said
    Shawnathan saidAC, don't you live in Toronto? Pretty sure 5 million people counts as a big city.


    I don't live in the Big City where I can go to Bars late at Night ,

    I like like a half an hour away from toronto , I live in Mississauga

    Half an hour isn't really much - so go visit some bars not quite so late; don't expect to meet guys out in the suburbs - fewer of them and they tend to be fewer singles; hang out in toronto in venues other than bars and meet real guys - in person


    most of them go in the night , unless i stay in a bathouse
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    Feb 13, 2013 10:31 PM GMT
    anthony2394 said
    Suetonius said
    anthony2394 said
    Shawnathan saidAC, don't you live in Toronto? Pretty sure 5 million people counts as a big city.


    I don't live in the Big City where I can go to Bars late at Night ,

    I like like a half an hour away from toronto , I live in Mississauga

    Half an hour isn't really much - so go visit some bars not quite so late; don't expect to meet guys out in the suburbs - fewer of them and they tend to be fewer singles; hang out in toronto in venues other than bars and meet real guys - in person


    most of them go in the night , unless i stay in a bathouse


    You really are the most desperate of the desperate

    Congratulations, a winner is you
  • mizu5

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    Feb 13, 2013 10:35 PM GMT
    Really? you messaged me and other friends ofmine in the past month, and began your talk by asking to perform oral sex on us. Not as a group, but still.

    maybe THAT"Swhy it isn't working.
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    Feb 13, 2013 10:37 PM GMT
    mizu5 saidReally? you messaged me and other friends ofmine in the past month, and began your talk by asking to perform oral sex on us. Not as a group, but still.

    maybe THAT"Swhy it isn't working.


    OMFG that's priceless, do you have screencaps of the messages?
  • mizu5

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    Feb 13, 2013 10:44 PM GMT
    Incendiary said
    mizu5 saidReally? you messaged me and other friends ofmine in the past month, and began your talk by asking to perform oral sex on us. Not as a group, but still.

    maybe THAT"Swhy it isn't working.


    OMFG that's priceless, do you have screencaps of the messages?
    No, that's not something i really do lol.
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    Feb 27, 2013 10:13 AM GMT
    LMAO!
  • Fable

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    Feb 27, 2013 10:52 AM GMT
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    Feb 27, 2013 10:59 AM GMT
    mizu5 saidReally? you messaged me and other friends ofmine in the past month, and began your talk by asking to perform oral sex on us. Not as a group, but still.

    maybe THAT"Swhy it isn't working.


    Awkward... I was going to suggest find similar hobbies with someone, that's how I bumped into my budding bro... but if that's true... icon_eek.gif
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    Feb 27, 2013 11:24 AM GMT
    Rope and handcuffs is a great way to meet other gay men. It also helps keep them around longer.
  • Amira

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    Feb 27, 2013 12:52 PM GMT
    mizu5 saidReally? you messaged me and other friends ofmine in the past month, and began your talk by asking to perform oral sex on us. Not as a group, but still.

    maybe THAT"Swhy it isn't working.


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  • FitAquarian

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    Feb 28, 2013 1:14 AM GMT
    mizu5 saidReally? you messaged me and other friends ofmine in the past month, and began your talk by asking to perform oral sex on us. Not as a group, but still.

    maybe THAT"Swhy it isn't working.


    Posting his messages that clearly weren't meant for an audience isn't more tactful.
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    Feb 28, 2013 1:21 AM GMT
    FitAquarian said
    mizu5 saidReally? you messaged me and other friends ofmine in the past month, and began your talk by asking to perform oral sex on us. Not as a group, but still.

    maybe THAT"Swhy it isn't working.


    Posting his messages that clearly weren't meant for an audience isn't more tactful.


    +1
  • Apparition

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    Feb 28, 2013 5:10 AM GMT
    well if you can get here...green eyes are like krytonite to me

    For a good answer. Go to UofT and find a good coming out discussion group. always lots of fresh meat, and you are young enough to fit in. They dont go on real late, you can bus home.

    There are gay sports teams/leagues you can join.

    And meetup.com groups you should search "gay" for.

    I would also suggest making a "i need a boyfriend" tshirt with your contacts real big and wear it to the mall.

    Squirt.org should work too, show some leg.

    filling in your profile might help too.

    find a gay roommate who is cute and extroverted...he will bring friends home you an meet.