jerking

  • twostroke

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    Oct 03, 2008 6:56 PM GMT
    I think it´s widespread wisdom now that regular jerking-off is good for man´s health.
    are you a regular jerker (weather solo or any other way)??
    see ya
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    Oct 03, 2008 8:51 PM GMT
    I've JO'd several times a day since I was about 12. I think it's been good for my health, and kept me much younger looking than most men my age, as I'm about to turn 60.

    And wouldn't that make sense? Wouldn't nature want to preserve those males whose sexual activity was active and prolonged? And not favor those who are sexually inactive?

    It makes little difference whether the man is straight or gay, whether his sperm ends up on his belly or in a vagina. The beneficial hormones and other chemicals released into the bloodstream by an orgasm are the same, and scientific studies have shown they counter aging and can physically help males in many other ways.

    It shouldn't surprise us that Nature would want to reward and preserve the lives of males who are more sexually active than others. Why shouldn't gay men take advantage of this natural selection?
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    Oct 03, 2008 9:32 PM GMT
    I'm happy to admit that I jerk several times a day on top of having sex with my partner. I just love keeping my pipes cleared.
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    Oct 04, 2008 5:47 AM GMT
    I think we know most every dude is doing this at least 3 times a day...no question right????
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    Oct 07, 2008 7:25 PM GMT
    Everyday...especially after my workouts!!!
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    Oct 09, 2008 2:05 PM GMT
    has to be at least twice a day
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    Oct 09, 2008 2:26 PM GMT
    Well yesterday was 6 times, but then I was doing some work on my latest gay porn story. If the stuff is hot enough that I can JO to it that often, then it passes the test.

    Incidentally, I find it easier to get aroused from the writings of others than from my own stuff. I wonder if it's something like the mechanism that prevents us from being able to tickle ourselves.

    Even when the other stories are very badly written they can still stimulate me better than my own works, which of course are all brilliantly written by comparison, and infinitely hotter. icon_wink.gif

    So I sit at this computer writing, between quick looks at RJ and other sites, and when I've added a few new paragraphs, I pause to give them the JO test. Unfortunately, this can lead to jerkus interruptus, as my eyes can't help but notice a grammatical error as I read from the screen, or that I've used a particular word too often and need to replace it, or some other correction I need to make before I forget it.

    Which keeps my hand going back and forth between the keyboard and my lap, a further difficulty in attaining good JO results. But as I said, yesterday was a sixer, so I credit myself with a good day's work! LOL!!!
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    Oct 09, 2008 2:30 PM GMT
    Wow...I feel like the odd one out now.

    Maybe once a day, if that. But I think it has to do with other reasons afflicting my life (stress, etc) as well.

    I USED to do it a lot, but I also get bored with it sometimes as it can be unfulfilling.
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    Oct 09, 2008 3:05 PM GMT
    MuscleBudSea saidWow...I feel like the odd one out now.

    Maybe once a day, if that. But I think it has to do with other reasons afflicting my life (stress, etc) as well.

    I USED to do it a lot, but I also get bored with it sometimes as it can be unfulfilling.


    Stress is the Grim Wilter for a man. Aerobics can help reduce the effects of stress in some people. Also taking certain dietary supplements to help with muscle gain, and of course some prescription meds can likewise take the wind out of your libido.

    At 32 you're too young for age to be a significant factor by itself. You might try some variety, since you mention boredom, with things you don't normally do. An XXX gay DVD, or attend a hot club where you can smell the testosterone (and perhaps a bit too much cologne) on a crowded Saturday night.

    How's The Cuff doing these days in Seattle? Just going in that place on a busy night used to give me blue balls if I didn't hook-up. Aerobics can also bring on the hornies in some guys; a nice 45-minute run around the Arboretum, maybe?
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    Oct 09, 2008 4:34 PM GMT
    I am in a relationship so the answer is virtually never.
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    Oct 09, 2008 5:48 PM GMT
    Red_Vespa said
    MuscleBudSea saidWow...I feel like the odd one out now.

    Maybe once a day, if that. But I think it has to do with other reasons afflicting my life (stress, etc) as well.

    I USED to do it a lot, but I also get bored with it sometimes as it can be unfulfilling.


    Stress is the Grim Wilter for a man. Aerobics can help reduce the effects of stress in some people. Also taking certain dietary supplements to help with muscle gain, and of course some prescription meds can likewise take the wind out of your libido.

    At 32 you're too young for age to be a significant factor by itself. You might try some variety, since you mention boredom, with things you don't normally do. An XXX gay DVD, or attend a hot club where you can smell the testosterone (and perhaps a bit too much cologne) on a crowded Saturday night.

    How's The Cuff doing these days in Seattle? Just going in that place on a busy night used to give me blue balls if I didn't hook-up. Aerobics can also bring on the hornies in some guys; a nice 45-minute run around the Arboretum, maybe?


    Cuff is great, though I haven't been out in months. I keep meaning to, hoping to do something this weekend!!

    I'm one of the odd ones indeed, working out and cardio usually decreases my sex drive, instead of increasing it. I think a lot of it is mental too...I tell myself I"m bored with it, and I kind of just forget about it. But I eat well, workout regularly, etc etc. Just have too much stress me thinks.
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    Oct 09, 2008 6:37 PM GMT
    Red_Vespa said
    MuscleBudSea saidWow...I feel like the odd one out now.

    Maybe once a day, if that. But I think it has to do with other reasons afflicting my life (stress, etc) as well.

    I USED to do it a lot, but I also get bored with it sometimes as it can be unfulfilling.


    Stress is the Grim Wilter for a man. Aerobics can help reduce the effects of stress in some people. Also taking certain dietary supplements to help with muscle gain, and of course some prescription meds can likewise take the wind out of your libido.

    At 32 you're too young for age to be a significant factor by itself. You might try some variety, since you mention boredom, with things you don't normally do. An XXX gay DVD, or attend a hot club where you can smell the testosterone (and perhaps a bit too much cologne) on a crowded Saturday night.

    How's The Cuff doing these days in Seattle? Just going in that place on a busy night used to give me blue balls if I didn't hook-up. Aerobics can also bring on the hornies in some guys; a nice 45-minute run around the Arboretum, maybe?


    Red...
    can I just ask, do you write articles for a living icon_eek.gif
    LOL, I love your responses.
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    Oct 23, 2008 4:19 PM GMT
    i average about 3-4x/day. sometimes more. great way to relieve stress, esp with school these days.
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    Oct 24, 2008 8:18 PM GMT
    Azstreaker saidI think we know most every dude is doing this at least 3 times a day...no question right????


    well i wouldn't say 3 times a day, well.. maybe on my good days, but usually just once a day.
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    Oct 24, 2008 8:22 PM GMT
    BodyWork4 saidRed...
    can I just ask, do you write articles for a living icon_eek.gif
    LOL, I love your responses.


    Thank you! But no, I just write for fun, not professionally.
  • BeNiHiKoU

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    Oct 25, 2008 12:01 AM GMT
    .... I used to indulge in it about every three day - I'd work myself to a SINGLE nut and that'd be it... But recently.. I don't know what it is - may be it's a sexual re-awakening or having been celibate for over 20 months now - I just cannot seem to stop myself at the first nut!!... The weekly recurrence's about the same, but the frequency within each session has easily increased threefold!!..... I'm scared....icon_confused.gificon_cry.gificon_confused.gificon_cry.gif
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    Oct 25, 2008 12:12 AM GMT
    Azstreaker saidI think we know most every dude is doing this at least 3 times a day...no question right????

    I tend to do it a little more.
    Twice with my left hand.
    Twice with my right hand.
    Then once with both.
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    Oct 25, 2008 12:39 PM GMT
    usually it's once a night before bed, any more than that means i'm bored and looking for something to do.....icon_lol.gif
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    Oct 25, 2008 2:27 PM GMT
    I usually wait for somebody to suck or jack me off. If I'm really horny, I do it myself but its better with another guy, always. So, I usually don't jack off everyday. Sometimes its a week or more...


    Wish you would help me! icon_wink.gif
  • Koaa2

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    Oct 25, 2008 2:33 PM GMT
    BeNiHiKoU said.... I used to indulge in it about every three day - I'd work myself to a SINGLE nut and that'd be it... But recently.. I don't know what it is - may be it's a sexual re-awakening or having been celibate for over 20 months now - I just cannot seem to stop myself at the first nut!!... The weekly recurrence's about the same, but the frequency within each session has easily increased threefold!!..... I'm scared....icon_confused.gificon_cry.gificon_confused.gificon_cry.gif



    Just curious, why were you celibate for 20 months?
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    Oct 25, 2008 11:20 PM GMT
    Koaa2 said
    BeNiHiKoU said.... I used to indulge in it about every three day - I'd work myself to a SINGLE nut and that'd be it... But recently.. I don't know what it is - may be it's a sexual re-awakening or having been celibate for over 20 months now - I just cannot seem to stop myself at the first nut!!... The weekly recurrence's about the same, but the frequency within each session has easily increased threefold!!..... I'm scared....icon_confused.gificon_cry.gificon_confused.gificon_cry.gif



    Just curious, why were you celibate for 20 months?



    ... Like many, I have a 'paradoxical' relationship with sex: it is a topic that I am passionate about - I love and do not refrain from talking about it -, but I find its practice to be rather exhausting and - more often than not - frankly disappointing. In spite of appearances I may project - according to some people- , my actual practical knowledge of the topic is comparatively limited, mostly because I truly have a low sexual drive - I'll always choose a good night of sleep over sex!!. I still struggle with balancing emotions and urges, for I have often lacked the discernment to not mix them in the past - and with disastrous consequences for me.
    So after my last 'disastrously-short-lived' relationship - the fifth one over the course of 8 years - I decided that, in that unfunny play called SEX, the time may have come for me to stop wanting to be an 'actor' and instead take a back sit as a 'spectator' and try to learn as much as possible about sex - and about me. So far, celibacy has done me great - it's a killer icebreaker when meeting strangers!!...icon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
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    Oct 26, 2008 4:28 AM GMT
    I'm doing it right now.
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    Oct 27, 2008 12:29 AM GMT
    Did u enjoy yourself alpha?
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    Oct 27, 2008 12:35 AM GMT
    I think I have sex too much to masturbate. I maybe masturbate twice a week. My partner gets so mad when I do.
  • pickcherry79

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    Nov 01, 2008 6:09 PM GMT
    Like almost every day I am doing it right now (why you think I am on this site?). But takes a very long time.. would be fun if someone gave me a hand every now and then (pun intended, feel free to msg me). :-)