Why did this happen?

  • Charlesray39

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    Feb 13, 2013 6:13 AM GMT
    EDIT:
    Yeah this was a dumb idea.
    Sorry about posting.
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    Feb 13, 2013 8:03 AM GMT
    Hard to tell but I'm guessing he's most likely just a flake. They're out there you know. icon_rolleyes.gif
  • PolaroidSwing...

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    Feb 13, 2013 10:19 AM GMT
    Lol is this serious?

    It's not like he stood you up for a dinner date.
    He changed his mind and backed out of a casual hookup; for whatever reason.
    There's nothing wrong with that, he didn't owe it to you to go through with it if he didn't want to.

    Also, posting his photo online was in extremely poor taste. You should consider taking it down.
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    Feb 13, 2013 10:45 AM GMT
    as "Polaroidswing" said, first take down his pic...It's really a bad idea...

    It's obvious that these things happen and will happen if you try to meet people who seek only 'SEX'! even though your intentions are not at all on lovemaking...
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    Feb 13, 2013 2:16 PM GMT
    Yeah, nothing worse than planning to meet someone in a McDonalds bathroom for sex and then getting blocked.

    This concept alone is why I will forgive anything and everything my BF does short of murder.
  • tckrguys

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    Feb 13, 2013 5:40 PM GMT
    Maybe he was there and saw you in person and didn't like what he saw and wanted out of the situation. Don't sweat it, it was just a hook-up for gods sake.
  • jackthejock

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    Feb 15, 2013 5:45 AM GMT
    you posted his pic online, what kind of asshole are you? Seriously, unless he said "feel free to post this picture on gay forums online" then I think what you've done to him is far worse than what he did with you.
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    Feb 15, 2013 5:46 AM GMT
    Are you pushing out your stomach in your profile pic?

    Weird
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    Feb 15, 2013 5:47 AM GMT
    Delete the app off your phone, I did, you'll feel infinitely happier.
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    Feb 15, 2013 5:49 AM GMT
    You really were going to meet someone in a McDonald's bathroom and hook up? Nasty
  • Import

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    Feb 15, 2013 7:09 PM GMT
    lol@ these simple bitches.


    you were nothing but a casual hook-up, dude!! why u mad?

    ugh and to thgink u were gonna do it in the bathroom at a micky ds? Fucking animals. I use those bathrooms to puke in when im drunk and eating micky ds at 4am!

    ugh, u make me sick
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    Feb 15, 2013 7:19 PM GMT
    Import saidlol@ these simple bitches.


    you were nothing but a casual hook-up, dude!! why u mad?

    ugh and to thgink u were gonna do it in the bathroom at a micky ds? Fucking animals. I use those bathrooms to puke in when im drunk and eating micky ds at 4am!

    ugh, u make me sick


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    @OP

    If you get upset this quickly I suggest to stop using Grindr..
  • LJay

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    Feb 15, 2013 7:51 PM GMT
    Flaky is best encountered in a pie crust context.

    Your profile picture looks about as 18 as my left foot.
  • PR_GMR

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    Feb 15, 2013 7:51 PM GMT
    Blocking happens frequently in Grindr, Skruff and other similar hookup ads. Basically, he either got pissed at you or decided not to go thru with the hookup at the last moment, hence the block.

    There's a better chance of connecting if you have a convo with the person before arranging a meet, and even then, things can go awry. You sound young, so..get used to it. This is how men in your generation roll. Grow a thicker skin.
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    Feb 15, 2013 9:23 PM GMT
    smartmoney saidYeah, nothing worse than planning to meet someone in a McDonalds bathroom for sex and then getting blocked.


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    Feb 15, 2013 9:47 PM GMT
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    Feb 15, 2013 10:20 PM GMT
    Oh Jeez. It's a health & fitness site. What in the Hell did you hope to accomplish by coming here?
  • HndsmKansan

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    Feb 15, 2013 10:27 PM GMT
    I'm glad I've never been to grindr if thats what comes of it....lol
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    Feb 15, 2013 10:30 PM GMT
    You have a headless profile pic yet you post his pic and ask everyone to look?

    So clearly very wrong. Have some respect and take it down.
  • HottJoe

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    Feb 15, 2013 10:36 PM GMT
    Yet another reason not to eat at McDonalds.
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    Feb 16, 2013 3:03 AM GMT
    OMG! TACKY! CLASSLESS! ...The only smart thing that happened was he ducked you and blocked you! Take all the social apps off your phone until you grow up and get some social grace and learn the etiquette of the net....and remove his picture link...are you sick and just waiting for a lawsuit? children with toys throwing a tantrum cause he didn't get sex in the McDonald's bathroom..... ewww.icon_rolleyes.gif
  • LEANDRO_NJ

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    Feb 16, 2013 4:53 AM GMT
    If this person ever finds out a picture of him was posted online without his authorization, especially for the sole purpose to reveal very sensitive and private personal data about him, the OP is in for some very serious run with the law, and may I also add that Realjock.com may be violating their own privacy claims and that of the photo's owner if they don't do something about it, now that this privacy misconduct issue is right in the open for everyone to see!
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    Feb 16, 2013 4:54 AM GMT
    because men think with their dicks
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    Feb 16, 2013 5:27 AM GMT
    I'm going to play mad libs with your first couple paragraphs:



    "I know a toilet isn't the best place for something serious like a steak dinner or lobster, but I'm using a toilet for its apparent purpose, to take a shit.

    "So tell me why this happened to me?"
  • ignaceqbc

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    Feb 16, 2013 6:14 AM GMT
    Charlesray39 saidI know grindr isn't the best place for something serious like friends
    or a BF, but I'm using Grindr for it's apparent purpose, to fuck.

    So tell me why this happened to me?

    A few days ago a guy hit me up asking to "come over to his place(sex)"
    he sent me a pic and i thought he was really cute.

    http://i1118.photobucket.com/albums/k614/sailornaruto19/image-103dea7883993f4b8534391ed86a1e7d0892bd8cchat_zpse1e2df25.jpg

    I wasn't available so I told him i'd hit him up another time when I
    was. I did ,but my sister was asleep so i told him to give me an hour
    for her to fall asleep. 1hr +20 something minutes she did fall asleep
    and i msg'd him, no answer. Days later I hit him up again to see his
    deal. And he said he fell asleep.

    So I planned on meeting him up the night of that message. I told him
    where to meet, we both said we were on our way(i actually made it
    there). He says he's in the place's(Mcdonald's) bathroom. I tell him
    that can't because the place was closed(wouldn't most places be
    anyways?). So then he msg'd me "No" (I have no idea what that meant)
    and then all of a sudden the screen with the convo goes to the main
    page with all the grids and I don't see him as a favorite anymore.

    He blocked me? How can someone hit someone else up and then
    deliberately flake like that. Is this what people refer to as "game
    players?

    I see people on hear talk about flakes, but nothing like this, alot of
    them seemed to have at least get to first base.

    This isn't the first time something like this has happened to me

    once I was talking to a guy who seemed interested, i was in class(lol)
    and stopped grinding for a sec and checked back and the convo between
    us is gone.

    Another time i wlked to a guy's house twice he didn't answer the door
    both times, said he was asleep the first time and that i met his
    brother the second time(when i saw him walk out the house).


    Typical gay forum