Are long and thin dicks painful???

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    Feb 13, 2013 10:02 PM GMT
    The other day I met this gorgeous, beautiful man. We got along right away! But as soon as pants came off my excitement was overturned. He was around 8' but super thin. Regardless we had sex but it was rather painful. So that got me thinking about that night:

    1. Maybe I'm allergic to water based lube? (I've never liked that kind)

    2. It could be that I'm allergic non-latex condoms. (it was my first time using latex free, not big on latex)

    3. It was psychological, and once I knew he was not biiig I set myself for failure. (I'm pretty experience with guys. I find most satisfaction with bigger and thick.)

    4. I'm allergic to thin long dicks (which is the worst case scenario cause I'm really into this guy)

    Any suggestion, comments or experience of your own could help, thanks!
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    Feb 13, 2013 10:27 PM GMT
    What do you mean "allergic?" That would make you itch and swell, not feel particular pain.

    See 327 previous threads.

    If you're not used to long dicks, they can dead-end against the side of your rectum. Which hurts. You need to get everything lined up right so it goes up the chute toward the colon. Sometimes you have to try a few different angles or positions to get started. More lube can help. Once you learn your way around the inside of your ass, you can sort of guide it in with a little body english. The top can't always tell. You have to let him know that adjustments are needed.
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    Feb 13, 2013 11:15 PM GMT
    I guess you're right, I just realized it's pain that I feel and not an allergic reaction. However I'm also realizing, the issue seems to be girth or lack of, in the given situation. 8'x6 ≠ 8'x3
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    Feb 13, 2013 11:19 PM GMT
    I thought this thread was going to be about using an ice pick as a dildo.
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    Feb 14, 2013 4:48 AM GMT
    I have a bad reaction to some lubes.

    The first one I tried was called Maximus, a very popular anal lube. It has a lot of parabens in it, which irritates some people in sensitive places. I tried 2 other types that have no ingredients that are known irritants:
    Sliquid Organics Gel. Water based
    http://sliquidorganics.com/naturalgel.html

    And Pjur Back Door silicone lube with some very slight relaxant/numbing ingreds.
    http://www.pjur.com/products/men/back-door-glide/

    Both eliminated the burny feeling I used to get, and the difference was quite dramatic.

    If you still have the lube, check the label for stuff like "methylparaben" etc.
  • Hothouse

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    Feb 14, 2013 2:32 PM GMT
    Communication is important - even in a sexual setting.
    It's not that easy to start talking technique or whatever when you're in the middle of getting fucked - but the point of sex is for both participants to have an enjoyable experience.
    I'd think trying different positions might help to get an angle that works for both top and bottom.
    If you like the guy, don't let his size be a deal breaker - just be open and honest with him - without demeaning him, and suggest some changes to make for better sex.
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    Feb 16, 2013 2:48 AM GMT
    No fans of long thin ones out there? I've never experienced it myself so I can't relate to your experiences. I would've thought that a long thin one might be a little more comfortable or less intense than a thick one, but still with the benefit of reaching as deep as you like in a variety of positions. And banging into the colon was definitely a hazard with the long thick one I bottomed for too. ouch!
  • blueyedgrey20...

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    Feb 16, 2013 7:06 AM GMT
    icon_twisted.gifpersonally i enjoy long semi thick cock's yeah they hurt at first but when you get used to it ya love it. biggest ive had was 10 inches not too thick! :]
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    Feb 16, 2013 10:43 AM GMT
    wouldn't know. nothing's going in my butt cept a guy's tongue.