first off id like to say its obvious im not a jock im a fem, i was told make a profile on here and already talking to really nice people, your not all bad i used to be scared of manly gays. well i shouldnt say that cuz believe it or not thats all ive ever dated, i couldnt see myself with another fem, but not a a complete rough and tough man either, kind emotional and can be a guy too. but heres my question how come alot of jock guys hate fems, i mean i know alot of fems have acted out and ruined our image by being really mean bitches but im not one of them. so let me rephrase that question would alot of you ever become friends with a fem or have fem friends. cuz i sure have a lot of sweet as pie jock friends and bears lool.