How to flirt with someone you find hot at the gym

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    Feb 16, 2013 6:54 AM GMT
    Just wondering if any of you have ever met someone at the gym and what your experiences with it were. Once in a while I'll find someone at the local "gay" gym that I find attractive and I think it might be mutual but neither of us have the courage to say hi. I'm not really a shy person anymore but for some reason it seems to be an unwritten rule not to flirt with other men at the gym. I'm not sure why, I think it's a better place to meet someone than a bar. And isn't it good to meet someone in a place where you share interests, like fitness in this case?
  • calibro

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    Feb 16, 2013 4:18 PM GMT
    just pull down your pants
  • Neon_Dreams

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    Feb 16, 2013 4:19 PM GMT
    Staring in the shower seems to work... icon_rolleyes.gif


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    Feb 16, 2013 4:25 PM GMT
    If you find a way, hope that you share with the rest of us. I wish more people approach me at the gym (or at all).
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    Feb 16, 2013 4:27 PM GMT
    Duh, you don't. I don't know anyone who goes to our gym to hit on anyone, we are there for the sole purpose of sweating and stretching our bodies with other fit, sexy men.
    Yeah, wait, what was I thinking? Just blow him in the shower.
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    Feb 16, 2013 4:30 PM GMT
    ycyl?
  • HndsmKansan

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    Feb 16, 2013 4:35 PM GMT
    I have... I'm just very friendly, always say hello and have some cute, quippy comment and a huge smile. It generally is returned. We have a new trainer in the gym that I've flirted with...and yeah... I've heard his brother is gay, but not sure about him. He just may be very nice.
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    Feb 16, 2013 6:10 PM GMT
    While we're seriously into our work outs in the gym, at the same time - we're not blind! What has worked well for me over the years (since college, when I started working out seriously) goes something like this: I'd notice a guy kind of checking me out on the sly - I'd be at the bench adding weight - and then just look over at him and say, "Hey man, spot?" After your set, ask him, "Do you want to get some sets in - - - as long as this is all set up? How much weight do you want?" If the guy is hot, you can chat him up a bit while you're spotting each other & changing the weights. If you're getting a vibe during your work out, when it gets time to leave - you could just say, "Want to get a beer (or coffee) some time?" From my experience - - they say "yeah - that would be cool".
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    Feb 16, 2013 6:13 PM GMT
    Jay1922 saidycyl?


    Actually - this isn't true. When you get a few years of experience under your belt, and you learn finesse, you can meet some great guys at the gym - - some of whom might just become dates and boyfriends. Just remember: Nothing ventured - nothing gained!
  • PR_GMR

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    Feb 16, 2013 7:00 PM GMT
    Jockbod48 saidWhile we're seriously into our work outs in the gym, at the same time - we're not blind! What has worked well for me over the years (since college, when I started working out seriously) goes something like this: I'd notice a guy kind of checking me out on the sly - I'd be at the bench adding weight - and then just look over at him and say, "Hey man, spot?" After your set, ask him, "Do you want to get some sets in - - - as long as this is all set up? How much weight do you want?" If the guy is hot, you can chat him up a bit while you're spotting each other & changing the weights. If you're getting a vibe during your work out, when it gets time to leave - you could just say, "Want to get a beer (or coffee) some time?" From my experience - - they say "yeah - that would be cool".


    Great advice. Gonna have to try this next time I see someone hot at my gym. I think it's key to know when to make the approach. Often, I see hot men just being very intense about their workouts and its difficult to gauge when to say Hello.