Hypothetically speaking...

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    Oct 05, 2008 9:53 PM GMT
    What would you do if, hypothetically speaking, you found yourself in the situation of dating two really great guys? Both were really sexy, funny, good company and wanted to be your boyfriend.

    Hypothetically speaking what would you do?
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    Oct 05, 2008 10:02 PM GMT
    hypothetically speaking if they are that similar in that moment i would wait more time trying to find out the big differences between these great guys that finally could help me to decide between one or the other. I would never give any hope to any of them till im completely sure of what i want. Theres no way you can love 2 guys at the same time, and if you dont feel love for any of them then again, give your self some time.
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    Oct 05, 2008 10:05 PM GMT
    redheadguy saidWhat would you do if, hypothetically speaking, you found yourself in the situation of dating two really great guys? Both were really sexy, funny, good company and wanted to be your boyfriend.

    Hypothetically speaking what would you do?


    Propose a 3-way
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    Oct 05, 2008 10:05 PM GMT
    I don't think they would be each other's type - hypothetically speaking.
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    Oct 05, 2008 11:25 PM GMT
    redheadguy saidI don't think they would be each other's type - hypothetically speaking.


    Introduce them to each other.. let them know, i want them both, even better at the same time, but, that they don't need to do anything to each other, just to me.. thus, we will all be satisfied..

    Oh we are talking about you...

    Well your a dirty lil hag, so just wait a week and you'll have two new ones icon_twisted.gif
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    Oct 05, 2008 11:31 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidWell your a dirty lil hag,
    too true

    so just wait a week and you'll have two new ones icon_twisted.gif

    He doesnt have the first two yet.... icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Oct 05, 2008 11:38 PM GMT
    Caslon7000 said
    lilTanker saidWell your a dirty lil hag,
    too true

    so just wait a week and you'll have two new ones icon_twisted.gif

    He doesnt have the first two yet.... icon_rolleyes.gif


    LORL Oh Cas your such a bitch, even more bitchy then I icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 06, 2008 2:00 AM GMT
    redheadguy saidWhat would you do if, hypothetically speaking, you found yourself in the situation of dating two really great guys? Both were really sexy, funny, good company and wanted to be your boyfriend.

    Hypothetically speaking what would you do?


    Hypothetically speaking...

    wake up. Since I've only ever dated one person. No, not "at a time" just... one person.
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    Oct 06, 2008 2:14 AM GMT
    wow, what an embarrassment of riches
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    Oct 06, 2008 2:18 AM GMT
    There was a time when I was dating three guys for about six months... then it was down to just two. They each lived 300 miles away.

    When I'd come to visit for the weekend, I'd spend Friday night with one through mid-day Saturday, then the remainder with the other. They'd visit me on alternating weekends.

    It was a good arrangement for me, but not great for them, so they both wanted me to make a decision, so I did.

    My advice to you would be to continue seeing both of them or even add another until you find what you're looking for.

    You certainly don't buy the first pair of shoes you see at the store now, do you?
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    Oct 06, 2008 3:10 AM GMT
    I agree with BigSETXjock. Keep hypothetically dating both of them. Eventually it'll be revealed which one you fit with better.

    ~Alex
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    Oct 06, 2008 3:14 AM GMT
    redheadguy saidWhat would you do if, hypothetically speaking, you found yourself in the situation of dating two really great guys? Both were really sexy, funny, good company and wanted to be your boyfriend.

    Hypothetically speaking what would you do?


    No need to speak hypothetically; a little over 5 years ago I started this "friends with benefits" thing with a guy (a little younger than me, cute, pretty similar to me, fun in bed) but around the same time this other guy I was becoming friends with (a little older than me, also cute, radically different from me, kinda silly-fun) started putting the moves on me and we started fooling around. They knew about each other, were supposedly both okay with the situation since I wasn't looking for a relationship at the time, and we even hung out together and made a scene or two at the bar.

    Eventually the slightly older guy started to want more and asked me to stop the fooling around with the other guy and couple up with him. The other guy said he was okay with it, wished us well, went on to find a boyfriend himself. But his boyfriend told me later on, after a little tension that I didn't understand, that it was because the one I 'gave up' really liked me and would have liked for us to have been more serious.

    But the bf and I are still together, though the last 5 years haven't been all gumdrops and bliss. And I'm still long-distance friends with the other guy. If there's a point to the story, I suppose it's "take a chance with the one who asks first, because they probably want it more."
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    Oct 06, 2008 3:37 AM GMT

    ....................................................................ambiguous gay duo

    Oh, the suspense, which one will he date and which one will he keep around for easy sex, can't wait to for em to tell me.

    Ofcourse, RedHeadGuy, when you say "date" you do mean an actual night out in public, right?
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    Oct 06, 2008 3:50 AM GMT
    try not to live hypothetically.
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    Oct 06, 2008 4:02 AM GMT

    Hypothetically speaking, I'd have to start dating for that to happen icon_smile.gif


    But if I was in a situation similar to your hypothetical situation, I guess I would see who I have a bigger connection with.


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    Oct 06, 2008 4:11 AM GMT

    Well, he sorta has to if he's dating two guys.

    Like, hypothetically, if he was gonna date Fred at 3:00 and then date Max at 8:00, is there any chance of bumping into Max at 3:00.

    Or, if he was to date Max at 8:00 and Fred happened to see him with a guy and ask RedHead about it later, exactly which relative would RedHead say the guy is?
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    Oct 06, 2008 5:05 AM GMT
    Hypothetically speaking, I'd say you were a lucky bitch and then call you some single descriptive word, say maybe......TRAMP! icon_biggrin.gif But since this is all hypothetical....carry on LOL!!!!
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    Oct 06, 2008 5:18 AM GMT
    1 - I Personally never do that.
    2 - Only date one person at a time.
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    Oct 06, 2008 5:31 AM GMT
    SCOTXY said1 - I Personally never do that.
    2 - Only date one person at a time.


    Not a multitasker huh
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    Oct 06, 2008 5:46 AM GMT
    redheadguy saidWhat would you do if, hypothetically speaking, you found yourself in the situation of dating two really great guys? Both were really sexy, funny, good company and wanted to be your boyfriend.

    Hypothetically speaking what would you do?


    Hypothetically speaking ..........I would flip a coin after I fucked them both!! lol
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    Oct 06, 2008 6:12 AM GMT
    Trust in time to resolve the dilemma. This has happened to me. I usually end up dropping both balls pretty quickly.

  • Oct 06, 2008 7:28 AM GMT
    hypothetically....well whatever.....
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    Oct 06, 2008 10:31 PM GMT
    Well, MM you're probably too busy grinding oatmeal.
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    Oct 06, 2008 10:36 PM GMT
    Date them both until one gives up?
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    Oct 06, 2008 10:43 PM GMT
    redheadguy saidWhat would you do if, hypothetically speaking, you found yourself in the situation of dating two really great guys? Both were really sexy, funny, good company and wanted to be your boyfriend.

    Hypothetically speaking what would you do?


    Hypothetically grow up and pick one or suffer the consequences that I'm going to be told to fuck off by both of them when they find out I've been running the table with this little game of mine emotionally saying... I'll take him.... no him... uh, no! I'll take him. If I couldn't decide then I'm really not ready for a boyfriend.