Fem guys denying homosexuality

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    Feb 19, 2013 10:05 PM GMT
    Do they really think they can get away with being str8??

    I told this really fem guy that I was gay and he freaked out and automatically said he was straight but just acts fem...

    Any experience with these type of guys that are closeted and super fem and think no one knows?
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    Feb 19, 2013 10:08 PM GMT
    Buppi saidDo they really think they can get away with being str8??

    I told this really fem guy that I was gay and he freaked out and automatically said he was straight but just acts fem...

    Any experience with these type of guys that are closeted and super fem and think no one knows?


    lol, I know a few effeminate guys...in fact I went to school with some of them. I'm nearly 58 so do the math. Their kids are all grown up now and moved away. They're still happily with their wives. I think if I told them they're closeted gays they'd have a lot to say to me, and not much of it nice.
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    Feb 19, 2013 10:11 PM GMT
    Yeah, but, they have a right to hide in the closet too. icon_rolleyes.gif

    Of course there's guys like that. There's also fully out-of-the-closet gay men with really deep voices that work construction or whatnot.
  • hanzo83

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    Feb 19, 2013 10:12 PM GMT
    I don't get that at all lol. There was a fem guy on an episode of MTV True Life once who "came out" to his friend. She already knew of course. I can't see how anybody can have such poor self awareness lol.
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    Feb 19, 2013 10:36 PM GMT
    I can't believe u even talked to a fem guy? ew.
    u gave him the time of day?

    I just ignore them and avoid them. Not worth knowing those types.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Feb 19, 2013 10:48 PM GMT
    I think maybe it is possible that some guys are just be prissey
    Many years ago this guy swore to me up and down he was straight ... he even married a woman ... but omg was he nellie as all hell and to boot he had a slender girly figure.

    Another guy I knew, hairdresser, was very effeminate and he had sex with all kinds of men, but low and behold, he married a woman and gave up the gay life. He said he was in love with her.

    Life is strange.
  • HottJoe

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    Feb 19, 2013 10:53 PM GMT
    Is a lisp still considered a speech impediment? Or does it just mean he's a bottom?icon_rolleyes.gif
  • Buddha

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    Feb 19, 2013 10:57 PM GMT
    First of all, I do think there are straight guys who can act "flimsy". I have a couple of friends like that, and most of them are straight to the bone. R. Hah.

    Anyway, I do find it a bit funny when fem gay guys tell their coming-out story and how everyone was so surprised.

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    Feb 19, 2013 11:01 PM GMT
    What's even funnier is people assuming there is a 100% correlation, an unbreakable connection, between being effeminate and being gay.
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    Feb 19, 2013 11:05 PM GMT
    torrentprime saidWhat's even funnier is people assuming there is a 100% correlation, an unbreakable connection, between being effeminate and being gay.


    In my opinion: Plenty of masculine guys are gay. But there are very few truly effeminate guys who I believe when they say they're straight.
  • TheBizMan

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    Feb 19, 2013 11:41 PM GMT
    torrentprime saidWhat's even funnier is people assuming there is a 100% correlation, an unbreakable connection, between being effeminate and being gay.

    I don't think there is a 100% correlation, but there's definitely a strong correlation... maybe 95%? I dunno.. icon_surprised.gif