ripsrain saidOk, so I just left his house after giving my first BJ. I guess I did ok cause he was moaning the whole time and shot a good load...
Anyway, thanks for the advice. I'm hooked...an official cocksucker. Now when someone calls me that I can be proud and not offended.
"Yes, yes I am."
Me, too, I really love to suck cock. Sorry I'm late with suggestions, but you seem to have already followed my Rule 1: Give the guy what he wants, the way he wants it, even if it means ignoring all the other rules. It's his cock, after all, and he knows best what works for him.
Or sometimes he doesn't, never having had a really good blowjob before. That's when you try the other rules, and see what works best for him.
Rule 2: Do NOT try to imitate most porn flicks. They are directed in a way to visually excite & stimulate the audience, not the actor getting the BJ. You'll see lots of licking (which is OK as a warm-up, and certainly yummy to do to him) and mouth sliding on the shaft, which looks great to the camera, but generally doesn't do very much for the dick itself.
Rule 3: Most dicks like a fair amount of squeezing pressure, like you get from a fist when jerking off, or from a tight hole. Create the same thing with your mouth. Here's a technique I use, that most men really enjoy. I've even been able to get them to cum twice rapidly in a row, with barely a brief pause between to catch our breath.
With his cock well in your mouth and your lips closed, suck as hard as you can, and press your tongue up firmly against the shaft. Your mouth will want to draw closed, so you'll have to use your muscles to keep it open enough that the teeth don't bite down.
The result is that his cock will be sucked deeper into your mouth. Then immediately release the suction, and his cock will slide back out a little. Suck hard again, and release again. Continue this rhythmic pulsating action, and his cock will be experiencing a stroking sensation. The hardest thing to master is strong sucking while simultaneously trying to keep your mouth open, to prevent the teeth from making contact.
You may have to bob your head back & forth just a little at first to add to the stroking, but with practice, and strong lungs, you can stroke a guy effectively without moving your head at all. You can also swirl your tongue a little, if there's enough room. It's a reason I actually prefer average to smaller dicks, they allow for more oral possibilities.
I've had many satisfied "customers" over the years who swear by this technique. And I learned it from the guy who used it on me, during my own first blowjob.
Feeling how great it worked on me (I didn't think the orgasm would ever end, it was almost too intense), and going on the principle that a guy will often do to you the same things he wants done to himself, I tried the same method on him. Worked like a charm, he didn't even suspect it was the very first BJ I'd ever given in my life.