Giving my first blow job. How do I do this?

  • ripsrain

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    Feb 21, 2013 4:16 PM GMT
    Hey, met a guy recently that wants me to give him a BJ. I want to but I'm a little nervous cause I've never done it before. Any advice?
    I know this probably isn't the first thread like this.
    What do you like?
  • Hothouse

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    Feb 21, 2013 4:47 PM GMT
    I remember sucking cock for the first time.
    I don't remember being all that concerned about how good I was or if I was doing it right - I was so happy to get my hands and mouth on cock I didn't care about anything else.
    I just did what I'd been wanting to do for a very long time, and the guy I was with didn't have any complaints, in fact, he asked if I was telling the truth that it was my first time.
    Just follow your instincts and do what you've been wanting to do and you should be fine.
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    Feb 21, 2013 5:03 PM GMT
    ripsrain saidHey, met a guy recently that wants me to give him a BJ. I want to but I'm a little nervous cause I've never done it before. Any advice?
    I know this probably isn't the first thread like this.
    What do you like?

    What do YOU like? Ever had a BJ before?

    And has this guy given you one yet? Or might he during this upcoming encounter? Guys will often give the same kind of BJ that they like to receive themselves. So whenever possible I'd try to maneuver us into him blowing me first, which could tell me what I should do for him.
  • Blaboy

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    Feb 21, 2013 5:16 PM GMT
    Think of when you get a bj and what the person was doing wrong and then do it how you would want it done to you . Or have him talk to you while doing it . Make him tell you what to do . Just try not to choke when you go to deep . I like to have mine worshiped nice and slow balls licked and sucked on ,my dick spit on
  • PolaroidSwing...

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    Feb 21, 2013 7:47 PM GMT
    Just do everything she does.
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    Feb 21, 2013 8:05 PM GMT
    Don't bite
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    Feb 21, 2013 8:56 PM GMT
    ever watch any porn?.....get some ideas from that....what would you like? bet it works on him too!
    http://www.pornhub.com/gay
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    Feb 21, 2013 9:17 PM GMT
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    Feb 21, 2013 10:47 PM GMT
    Remember to suck, not blow.
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    Feb 21, 2013 11:03 PM GMT
    This is why it's better to receive than to give.
  • RyanChase

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    Feb 22, 2013 2:33 AM GMT
    Rule 1: Don't Bite
    Rule 2: Make some kind of eye contact
    Rule 3: Use that tongue!

    (Optional) Rule 4: Swallow that hot stuff!

    Pretty much everything else you'll have a good idea about when you have a cock in your mouth..
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    Feb 22, 2013 2:37 AM GMT
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    The only good one is the binky....the rest are not that "safe" for your health!!
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    Feb 22, 2013 2:50 AM GMT
    GAMRican saidRemember to suck, not blow.


    This i dont get why its called a blow job it should be called a suck job,
    keep your teeth out of the way and work the area around his cock and dont forget the balls
  • mybud

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    Feb 22, 2013 3:00 AM GMT
    ripsrain saidHey, met a guy recently that wants me to give him a BJ. I want to but I'm a little nervous cause I've never done it before. Any advice?
    I know this probably isn't the first thread like this.
    What do you like?
    Just don't use your teeth...I got one and thought he was gonna bite it off and swallow it...
  • ripsrain

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    Feb 22, 2013 12:21 PM GMT
    Ok, so I just left his house after giving my first BJ. I guess I did ok cause he was moaning the whole time and shot a good load. His dick was huge though. I had never seen it before so I was surprised. Not so much long as it was thick. I wasn't sure it was going to fit in my mouth. That made me really self conscious about my teeth. He never winced or anything so I guess I didn't gnarl him too bad icon_smile.gif

    Anyway, thanks for the advice. I'm hooked...an official cocksucker. Now when someone calls me that I can be proud and not offended.
    "Yes, yes I am."
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    Feb 22, 2013 8:04 PM GMT
    Whats that saying?

    "Suck, bitch! Blow is just a figure of speech!!"


    Reminds me of the guy who opened a whore house, but didn't have any hookers.
    First customer walks in and pays, goes into a room and waits.
    The owner walks in, sets a frog down on the bed. The customer says "What the fuck is that frog for?"
    "I don't have any girls yet, but this frog gives great head."
    "Bullshit!"
    "If you aren't happy afterwards I'll give your money back."
    The guy agrees and takes off his clothes and gets in bed with the frog.
    The frog just sits there.
    "Well?"
    Owner to the frog: "Dammit! I'm only gonna show you how one more time!"

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    Feb 22, 2013 8:25 PM GMT
    ripsrain saidOk, so I just left his house after giving my first BJ. I guess I did ok cause he was moaning the whole time and shot a good load...

    Anyway, thanks for the advice. I'm hooked...an official cocksucker. Now when someone calls me that I can be proud and not offended.
    "Yes, yes I am."

    Me, too, I really love to suck cock. Sorry I'm late with suggestions, but you seem to have already followed my Rule 1: Give the guy what he wants, the way he wants it, even if it means ignoring all the other rules. It's his cock, after all, and he knows best what works for him.

    Or sometimes he doesn't, never having had a really good blowjob before. That's when you try the other rules, and see what works best for him.

    Rule 2: Do NOT try to imitate most porn flicks. They are directed in a way to visually excite & stimulate the audience, not the actor getting the BJ. You'll see lots of licking (which is OK as a warm-up, and certainly yummy to do to him) and mouth sliding on the shaft, which looks great to the camera, but generally doesn't do very much for the dick itself.

    Rule 3: Most dicks like a fair amount of squeezing pressure, like you get from a fist when jerking off, or from a tight hole. Create the same thing with your mouth. Here's a technique I use, that most men really enjoy. I've even been able to get them to cum twice rapidly in a row, with barely a brief pause between to catch our breath.

    With his cock well in your mouth and your lips closed, suck as hard as you can, and press your tongue up firmly against the shaft. Your mouth will want to draw closed, so you'll have to use your muscles to keep it open enough that the teeth don't bite down.

    The result is that his cock will be sucked deeper into your mouth. Then immediately release the suction, and his cock will slide back out a little. Suck hard again, and release again. Continue this rhythmic pulsating action, and his cock will be experiencing a stroking sensation. The hardest thing to master is strong sucking while simultaneously trying to keep your mouth open, to prevent the teeth from making contact.

    You may have to bob your head back & forth just a little at first to add to the stroking, but with practice, and strong lungs, you can stroke a guy effectively without moving your head at all. You can also swirl your tongue a little, if there's enough room. It's a reason I actually prefer average to smaller dicks, they allow for more oral possibilities.

    I've had many satisfied "customers" over the years who swear by this technique. And I learned it from the guy who used it on me, during my own first blowjob.

    Feeling how great it worked on me (I didn't think the orgasm would ever end, it was almost too intense), and going on the principle that a guy will often do to you the same things he wants done to himself, I tried the same method on him. Worked like a charm, he didn't even suspect it was the very first BJ I'd ever given in my life.
  • Hothouse

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    Feb 22, 2013 8:30 PM GMT
    I'll nominate Art for the Cocksucking Hall of Fame.
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    Feb 22, 2013 8:33 PM GMT
    Hothouse saidI'll nominate Art for the Cocksucking Hall of Fame.

    LOL, thanks! But first try it on a guy yourself, and confirm what I'm saying.
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    Feb 22, 2013 8:35 PM GMT
    buy a cucumber.

    Practice.

    there´s nothing worse than teeth.
  • Hothouse

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    Feb 22, 2013 8:38 PM GMT
    ART_DECO said
    Hothouse saidI'll nominate Art for the Cocksucking Hall of Fame.

    LOL, thanks! But first try it on a guy yourself, and confirm what I'm saying.


    I think I'm quite familiar with the technique. I've been sucking cock nearly as long as you have. I've received some good reviews on my ability - you know there's nothing like an old, EXPERIENCED cocksucker.
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    Feb 22, 2013 8:41 PM GMT
    Hothouse said
    ART_DECO said
    Hothouse saidI'll nominate Art for the Cocksucking Hall of Fame.

    LOL, thanks! But first try it on a guy yourself, and confirm what I'm saying.

    I think I'm quite familiar with the technique. I've been sucking cock nearly as long as you have. I've received some good reviews on my ability - you know there's nothing like an old, EXPERIENCED cocksucker.

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    BTW, I've only been sucking cock since 1995, 18 years ago in 2 months. I was lucky to have had a good first teacher, and in the years since lots of willing subjects to practice on. icon_biggrin.gif
  • Hothouse

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    Feb 22, 2013 8:45 PM GMT
    ART_DECO said
    Hothouse said
    ART_DECO said
    Hothouse saidI'll nominate Art for the Cocksucking Hall of Fame.

    LOL, thanks! But first try it on a guy yourself, and confirm what I'm saying.

    I think I'm quite familiar with the technique. I've been sucking cock nearly as long as you have. I've received some good reviews on my ability - you know there's nothing like an old, EXPERIENCED cocksucker.

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    BTW, I've only been sucking cock since 1995, 18 years ago in 2 months. I was lucky to have had a good first teacher, and in the years since lots of willing subjects to practice on. icon_biggrin.gif


    Damn, Art, I started 17 years before you did.
    I nominate myself for the cocksucking hall of fame.
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    Feb 22, 2013 8:49 PM GMT
    Hothouse saidI'll nominate Art for the Cocksucking Hall of Fame.


    Please don't put that image in my head..
  • thadjock

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    Feb 22, 2013 8:58 PM GMT
    GonzoTheGreat said
    there´s nothing worse than teeth.


    i don't mind some teeth

    at the right time

    in the right place