The silent war between tops vs bottoms both who are vs vers

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    Feb 21, 2013 5:04 PM GMT
    To me i believe sex should be shared, so when it comes tops and bottoms i find it hilarious that some would say no the the other, im not talking about a one off sex with someone, but sex with your husband/bf, if your "top vers" and boyf wants you to top him why say no, why neglect him of something you get, i guess it works both ways, being vers i just dont understand how you could say nope never to someone you're involved with, to me this is a major turn off

    p.s this isnt from experience im just curious what total topsbottoms think about this
  • HottJoe

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    Feb 21, 2013 5:22 PM GMT
    As long as both people in the relationship are fulfilled in their roles then it doesn't really matter if they're vers or not.
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    Feb 21, 2013 5:27 PM GMT
    hmmm, this topic hasn't come up since...idk...last wk?
  • AMoonHawk

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    Feb 21, 2013 5:47 PM GMT
    mormons .... "you shall not lie with man as with woman" .... this is there way around the law ... as long as they don't fuck a man they are safe ... too bad their partner is going to go to hell icon_twisted.gif
  • rnch

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    Feb 21, 2013 7:22 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidAs long as both people in the relationship are fulfilled in their roles then it doesn't really matter if they're vers or not.




    agree.
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    Feb 21, 2013 7:28 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidmormons .... "you shall not lie with man as with woman" .... this is there way around the law ... as long as they don't fuck a man they are safe ... too bad their partner is going to go to hell icon_twisted.gif


    are you joking

  • HottJoe

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    Feb 21, 2013 8:03 PM GMT
    gymfreak1987 said
    AMoonHawk saidmormons .... "you shall not lie with man as with woman" .... this is there way around the law ... as long as they don't fuck a man they are safe ... too bad their partner is going to go to hell icon_twisted.gif


    are you joking



    Yes, I believe he is.
  • HottJoe

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    Feb 21, 2013 8:08 PM GMT
    yourname2000 saidI'm a total bottom, but if my (future) guy wants me to top him every now and then, why not? I still wouldn't consider myself "top/vers" though, because it wouldn't be my idea, I'd just be happy to make him happy.


    So, you're a vers bottom???
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    Feb 21, 2013 8:51 PM GMT
    "p.s this isnt from experience im just curious what total topsbottoms think about this"

    im more of a bottomtop.icon_rolleyes.gif
  • blueyedgrey20...

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    Feb 21, 2013 8:57 PM GMT
    as long as the two guy's are happy it should not matter. to me saying you wont ever top or bottom is kinda well a turn off,it depends on the situation i guess.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Feb 21, 2013 9:26 PM GMT
    HottJoe said
    gymfreak1987 said
    AMoonHawk saidmormons .... "you shall not lie with man as with woman" .... this is there way around the law ... as long as they don't fuck a man they are safe ... too bad their partner is going to go to hell icon_twisted.gif


    are you joking



    Yes, I believe he is.

    No... I'm pretty sure that's why the mormon that I went out iwth wouldn't top me ... he actually eluded to it .. but I could top him any time
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    Feb 21, 2013 9:55 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk said
    HottJoe said
    gymfreak1987 said
    AMoonHawk saidmormons .... "you shall not lie with man as with woman" .... this is there way around the law ... as long as they don't fuck a man they are safe ... too bad their partner is going to go to hell icon_twisted.gif


    are you joking



    Yes, I believe he is.

    No... I'm pretty sure that's why the mormon that I went out iwth wouldn't top me ... he actually eluded to it .. but I could top him any time
    If I laid with a man as with a woman, I wouldn't be able to get a hard on.
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    Feb 22, 2013 2:08 AM GMT
    HottJoe saidAs long as both people in the relationship are fulfilled in their roles then it doesn't really matter if they're vers or not.
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    Feb 22, 2013 2:10 AM GMT
    HottJoe saidAs long as both people in the relationship are fulfilled in their roles then it doesn't really matter if they're vers or not.


    This!
  • JackDoyle

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    Feb 22, 2013 2:12 AM GMT
    I remember when I was younger finding out about tops and bottoms and I was so shocked, I always just pictured in my head that guys would take turns ha
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    Feb 22, 2013 2:14 AM GMT
    JackDoyle saidI remember when I was younger finding out about tops and bottoms and I was so shocked, I always just pictured in my head that guys would take turns ha


    when I was younger I didn't know what top and bottom meant. i actually got confused because i thought that top meant you were sitting on top...and if you were the bottom, then someone was sitting on you.

    lol oh how i learned awful fast.
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    Feb 22, 2013 3:04 AM GMT
    What is so pleasureable about getting a penis up your butt?
  • Timbales

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    Feb 22, 2013 3:06 AM GMT
    I feel that it's only courteous for me to do for/to others what I expect others to/for for me.
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    Feb 22, 2013 3:06 AM GMT
    Finnishboy777 saidWhat is so pleasureable about getting a penis up your butt?



    Prostate look it up

    Oh and on topic Im a top but that doesnt mean to say in a relationship I dont go with the flow. I just love fucking a man that is all
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    Feb 22, 2013 3:20 AM GMT
    You know what i've heard from Bi guys? that when they enter a guy that it feels tight in the beginning but feels void and loose inside. That's why Bi guys prefer vagina. All Bi guys will tell you that vaginal sex is better than anal sex. Sorry gays but your buttsex isn't as great as vaginal sex.
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    Feb 22, 2013 3:22 AM GMT
    Finnishboy777 saidYou know what i've heard from Bi guys? that when they enter a guy that it feels tight in the beginning but feels void and loose inside. That's why Bi guys prefer vagina. All Bi guys will tell you that vaginal sex is better than anal sex. Sorry gays but your buttsex isn't as great as vaginal sex.


    Ah so you are as everyone has eluded too, a troll.
    Interesting you know every single bi man on the planet. The ones Ive met say the opposite.

    Go away little troll go away
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    Feb 22, 2013 3:23 AM GMT
    I love youicon_redface.gif
  • Angelix90

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    Feb 22, 2013 3:27 AM GMT
    My sexual position depends on my partner I'm with. And I top more than I bottom for someone.

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    gymfreak1987 saidTo me i believe sex should be shared, so when it comes tops and bottoms i find it hilarious that some would say no the the other, im not talking about a one off sex with someone, but sex with your husband/bf, if your "top vers" and boyf wants you to top him why say no, why neglect him of something you get, i guess it works both ways, being vers i just dont understand how you could say nope never to someone you're involved with, to me this is a major turn off

    p.s this isnt from experience im just curious what total topsbottoms think about this


    Why is this always a debate? It's kind of simple. Some people only like to fuck, other like to get fucked, other like to take turns. What's complicated about that? Some straight dudes only have vaginal sex with their gf's, some straight dudes like to eat their gfs out and hit it from the back.

    My point being: there is a plethora of sexual preferences, why are people having trouble understanding that?
  • jo2hotbod

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    Apr 13, 2013 4:28 PM GMT
    Can you fuck the plethora?