Could you be in an anal sexless relationship?

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    Feb 21, 2013 5:18 PM GMT
    i didnt know that there are relationships where they never have anal sex, i know sex isnt just anal but i dont think i could do that, but would love if someone who is in one of these relationships explain what its like, and could you be in one of these relationships too> ?
  • HottJoe

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    Feb 21, 2013 5:19 PM GMT
    No, but to each their own.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Feb 21, 2013 6:07 PM GMT
    Yes I was in one ... I doubt I would do such a thing ever again. He had HIV, we were dating .. he got super sick and couldn't just break it off otherwise it would have seemed like I was a total ass (I mean like crippling coma type of sick) ... so pretty much he was super sick about a year and a half and it was just something we agreed on ... he got well for almost about a year (well, as well as can be) the relationship lasted a couple of years then he died. this was about 3 years before the coctails came out.
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    Feb 21, 2013 6:10 PM GMT
    yes if he is worth it .
  • PR_GMR

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    Feb 21, 2013 7:49 PM GMT
    Hell no. I love fucking a man, and getting fucked too. Sorry, but if you wanna date me and don't like anal, hit the road.
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    Feb 21, 2013 7:51 PM GMT
    I think I could. Fucking can be such a hassel sometimes and as long as I am getting my ass eaten, I am good to go.
  • hanzo83

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    Feb 21, 2013 9:43 PM GMT
    I could since I can't miss what I never had lol.
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    Feb 21, 2013 9:47 PM GMT
    Of course. Actually, I prefer it that way. icon_wink.gif
  • Chadfromfw

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    Feb 22, 2013 6:40 AM GMT
    Yea, I could.
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    Feb 22, 2013 7:12 AM GMT
    Yes, I can deal with one. I once dated a guy for maybe 2 months. We both were natural Tops and we agreed that being vers was only reserved for guys we fell in love with. So needless to say, we never got that far, but our encounters were always hot as hell! I never knew I could enjoy sex so much without getting behind his azz :-)
  • SeattleGreenl...

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    Feb 22, 2013 7:17 AM GMT
    Sure, If we were into each other and there was that thing called love- sure.
  • NHLFAN

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    Feb 22, 2013 7:52 AM GMT
    This is a simple to answer....No way in hell. To each his own, but it wouldn't work for me.
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    Feb 22, 2013 9:05 AM GMT
    gymfreak1987 saidi didnt know that there are relationships where they never have anal sex, i know sex isnt just anal but i dont think i could do that, but would love if someone who is in one of these relationships explain what its like, and could you be in one of these relationships too> ?

    Was in one. It was torture because they were not intimate otherwise, either.
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    Feb 22, 2013 7:07 PM GMT
    DarkMatter saidYes, I can deal with one. I once dated a guy for maybe 2 months. We both were natural Tops and we agreed that being vers was only reserved for guys we fell in love with. So needless to say, we never got that far, but our encounters were always hot as hell! I never knew I could enjoy sex so much without getting behind his azz :-)


    Depends on what no anal sex means...can I eat your ass? Will u eat mine? Fingering? massaging? I'm not one who defines my relationships by dos and donts....if it feels good, is safe and were both enjoying it, then it's cool in my book
  • Mmillered

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    Feb 23, 2013 1:32 AM GMT
    If you're really into someone, absolutely.

    Also, Im almost sure that consensual anal sex is a relatively recent historical development. The Ancient Greeks, for example, fucked each others thighs...(that's giving a guy "the ol' Abe Lincoln")
  • RyanChase

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    Feb 23, 2013 2:18 AM GMT
    The blowjobs better be amazing! Thats all I got to say!
  • ADL14

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    Feb 23, 2013 2:31 AM GMT
    Probably.

    Like others have said, there would have to be a whole lot of other stuff that we can do.
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    Feb 24, 2013 4:34 PM GMT
    Mmillered saidIf you're really into someone, absolutely.

    Also, Im almost sure that consensual anal sex is a relatively recent historical development. The Ancient Greeks, for example, fucked each others thighs...(that's giving a guy "the ol' Abe Lincoln")


    No way is it recent. Literature and art show that anal sex amongst men has been around for millenia.
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    Feb 24, 2013 5:30 PM GMT
    That is the only kind of relationship i want !
  • BloodFlame

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    Feb 24, 2013 10:46 PM GMT
    I didn't know other guys felt this way. For awhile, I kept thinking I was the only one who didn't like or care of anal sex..

    I tried it before and it was the most uncomfortable thing imaginable in my short years. I mean, if I found a guy I truly "loved", I would probably try and bottom for him but if I could find a guy who I liked who was only interested in oral/foreplay, that would be great too.

    We could still do things like rimming (love it lol), fingering, massage, and other stuff to keep it fresh and going.