What was the most craziest thing/stunt you did for a guy or girl?

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    Feb 25, 2013 6:10 PM GMT
    For me, I remember when I was first starting out at the gym and I noticed this guy doing lap pull ups. I just blanked out and did not realize that I was totally falling for him even though I've only seen him once. Through out the weeks at the gym, I grew an affection for this person and each time he glanced in my direction (I literally caught him looking at me many times), I, cliche as it is, melted. A funny story that I found to this day such a coincidental thing to say the least. I was working out nearby where he was and there was another man chatting with him. As I was overhearing (eavesdropping) their conversation, the man asked "my man" for his name. My ears flared up like a rabbit. For some reason, I remembered my heart beating so fast after I found out his name, unintentionally but at the same time intentionally, haha. Now he was not somewhat of anonymous person I've grown to like, he had a name!!! I also remember trying to have the courage to talk to him one time. And I did.
    However, what I thought in my head before I went to speak to him was not what I said out of my mouth. Instead of saying, "Hi my name is _____, what's your name?", I said, "Ummm.....Excuse me.....Are you using this machine?" Seriously!! Major fail. But at least I heard his voice saying no to ME! Personally to me. Ahhh.
    I ended up doing the unthinkable. Yes, I facebooked. -_- Perceive me as a stalker but I just wanted to get to know who he was and at the time, it seemed better this way then actually going up to him and possibly making a full out of myself. Unfortunately and fortunately, he indeed had a significant other - a girl . It was bittersweet. A year or so passed, and through out that time, I was attending the gym sporadically but I noticed the guy never showed up anymore. So I was contemplating to myself, okay, you're going to type to him on facebook since you don't see him at all. And I did. I'm not sure if it was the right thing to do, but in my head, I needed to get it out, I mean - YOLO right? I expressed my feelings to this man who I only knew in my peripherals. I poured everything out into that message without having a rational thought. And GUESS WHAT?! icon_eek.gif - he blocked me. icon_neutral.gif Hahh, I did feel perplexed though it was understandable and probably through his lens, a WHAT THE FUCK kind of thought was simmering through his brain. But in the end, I learn to live life with no regrets which is one of the motto's I try to stand by. The end.
    What's your story?
  • Fable

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    Feb 25, 2013 6:13 PM GMT
    lmfao
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    Feb 25, 2013 6:18 PM GMT
    I'm glad you found this thought provoking!!
  • MikeW

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    Feb 25, 2013 8:55 PM GMT
    Cute story, bro. As for myself, I'll have to give that some thought. Have I ever done anything foolish? Well DUH. Who hasn't? I'll think about this in my spare time and get back to you if I remember anything interesting.
  • Bicuriouscool

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    Feb 26, 2013 3:35 AM GMT
    i do have a similar story. i like almost every other guy-muscle, posture, intelligence, coolness, smart etc. so like if someone's muscular i observe his physique while taking care not look like im intrested in him, but ya i m interested in their muscles. point is i dont keep thinking about them forever, the moment they are out of sight i forget about them, but there's this guy in my class,( alias: ki). when i saw him the first day of college i was like oh he's awesome. my feelings for him are exactly similar to yours for that guy. when he msgs me i feel happy, even if i m sad or bored. there was a time when i even used to fantacise about him, which was weird coz i dont fantacise usually. i used to fantacise about a girl when i was in lower grades, but later i stopped fantacising about perticular people, just watch porn and...
    so about ki, its two and a half years but i still m a little obcessed over him, like if he asks for help, i leave all my work, even if thats more imp and help him out first. and if he helps me out my mind is wondering if he likes me too for like next two hours.
    i even had said i love u in the dumbest and most awkward ways. over the internet and text of course not personally, though we meet every working day. he usually ignores that. and yep i have mixed feelings about him being straight too, its good for him and hes lucky he doesnot have have to face the dilemma-wether sleeping with girls is better or boys, apperently u cant have both together, girls are disgusted, boys usually feel cheated when they discover about their partner
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    Feb 26, 2013 5:31 AM GMT
    Bicuriouscool saidi do have a similar story. i like almost every other guy-muscle, posture, intelligence, coolness, smart etc. so like if someone's muscular i observe his physique while taking care not look like im intrested in him, but ya i m interested in their muscles. point is i dont keep thinking about them forever, the moment they are out of sight i forget about them, but there's this guy in my class,( alias: ki). when i saw him the first day of college i was like oh he's awesome. my feelings for him are exactly similar to yours for that guy. when he msgs me i feel happy, even if i m sad or bored. there was a time when i even used to fantacise about him, which was weird coz i dont fantacise usually. i used to fantacise about a girl when i was in lower grades, but later i stopped fantacising about perticular people, just watch porn and...
    so about ki, its two and a half years but i still m a little obcessed over him, like if he asks for help, i leave all my work, even if thats more imp and help him out first. and if he helps me out my mind is wondering if he likes me too for like next two hours.
    i even had said i love u in the dumbest and most awkward ways. over the internet and text of course not personally, though we meet every working day. he usually ignores that. and yep i have mixed feelings about him being straight too, its good for him and hes lucky he doesnot have have to face the dilemma-wether sleeping with girls is better or boys, apperently u cant have both together, girls are disgusted, boys usually feel cheated when they discover about their partner



    Great story man! So how are you dealing with it at the moment?
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    Feb 26, 2013 5:32 AM GMT
    I got front row tickets to a Justin Timberlake Concert.

    I literally wanted to die!!!!! Things we do for love
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    Feb 26, 2013 5:38 AM GMT
    usingname77 saidYou can facebook stalk me anytime icon_biggrin.gif

    I don't know. It could be the time I took a former friend of mine tiramisu the night before his organic chemistry exam, got a hug, and ended up walking home in the rain. Or when I made him a mix CD for christmas.
    There was also this time when I caught this really attractive guy, tan with tight white T-shirt, long bangs, and a baseball cap having awkward eye contact with me over 9 times in the hour and a half I was studying at the library, to which I responded with a small note with my name, number, and "Coffee?" written on it. Needless to say, none of them worked, but the last one I felt like a badass at the time.


    Last one?
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    Feb 26, 2013 10:15 PM GMT
    Darwin1122 saidI normally wouldn't tell this story but this is the anonymous internet so why not haha. Last summer I met a guy on vacation in Jersey through grindr. We went on a couple of dates and got along really well, had some deep convo, made out, and some other shinanigans. Our first "date" consisted of a long walk on the beach at night... it was like picture perfect and I kinda fell for him immediately. I wasn't sure how he felt about me but I thought he might of felt the same way. We stayed weakly in touch for the next couple months (facebook, occasional text). I was afraid things were gonna fizzle out completely so I drove through two states by myself to visit him for 2 days and I told no one I was going. Considering how I'd only been on two dates with this kid I thought it was pretty extreme but it was just something I had to do. We hung out but I didn't get the feeling he was into me like I had hoped and my hopes pretty much fizzled out. We are still in touch and I'll be living in the same city as him in a couple months but I don't think anything will come of it. Oh well, it was worth a shot... in the words of Kid Cudi.. you can't regret it if you were trying.




    Wow. At least you tried something you know instead of not knowing and that is even worst. I give you props. Hopefully everything works out for you.
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    Feb 27, 2013 1:01 AM GMT
    KisukeUkitake said
    usingname77 saidYou can facebook stalk me anytime icon_biggrin.gif

    I don't know. It could be the time I took a former friend of mine tiramisu the night before his organic chemistry exam, got a hug, and ended up walking home in the rain. Or when I made him a mix CD for christmas.
    There was also this time when I caught this really attractive guy, tan with tight white T-shirt, long bangs, and a baseball cap having awkward eye contact with me over 9 times in the hour and a half I was studying at the library, to which I responded with a small note with my name, number, and "Coffee?" written on it. Needless to say, none of them worked, but the last one I felt like a badass at the time.


    Last one?


    Nope, all three didn't really do much. I haven't developed an aversion to romance yet, so I don't think I'm doing too badly
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    Feb 27, 2013 1:29 AM GMT
    Bared my soul in art with friends and acquaintances looking. icon_neutral.gificon_sad.gif
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    Feb 27, 2013 1:32 AM GMT
    Phone-flirted with the guy above me.
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    Feb 27, 2013 1:34 AM GMT
    Flew halfway across the country then took a greyhound bus to meet a guy I had never met in person. Ended up being worth it as he was my first and only boyfriend.
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    Feb 27, 2013 7:17 AM GMT
    Aristoshark said
    KisukeUkitake saidI'm glad you found this thought provoking!!

    Not so much provoking as mildly insane.
    Carry on.


    I replied that comment to another person's response.
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    Feb 27, 2013 1:52 PM GMT
    KisukeUkitake said
    Aristoshark said
    KisukeUkitake saidI'm glad you found this thought provoking!!

    Not so much provoking as mildly insane.
    Carry on.


    I replied that comment to another person's response.


    And Aristo threw shade.

    Deal with it.
  • HottJoe

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    Feb 27, 2013 1:55 PM GMT
    RadRTT saidI got front row tickets to a Justin Timberlake Concert.

    I literally wanted to die!!!!! Things we do for love


    Please, homie, you were probably squealing and throwing your panties at him.
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    Feb 27, 2013 2:15 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidPhone-flirted with the guy above me.

    Whaaa? You're life risking, how do I compare? icon_confused.gif
  • MidwesternKid

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    Feb 27, 2013 2:18 PM GMT
    I was head over heels for a girl my senior year of high school and wanted to ask her to prom in a big way. We were both in the spring musical. One day a few minutes before rehearsal would start, I had a poem on stage leading her to the make up room with a trail of white roses, her favorite. When she entered the room, I had the room lit up with nearly 100 tealights. I had also put signs up on the way that were a play on words with the songs in the show to imply that she should say yes to going to prom with me.

    We did Brigadoon. One song was Go Home With Bonnie Jean, and I made a sign saying, Go To Prom With Scotty V. She said yes but not before crying and smiling like crazy.
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    Feb 27, 2013 2:19 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidPlease, homie, you were probably squealing and throwing your panties at him.
    Um no. But Pink was the opening act and I liked her
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    Feb 27, 2013 2:23 PM GMT
    RadRTT said
    HottJoe saidPlease, homie, you were probably squealing and throwing your panties at him.
    Um no. But Pink was the opening act and I liked her


    Funny. I think of Pink as a bigger star than JT. That must've been awhile ago...
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    Feb 27, 2013 2:26 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidFunny. I think of Pink as a bigger star than JT. That must've been awhile ago...
    2006
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    Feb 28, 2013 12:27 AM GMT
    msuNtx saidFlew halfway across the country then took a greyhound bus to meet a guy I had never met in person. Ended up being worth it as he was my first and only boyfriend.


    I love this story icon_smile.gif
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    Feb 28, 2013 12:52 AM GMT
    I gave him my heart and promised myself I'd never ask for it back.
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    Feb 28, 2013 2:50 AM GMT
    FranciscoC saidI gave him my heart and promised myself I'd never ask for it back.


    sweet!
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    Feb 28, 2013 2:50 AM GMT
    Darwin1122 said
    msuNtx saidFlew halfway across the country then took a greyhound bus to meet a guy I had never met in person. Ended up being worth it as he was my first and only boyfriend.


    I love this story icon_smile.gif


    +2