After a first date, what should you know about a guy if you want to move on to a 2nd date?

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    Feb 26, 2013 4:20 AM GMT
    What works for you?
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    Feb 26, 2013 4:54 AM GMT
    If he's interested in me; If I'm interested in him.
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    Feb 26, 2013 5:41 AM GMT
    When and where should u meet for date two. The purpose of a second date is to continue to find out more about him.

    I've been in two lonngg term relationships and they both happened very quickly...I met them one night...dinner the next night...sleep over cuddle night three and moved to staying over by the end of the week....there were MANY things I didn't know about either Man until much later in the relationship, but I knew in both cases that they were great guys with similar values that I had and were as into me as I was into them.

    Put yourself out there, give all u got and if its not right, you'll know it right away...hit em with everything....family, religion, politics, education, financial philosophy, sexual desires...the answers will point u in the right direction and trust your instinct.

    Good luck! He's a lucky man to get a second date with u! Don't forget that!
  • tuffguyndc

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    Feb 26, 2013 5:46 AM GMT
    well the first one is if he and i are interested in a second date. second, does he have a job
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    Feb 26, 2013 5:53 AM GMT
    What his cum-face looks like.
  • calibro

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    Feb 26, 2013 5:55 AM GMT
    how big his peen is
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    Feb 26, 2013 5:58 AM GMT
    mindgarden saidWhat his cum-face looks like.


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  • BmwKid92

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    Feb 26, 2013 6:03 AM GMT
    hes got a car, time, and a job.
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    Feb 26, 2013 6:10 AM GMT
    k1ng saidhes got a car, time, and a job.


    Btw neither of my two partners had either a car or a job when I met them...
  • BmwKid92

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    Feb 26, 2013 6:11 AM GMT
    Bums. Had a car at age 15
  • tuffguyndc

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    Feb 26, 2013 6:17 AM GMT
    k1ng saidBums. Had a car at age 15
    u probably live in the burbs and need a car. he proably lives in city where there is public transportation and bike lanes
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    Feb 26, 2013 6:22 AM GMT
    k1ng saidBums. Had a car at age 15


    You must have men begging you for a second date then....
  • calibro

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    Feb 26, 2013 6:28 AM GMT
    k1ng saidBums. Had a car at age 15


    i bet you paid for it all yourself too (insurance included)
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    Feb 26, 2013 7:22 AM GMT
    I'm a libra, I sorta interview on the first date.

    If he has a job, a car, stable living situation.
    If he seem not to be bitter about being gay, his past, his ex...etc.
    If he seem to be attractive, tall, slim, fit, you know ..well groomed.

    Of course, provided that he feels the same about me, then it's on for the 2nd date.

  • BeNiHiKoU

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    Feb 26, 2013 7:34 AM GMT
    How much each of us dreaded reaching the end of that very first meeting and how eagerly we'd be looking forward to the next opportunity to reunite!... icon_lol.gif
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    Feb 26, 2013 7:36 AM GMT
    If he hangs out at your house does that qualify as a date? Or did I just skip a shit load of steps?
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    Feb 26, 2013 7:53 AM GMT
    huhwhat saidIf he's interested in me; If I'm interested in him.


    It's as simple as this!
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    Feb 26, 2013 7:53 AM GMT
    Make sure he knew it was a date. Never believed I'd've encountered that issue :/
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    Feb 26, 2013 7:58 AM GMT
    Well it wasn't supposed to be a date... but I think he thought it was... I might have led him on with cooking dinner, letting him sleep over in an extra room and then cooking breakfast... yeah... I done bad icon_sad.gif
  • Beeftastic

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    Feb 26, 2013 8:54 AM GMT
    Do I like his sense of humor, does he seem like he has his shit together, does he make my dick hard?
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    Feb 26, 2013 9:25 AM GMT
    Lo5t5oul5 saidWell it wasn't supposed to be a date... but I think he thought it was... I might have led him on with cooking dinner, letting him sleep over in an extra room and then cooking breakfast... yeah... I done bad icon_sad.gif


    You neglected to mention the roofies and handcuffs...icon_confused.gif
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    Feb 26, 2013 9:34 AM GMT
    turbobilly said
    Lo5t5oul5 saidWell it wasn't supposed to be a date... but I think he thought it was... I might have led him on with cooking dinner, letting him sleep over in an extra room and then cooking breakfast... yeah... I done bad icon_sad.gif


    You neglected to mention the roofies and handcuffs...icon_confused.gif


    Well I didn't think that it mattered... icon_wink.gif
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    Feb 26, 2013 9:39 AM GMT
    If he seems interested in me that's a big plus, but mainly if we are comfortable around each other or not is the determining factor.
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    Feb 27, 2013 10:41 PM GMT
    Does he have a severe food allergy and can I get a life insurance policy on his behalf.
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    Feb 27, 2013 10:43 PM GMT
    His condom size, duh. Regular Magnums or Magnum XL. Anything smaller is unacceptable.