Being the instigator.

  • dude222

    Posts: 3

    Feb 26, 2013 8:35 AM GMT
    Im In a relationship at the moment and I feel like im the first one to text, call, basically the first one to make contact most days.
    Im the kind of person who likes to have even effort from both sides, and this almost makes me feel like he dosent care as much as I do. Should I try not making contact so much or just not worry about it? icon_rolleyes.gif
  • Amira

    Posts: 327

    Feb 26, 2013 2:25 PM GMT
    Just tell him how you feel.. Men are not mind readers so by you wanting to distance yourself because he doesn't get how you perceive the situation will only make things worst. It's simple: "It would be nice if you took the initiative in contacting me more."