Any (serious) advice?

  • RichLather

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    Mar 01, 2013 6:26 AM GMT
    I know this is a 'jock' website, and that I am not a 'Jock'. I am not dumb, I realize I am not fit, but I belong to more than a website community; I belong to the world. I am in my early thirties and cannot get a man to look at me. Being aware of my situation, I understand that I am a bigger guy in Southern California, who is not completely 'out', but I never expected such solitude.

    I believe I am a decent, educated, and sincere man. I am not looking for a pity party or 'fishing' for compliments. I am just ridiculously lonely.

    I am open to supportive criticism and suggestions.

    Thank you for your time.

    Sincerely,

    Rich Lather icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 01, 2013 6:30 AM GMT
    Come out.
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    Mar 01, 2013 6:34 AM GMT
    How about joining a meetup group?

    There's one in your 'hood:
    http://www.meetup.com/GayandLesbian/

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    Mar 01, 2013 6:37 AM GMT
    There's not enough info. Where are you going to meet guys? What does "not completely out" mean? No one is going to notice you if you're too hidden. Find new ways to meet guys.

    Also, get verified. You've been here long enough.
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    Mar 01, 2013 12:31 PM GMT
    Befriend a drag queen.