love or hate being single?

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    Mar 02, 2013 12:33 PM GMT
    I hate being single sometimes...

    I'm wanting to go to NY for my bday but there's really not anyone who is really wanting to go and I don't want to go by myself...

    This sucks. icon_neutral.gif
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    Mar 02, 2013 1:14 PM GMT
    hate ! hate ! hate ! >_
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    Mar 02, 2013 1:17 PM GMT
    love ! love ! love !
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    Mar 02, 2013 1:19 PM GMT
    Perhaps Im weird- I enjoy my alone time. I'd rather be single than stressed out and dating a pain in the ass. icon_lol.gif
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    Mar 02, 2013 1:25 PM GMT
    A close friend can sometimes distract from wanting a boyfriend or relationship. I love my solitude but there is nothing quite like having a guy and knowing he is yours to go places with. icon_neutral.gif
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    Mar 02, 2013 1:29 PM GMT
    Ignorance is bliss for me.
    Always been single so I don't really know what I'm "missing" out on.
    I forsee that I will be single still for a very long time, possibly indefinitely.
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    Mar 02, 2013 1:35 PM GMT
    catchy_screen_name saidPerhaps Im weird- I enjoy my alone time. I'd rather be single than stressed out and dating a pain in the ass. icon_lol.gif






    +1
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    Mar 02, 2013 1:38 PM GMT
    I'm in a content stage right now.
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    Mar 02, 2013 1:43 PM GMT
    While I am fine being single, and generally enjoy the freedom that comes along with it, I currently hate it. Of course this maybe because I am falling for a guy and want nothing more than to be with him at the moment.
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    Mar 02, 2013 1:44 PM GMT
    depends on the day , i like being single though
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    Mar 02, 2013 2:12 PM GMT
    youngRJ1 saidlove or hate being single?


    Yes.
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    Mar 02, 2013 2:30 PM GMT
    Don't get me wrong I do enjoy my alone time but I tend to get sappy and "lonely" when I'm wanting to go out of town or do something fun. I guess I just want someone to "count on" when it comes to running errands or vacay time

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    Mar 02, 2013 2:36 PM GMT
    I hate it...my friends are either in a serious relationship, engaged or married. Meaning, all activities are couple based...want someone to hold, someone to love
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    Mar 02, 2013 2:53 PM GMT
    The question is too simple and irrelevant. Being single is great after a bad relationship. Being coupled is great in a good relationship. I know people who had no intention of being coupled who ended up so, and have loved it. And vice versa. And I know people in sucky relationships who have found happiness. In general, life is difficult. So its really a matter of what you make of it, and how skillfully you can recognize opportunity, maneuver the negativity pit, and feel gratitude.
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    Mar 02, 2013 2:54 PM GMT
    Depends on my mood and the weather. And the sexdrive!!!
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    Mar 02, 2013 3:01 PM GMT
    Both love it and hate it at different times. Right now, I am very happy with where I am at in life, but I wouldn't say no to dating if it was the right guy.
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    Mar 02, 2013 3:26 PM GMT
    youngRJ1 saidI hate being single sometimes...

    I'm wanting to go to NY for my bday but there's really not anyone who is really wanting to go and I don't want to go by myself...

    This sucks. icon_neutral.gif

    I can be single if I must, but prefer having a regular guy. One of my personal mottos is "Thrive where I'm planted". The Army forced that adaptation on me, with my many uprootings all over the map.

    But it doesn't just apply to geographical location, but also to other circumstances. When you're single you make the best of that, exploit it, maximize it, do what only singles can do. When you're with a guy, a BF, an LTR, a husband, you exploit that situation. Your mindset is that you're always making the best of things, never the passive victim.

    You could have gone to NY on your own, by planning ahead to meet guys, having some dates with them. Something a single can do, but not a committed monogamous guy. In life you create your own opportunities, not succumb to the disadvantages.
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    Mar 02, 2013 3:58 PM GMT
    Hate
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    Mar 02, 2013 3:59 PM GMT
    Love it.

    Then again I have never had a relationship with a dude before to know what I miss, but I love my freedom and my friends!

    I mean, if you think about it this way, if you are unhappy single a relationship wont be solving your problems hehe.
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    Mar 02, 2013 3:59 PM GMT
    youngRJ1 saidI hate being single sometimes...

    I'm wanting to go to NY for my bday but there's really not anyone who is really wanting to go and I don't want to go by myself...

    This sucks. icon_neutral.gif

    Hey guy. Happy birthday! Ya, I know exactly how you feel. Special days alone can feel pretty empty but stay up! You sound terrific and a good guy will come along who totally "gets" you. If I wasn't attached and in love, I'd be asking for face pics. But think about this... Memphis isn't too far from Destin so plan a trip down here in a few more weeks when it turns (reliably) warmer and we'll boat and party with the Spring Breakers. You don't have to celebrate your birthday on your birthday. Buy yourself an extravagant meal or cook one and watch a favorite movie with a good bottle of wine (A GOOD BOTTLE!). Celebrate the guy you've become.

    I love being attached (six years). But I loved being single. You'll find the right guy. Dave
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    Mar 02, 2013 4:32 PM GMT
    Never bothered me when I was single. I enjoyed it!
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    Mar 02, 2013 4:35 PM GMT
    I want a dude. I'm single, hate it!
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    Mar 02, 2013 4:42 PM GMT
    GordHunter saidlove ! love ! love !
    I agree 100% because being single means that you can come and go as you damned well please.
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    Mar 02, 2013 4:54 PM GMT
    Ups and Downs, But I would like someone special.

    *Cough Cough*
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    Mar 02, 2013 5:13 PM GMT
    I prefer being in a relationship. A lot.