♪Where Have All The Good Men Gone♫

  • Road89

    Posts: 104

    Mar 03, 2013 10:00 AM GMT
    When I was younger I wanted a wife and 2 kids - because it was normal. When I realized all of that changed for a while. Like I had pushed a restart button. When really it wasn't be starting over as much as it was me turning a page. Now that I have gotten older I still want a family but how can I even bring a family into the picture when I can't find a decent guy. None have I found to want less than sex and more of love. Like a lost boy I wonder through looking for that cabin in the wilderness. The hope of life. The promise of my heart. Does anyone else feel like gays haven't but bed partners to look forward to? Even on here so many are just throwing themselves out there hoping for someone to give them the time of day. Where have we come from - better asked - Where are we going that we have lost our since and desire for real love? I understand that we gays are limited, we don't have as many places to go, not like the breeders. Being so, I understand that there is less room to spread out. I should assume such various expressions on this sightly (though, most are the very same expression of promiscuity). I just...I want more for us. I want normalcy. I don't want to have to shift through so much to find something decent (often time abused and scarred). Does anyone else feel this way?
  • Road89

    Posts: 104

    Mar 03, 2013 10:36 AM GMT
    Thank you so much for showing me this! I guess the quite ones - those who are not easily seen - are the people I have failed to notice, lol.
  • JackDoyle

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    Mar 03, 2013 4:56 PM GMT
  • silverfox

    Posts: 3178

    Mar 03, 2013 5:03 PM GMT
    Nothing like a good generalization to start the day! C'mon man! There are a ton of happy coupled gents here and in the gay community. Let's not go there.

    Take some responsibility for your own situation. Perhaps you need to look inside and figure out why you can't find what you are looking for instead of blaming all of gay-kind! icon_idea.gif
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    Mar 03, 2013 6:02 PM GMT
    Well i think you have to admit you have so much more to experience in order to get a Better grasp on things...

    ...I'll give you a tip.. (not that tip)..

    ..The more Road89 figures out Road89...the more love, life, humanity and sexuality will make sense.

    I guess till then you are still 23 and hot as hell..so..go out make friends..meet men..be safe..be happy. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 05, 2013 9:44 AM GMT
    Anocxu saidWell i think you have to admit you have so much more to experience in order to get a Better grasp on things...

    ...I'll give you a tip.. (not that tip)..

    ..The more Road89 figures out Road89...the more love, life, humanity and sexuality will make sense.

    I guess till then you are still 23 and hot as hell..so..go out make friends..meet men..be safe..be happy. icon_biggrin.gif


    oh you sweet sweet man
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    Mar 06, 2013 1:33 AM GMT
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    Mar 06, 2013 1:42 AM GMT