DO you ever wonder?

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    Mar 04, 2013 4:56 AM GMT
    Do you guys ever wonder if there is another guy out there for everyone?
    I find it hard to meet a guy i like due to well guys i like turn out to be douches then guys that like me are nice but we have nothing in common or turn out to be overly clingy...

    would like to meet a guy that is sane masculine above all and kinda a hopeless romantic lol lame of me but im old fashioned that way?

    any experiences? advice or suggestions?
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    Mar 04, 2013 5:48 AM GMT
    I've had that mind set for a long time, but after being on this website it shows you that there is a huge abundance of different types of guys out there.

    I don't believe there is that one single person who was made for you, because I don't believe that true love is found in the stars or the moon, and that hard work and sacrifices is what love is built on.
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    Mar 04, 2013 11:33 PM GMT
    As soon as you start thinking you want a guy who is like this, this and the other, you start to narrow down the field. Are there any sane, masculine, hopeless romantic guys out there? Of course. How many is hard to say, though. You could be looking for a needle in a haystack.
  • LJay

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    Mar 04, 2013 11:41 PM GMT
    You might try looking for guys when you are doing something, like hiking or playing basketball or attending a discussion group or something. You are a very good looking guy and I can see how you would attract people who would want you just for your looks.
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    Mar 05, 2013 1:09 AM GMT
    'I find it hard to meet a guy i like due to well guys i like turn out to be douches then guys that like me are nice but we have nothing in common or turn out to be overly clingy'


    So things haven't changed in the 39 years since I came out. icon_wink.gif

    Keep meeting people, and not just people you want to have something with. The odds go up in your favour. As well, some of the people you meet will know people they may introduce you to, who may know people who they will introduce you to, who will know people they will introduce you to. Like that.

    Or, one day after meeting so many people and because of that having become good at breaking the ice, you may simply walk up to a stranger, talk, and awaayyyyy you go!
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    Mar 05, 2013 1:17 AM GMT
    I do believe there is. Actually I believe there are multiple guys for each one of us.
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    Mar 05, 2013 1:19 AM GMT
    There's a lot of good advice in this thread. icon_cool.gif
  • JackDoyle

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    Mar 05, 2013 1:23 AM GMT
    klobasnik saidI do believe there is. Actually I believe there are multiple guys for each one of us.


    I like the thought of that. icon_biggrin.gif
  • 1blind_dog

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    Mar 05, 2013 1:51 AM GMT
    I've been talking to a guy like that for three months. We live an hour and a half away from each other in the Rockies. Ski season is so stressful we still haven't been able to meet due to our work schedules.
  • Hotgymguy22

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    Mar 05, 2013 1:58 AM GMT
    I often wonder this myself. I keep telling myself one day!

    You're a good looking guy. It's hard imagining that you have trouble. It's probably because you're really attractive and most people want to objectify you or are intimidated by you. If I lived up in Cornhusker land I'd be trying to take you to dinner or try to do something fun with you like camping or hiking. icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 05, 2013 2:07 AM GMT
    klobasnik saidI do believe there is. Actually I believe there are multiple guys for each one of us.

    So what do you do when you're married to one but you meet the others?
  • Timbales

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    Mar 05, 2013 2:10 AM GMT
    There's no such thing as Mr. Right.
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    Mar 05, 2013 2:16 AM GMT
    nevz said
    klobasnik saidI do believe there is. Actually I believe there are multiple guys for each one of us.

    So what do you do when you're married to one but you meet the others?


    I believe the expression is 'a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.' icon_wink.gif

    The man that you're with is not only one of 'the ones', but unlike the others, loves you is in love with you and knows you. They don't. Nor do you know if they would.
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    Mar 05, 2013 2:30 AM GMT
    Sometimes I wonder why people wonder.
  • DevDev

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    Mar 05, 2013 2:30 AM GMT
    finding someone who is perfect for yourself is all about luck

    if you're lucky you'll find the perfect person for you

    if you're lucky you'll win the lottery

    same thing basically icon_wink.gif
  • nomad4life

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    Mar 05, 2013 2:48 AM GMT
    meninlove said
    nevz said
    klobasnik saidI do believe there is. Actually I believe there are multiple guys for each one of us.

    So what do you do when you're married to one but you meet the others?


    I believe the expression is 'a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.' icon_wink.gif

    The man that you're with is not only one of 'the ones', but unlike the others, loves you is in love with you and knows you. They don't. Nor do you know if they would.


    Plus he was the one who got to you first. Timing is a key in relationships.

    I don't know if I actually believe in a Mr. Right or if I just like to hope in one
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    Mar 05, 2013 2:50 AM GMT
    Hey Wolfish, I'll be your temporary boyfriend until you find a permanant one. OK?
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    Mar 05, 2013 2:50 AM GMT
    In my humble opinion, people tend to focus too much on trying to find the right person and not enough on trying to be the right person. I think there many people out there that could be lifelong companion-material, but a lot of them get filtered out because priorities are out of whack.
  • jo2hotbod

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    Mar 05, 2013 3:02 AM GMT
    klobasnik saidI do believe there is. Actually I believe there are multiple guys for each one of us.


    This I believe to be true and... See below
  • jo2hotbod

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    Mar 05, 2013 3:04 AM GMT
    Seric saidI've had that mind set for a long time, but after being on this website it shows you that there is a huge abundance of different types of guys out there.

    I don't believe there is that one single person who was made for you, because I don't believe that true love is found in the stars or the moon, and that hard work and sacrifices is what love is built on.


    And this is true, it's the two (see above) together
  • 1blind_dog

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    Mar 05, 2013 7:24 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidSometimes I wonder why people wonder.


    ^^^Likin' this
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    Mar 05, 2013 7:38 AM GMT
    The hopelessness in the department of love is so strong now days that its like a huge dark wave covering everything making our individual miracles get lost in the shadows.

    But hey I still believe true love is possible, just fricken hard as hell to acquire!
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    Mar 05, 2013 7:45 AM GMT
    I certainly hope so.

    And I'm fairly certain there are many good matches for virtually every person. Each pairing will offer unique opportunities for mutual growth and satisfaction.
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    Mar 05, 2013 7:53 AM GMT
    MileHighYo saidIn my humble opinion, people tend to focus too much on trying to find the right person and not enough on trying to be the right person. I think there many people out there that could be lifelong companion-material, but a lot of them get filtered out because priorities are out of whack.


    Well said Mr
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    Mar 05, 2013 7:56 AM GMT
    yiboz said
    MileHighYo saidIn my humble opinion, people tend to focus too much on trying to find the right person and not enough on trying to be the right person. I think there many people out there that could be lifelong companion-material, but a lot of them get filtered out because priorities are out of whack.


    Well said Mr


    Yeah, I'd have to agree. This too is another piece of the puzzle.